Actually, it is just this kind of trigger-like hypersensitivity that is tearing us all apart.
But that is not the title and calling a woman a hooker. Some of you are worst than men.
I appreciate you having an intelligent discussion and trying to explain the difference between UK and America, but I've been watching a lot of UK Chat shows lately. One is where Dr. Shola is trying to explain what racism looks like for her in the UK because she lives that experience every day. The hosts are trying to gaslight her.The UK tries to gaslight people of color for what racism is. All I wish is for White folks to stop telling People of Color what racism is. It is like a man trying to tell a woman giving birth is easy. They may be Queuing up but your government is not having them. they're shipping off people to Rwanda.
This is how selective empathy works. Just stop.
Life is hard.
It is hard for many people for many reasons. Maybe Dr Shola feels that her race makes others treat her differently. But we are now in a stage of empathy greed. Many of us are exhausted by the constant demand that only certain people’s hurts must be our only societal focus of attention…in jobs, in admiission to schools, in $200,00 per person reparations. History shows there was plenty of cruelty to go around.
Pain, discomfort, hurt, feeling the ‘other’ is not exclusive to race. We are tired of the cancel culture, the grievance safaris, the demands that never end, and the insensitivity to other groups by virtue of this Woke overkill.
i mean it…look around. There are childless women who COULD feel ‘othered’ by Mothers and their babies in the playground…there are struggling families that COULD feel othered by their economic hardship…there are children who COULD feel ‘othered because scholastically they cannot keep up in the classroom…there are people with crippling visible illnesses who COULD feel othered by lucky healthy folk they encounter.
I say ‘could’ because to a certain extent, it is a personal decision to feel ‘othered.’ I could be ‘othered” by your derogatory use of “White people.” I am MORE than my skin hue, thank you. As i am sure you are more than yours.
My Black goddaughter just corrected a colleague of hers, that insinuated in a work meeting that her opinion MUST be the same as his. She told him privately and gently…never to assume to know her politics or opinion by the color of her skin. That’s my girl!
As for what ‘white people’ should learn…I think the burden is on all of us HUMANS to try to stuff the identity politics, and the Woke selective pity party and instead…look at each other as individual humans and care for each other where we are individually hurting.