Growing_our_tribe

[Beige Mama]

So she’s willing to pay to fast track an autism assessment but not surgery with an ENT. Fucking disgrace of a mother. I’m blocked by her but I wouldn’t be able to help myself inboxing her to tell her to pull her head out of her ass and get that poor child the help she needs.

Like others have said I feel like Grecian wants her to be Autistic for more headpats and hashtags that could bring in cash. God forbid a simple hearing fix improve her child’s speech or behaviour

 

[savefloss]

No need to show your baby on a potty. Influencers are really such a low IQ generation.

Omg just as a general rule..if you have to put your hand up to cover your child for a photo op..that should be a red flag to you as a mother. Jeez she keeps getting worse

 

[savefloss]

Hey Grecian, if you had Riley assessed and diagnosed younger she’d probably qualify for a special school and you wouldn’t have to watch her struggle amongst her “able” peers and have the support she obviously needs… oh wait, you couldn’t be fucked…

 

[MrsEyeroll]

Yeah that poor little girl desperately needs specialist support from a special needs school. The gap in ability between Riley and the rest of the cohort is only going to grow. It’s actually unfair to the rest of the kids for their teacher’s time to be spent helping Riley with her physical needs, especially if the learning expectations in the curriculum are well above the capacity Riley will ever be able to achieve. Sadly it’s a reality check that Grecian needs to have. Also it really shocked me that she’s only 32 years old. I thought she was way older lol

My daughter is special needs and I totally agree! She did preschool at a mainstream school and the principal rang me at the end of the year to have an honest chat. And it was that they will ofcourse support her as much as they can but it would be a disservice to her. They were quite happy to keep her and support her with every effort they could but the reality was she wasn't going to be able to keep up and it wouldn't have been fair to her or the other kids as well because of the levels of support she needed. It's a hard pill to swallow but these decisions need to be made in the best interest of your child and not on how it makes you personally feel. It seems like Grecian doesn't believe or can't accept that Riley needs to be in a specialist setting which is sad because she could absolutely be thriving. I hope this doesn't come across poorly but my daughter has a much lower level of disability than Riley and she was verified by the government for a place in our special school. I have absolutely NO DOUBT in my mind that Riley qualifies for special school and that she NEEDS to be there.
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Oh and I should also mention that a special needs school is such an amazing place for a child to grow! Tiny classes, soooo many programs a d different ways of learning. The support is second to none and the community is beautiful because every parent is going through similar and at varying degrees. I honestly feel like Grecian thinks Riley is too good for a special needs school as if it's some big scary place. It's hard to accept in the beginning but you don't hold them back and disadvantage them because you have your own views.

 

[Michy02]

Why is she not declaring her hideous fashion posts as ads? I know it’s the least shitty of her shitty behaviour but come on.

Why does Grecian try to position herself as some sort of fashion influencer. Her clothing style is so fugly and I notice she always op shops for kids toys and clothes but she’s in brand new items she’s grifted. Makes me sick

 

[Bizziebody]

Has she deleted the posts re; prams? 🫠

She should delete her whole insta account, she's a grifting slug.

 

[screenfreelookatme]

I will never get over the fact that she has an older sibling and a literal twin. Developmental milestones and timelines should be very familiar. Especially I think if you’ve got a premmie?

I get that wait times for certain specialists are crazy long, but a lot are triaged. Also, maybe WA is different, but in my state, paed physiotherapists are actually really easy to see with no wait. We also have free physio (and speech) drop in sessions at the child health clinics that are available from 0-5 years. I assume most states offer similar? Or regular GP checks? I just can’t understand how this was missed. Poor Riley will probably feel the implications for the rest of her life.

 

[Kalesmoothie]

i’m quite tattooed and they are not cheap.
i also have a kid with multiple disabilities. pre kids, id get tattooed regularly. post kids especially post diagnoses where i now cannot work & attend kinder with him, it’s lucky to be once every other year. i don’t have the time as a full time carer (yes grecian, full time as in all day every day with no breaks), and any surplus funds we do have goes towards our kids... after school things, cost towards things ndis doesn’t cover, family outings… She truly is my most hated person on instagram. fucking selfish and pathetic. Riley especially deserves so so so much more.

