I saw that with my friend who lost her mum while she was expecting - she had no idea it was about to happen. So she had the baby weight but also the grief. Definitely looked fragile. My mother also lost a lot of weight around my grandmother's passing. She'd been at their place since a few days before, so had nearly starved (they used to contaminate her food with wheat. Even the boxes I'd prepared and delivered to her a couple of times), plus the grief. Then last year the drama with the narcs hit even worse. One of my friends had seen a photo of her holding the Pup when the drama had just begun and had been shocked at the change.
Both my friend and mum have been resembling their mothers that much more since their passings. Even dad looks more like his dad now. But quite scarily, mum looks like my grandmother the way she was looking in her last days.
A guy was telling me recently that I look way younger than I am, so I have been wondering about his sincerity since then
![Face with tears of joy :joy: 😂](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f602.png)
![Face with tears of joy :joy: 😂](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f602.png)
I haven't even applied night cream in a couple of years because those are expensive!
I'm sorry for your grief
Smegs looks positively annoyed and like she's smelling something nasty. Her own mouth, maybe? My narc uncle's narc wife makes the same face. Narcissa Malfoy, except she at least loved her son, IIRC.
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In the first pic the baby's arm looks ....flat?
![Winking face :wink: 😉](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f609.png)