For one nano second I almost got suckered in to feeling sorry/empathising with the gruesome twosome about wanting to leave behind the wicked tittle tattle turnip set that is our aristocracy - and then I remembered the shenanigans that they've been up to, continue to get up to and the sort of people they are probably mixing with now. Hell mend 'em.
@Oona was right, it's probably going to take a prodigal son scenario before Harry can come back - before he wants to return and before he will be welcomed by the people. Let's face it, it took the prodigal son having to descend to the depths of the pig pen, wallowing in pig poo and eating pig food, before he was able to see the depths of his own depravity and then actually become remorseful of the way he treated his father and family before asking for an opportunity to work for a living - not even a return to his original position. Harry will need that level of insight and humility. And let's face it, as parents and as a human beings when someone is truly repentant no one wants to cause further hurt but to heal.
But as yet, it is still tough love that is required. Spread your wings and fly, you charmless chumps, you pair of lemmings...
p.s. hope
@Yorkiejules is ok