 

[uglyguccislides]

Making your nil by mouth child pretend to have a delicious drink because mama needs to make content. Just in case you’re feeling bad about your parenting today…

 

[emmygluewho]

Does she read here? Or have other people also pointed out how grossly exploitative she is being with her sick, disabled child? View attachment 1359174

Oh shutup Grecian you useless Mother.

You did this for nothing but engagement.

Get off Social Media. Get your daughter some help.

Truly, she is disgusting.

 

[anothermummyrant]

Grecian you’re fucked in the head. Burn your phone and get help.
Call beyond blue or lifeline! Not story your mug on the floor to strangers. People aren’t dumb as you think! Of course we’re not alone but who needs to see your shit to prove that?
Her shit is unreal.

 

[adelaidewallflower]

Genuinely curious as to why if she has such debilitating symptoms related to her PTSD and anxiety that she’s not getting weekly or bi-weekly therapy?

If these conditions affect her day to day functioning as much as she says then I’m blown away as to why she is not seeking professional help.

I know she was having counselling after Maisee was born but it seemed to be for a defined period. The way that she talks about it I honestly think that regular treatment should be at the top of her priority list.

And I get that there can be time and financial restraints but she managed to find time to be at the hair salon regularly for her sponsored content and if it was me I’d find a way to scrape the money together to regularly see a private psychiatrist or psychologist or get on the waiting list to see a public psychiatrist.

 

[usemycode]

She’s so boring. She’s not inspiring, her content isn’t providing education or entertainment or any substance. If she was a spice she’d be flour.

 

[usemycode]

She never stop complaining about her children, Grecian maybe you are the issue.

But she had time to film herself she needs to stop. I wish someone would take her phone away from her.

 

[savefloss]

I know temps can just pop up out of nowhere but this didn't! That baby has been sick for a week and she actually took her to the hospital when she visited Riley. For somebody who's so scared of germs and her family she clearly doesn't give a flying fuck about anybody else?!

Bet all the other parents in the ward with sick children are absolutely thrilled she brought the influenza infected baby along for the visit! I cannot fathom taking a mirror selfie at any time, but especially not whilst my child was in hospital..wtf

 

[adelaidewallflower]

Someone on the thread said she won the tattoo in a competition. Still wasted time getting it though & it's fugly.

I could let it slide based on her claim that she won it in a competition. BUT she has said this afternoon that she’s already booked in for more tattoos (presumably as a paying customer).

I’m actually disgusted that she could think it’s remotely appropriate to be paying for tattoos when she could use that money to pay for consultations, assessments and surgeries with private consultants and surgeons. NO. Instead she prefers to throw that poor child to the wolves and at the mercy of the public health system. A system that we all know is broken. A system that she will claim allowed her child to “fall through the cracks” yet again. A system that is slow and flawed. A system that she doesn’t need to rely on.

Grow up Grecian, pay attention to your children and pay for the help that they need. Don’t expect everything to be a fucking handout.

 

[usemycode]

Grecian is revolting. She needs to stop sharing every moment of Riley’s life. There are so many red flags here. This is more about what Grecian is feeling and going through than her daughter. I don’t believe she shares this to help others or so people feel less alone. This is all for attention and sympathy for Grecian.

 

[screenfreelookatme]

Too busy working on having a 'healing baby' & posting about her IVF journey to notice the poor girl wasn't thriving AND she had a twin to compare her to. The mind boggles.

I just don’t get it. We had the six week development check for our baby today and you go through so much. No doubt even more with premmies. I know they don’t pick up everything, but Riley’s issues are significant. Plus she has an older sibling and a twin to compare her to?!

 

[savefloss]

Let’s play a game of ‘spot the gifted hashtag’

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That brand must have slim pickings for influencers. Everything she models of theirs looks so dowdy and awful

 

[adelaidewallflower]

Anyone else think that once the baby turned 1 she kicked it up a notch with the disability/ sickness content. Ie, baby content will be running out soon and she needed to get the likes: attention/ sympathy with something else?