Grimwade Family #5 How to marry a bum and use our mixed race kids as income

[Gomo]

He’s a terrible husband and not a good father but Ella will never admit that cause she will always praise him cause everything she says and does is to impress him and stay on his good side. Even in the in moments were she might throw a bit of shade or sort of call him out for certain things without actually using his name but she’ll say how tired she is doing so much and needing help so she hints at him that he needs to help so they can work as a team but all of that goes over his head and he’s like ‘ you’re superwoman you do everything so well by yourself’ so it’s like he praises her for doing everything and then she enjoys the praise from him calling her a good wife so she puts pressure on herself to be perfect at every single thing and do everything by herself but then she moments she realises how overwhelmed and unhappy she is which is why she uses the videos as a way to express that in the hope that Tim magically turns into a hands on husband and father who does his fair share of the work if not more cause he should be that eager to do things. She never gave her body a chance to properly heal and rest and her waddle walk is still so bad there’s no improvement in it so her body is crying out for help.
Yeah after having a baby life has to go on when you have other kids to take care of too I get that you can’t just lay around all day BUT they are in a very lucky situation that they don’t have to work all they do is make videos so both parents at home meaning he could of spent some more time with the kids and taking care of them and given Ella a little break here and there so she could bond with Halo and rest. He isn’t a good dad at all , he thinks his stupid meaningless lectures and living through his sons putting his dreams of being famous into their minds , is his way of being a good dad but really he’s an awful father. He uses the excuse of taking the boys to football for everything. When Ella was really unwell with morning sickness and they made that video of them all trying to run the house cause Ella obviously wasn’t able to and Tim really struggled. He was stressed , overwhelmed and left everything to Hosanna to take care of. He would of had a breakdown in Costco with all those kids and Houston’s temper tantrums. Don’t get me wrong Houston is badly behaved and would easily stress anyone out but he doesn’t even spend time bonding with her trying to calm her down.
It’s hard to feel sorry for Ella cause she chose to marry him cause she wanted a white man and wanted those mixed kids. She chose to have all those kids so she should of though about how much hardwork it would be taking care of all of them. Tim is selfish and he should of had a vasectomy because we can all see his wife isn’t happy with another baby yet he is doing nothing to help her. I can see her getting pregnant again but I really hope she doesn’t. I don’t like Ella either but she does wayyyyyy more than he does cause he does nothing. That marriage isn’t as perfect and happy as they make it out to be. I’ve got the vibe lately he’s lost interest in her a bit I don’t know if it’s to do with her appearance with her body after having a baby or they don’t spend that much time together cause he’s always with the boys or hanging out with camera man who apparently is his gamer friend I think someone said so he definitely plays video games with him a lot at home while Ella is doing housework or with the kids so she’s with the girls more at home and he isn’t there to support or help. He seems to be distant and I think she picked up on it and it’s been bothering her and making her insecure. Obviously that’s not something I’d wish on anyone to feel especially when your husband should care if he sees you overwhelmed with life and needing help. The fact Ella mentioned in one of their recent videos that she would love to go on holiday just her and Tim it’s clear some spark in their relationship isn’t as strong as it was and she’s desperate to keep his attention.

Yeah well was for sure trying to 'fix' something with that trip. Who thinks about having a weekend away and actually does it so soon after having a baby and moving to a new house? The baby still smells like uterus and no one has a bed, but yeah let's go have a random weekend away.

I wish they would take the kids on a trip. If nothing else it would be actual content for once. I don't think I've ever seen a family vlogging channel where the parents haven't, not even once, took their kids on a trip.

Just odd.

Oh and did Ella say she and Tim didn't go grocery shopping because Tim wanted to go play tennis? What! Him playing tennis with a buddy is more important than having food for his children to eat? Crazy.

 

[Grandmaangles]

Are they serious? Homeschooling at a David Lloyd lol

They’ve read these comments and others are starting to notice there is no homeschooling going on, and Tim had the nerve to say he’s there working. Working on what uploaded late videos he held on to? He’s so behind when the actual event happens you will forget all about it.

 

[Honestgirl]

They obviously was trying to get the tv for free or at a reduced rate but when it didn’t happen they came up with the oh it’s the last one in stock. Of all those TVs in there you just happened to pick the one that was out of stock lmao, they know their subscribers are dumb as hell so that story will def fly with them. They brought all 7 kids to the store because they thought the store workers would fall all over how cute they are, I’ve bought a few TVs in my life and never have I ever seen a family this big buying no tv, you leave the kids at home,if the tv was in stock how were they going to get it home? Why wouldn’t you buy the tv online and have it delivered? Ugh they just lie so much there’s no sense in asking any questions I’m done.

It was obvious as u said. Wanted it free or heavily discounted. Their commenters are beyond stupid I think the comments are fake. They are cheap skates poor as a mouse and stupid too

 

[SpeaktheTruth21]

Is Ella appearing on Rupaul's drag race?
So they claim to be a 'christian family' yet she's sitting there cleavage all on show, what would her pastor say.

So for those who think Ella looks strange in these last 2 Instagram photos posted on here… well… Looks like Ella’s got the FACETUNE Photoshop fever!!! Those two photos definitely look like the have been "Photo-shopped!"
It appears Ella is using FACETUNE an app that allows you to “PHOTOSHOP” YOUR FACE.
In fact, Ella began using some sort of facial photoshopping app as their popularity increased in 2021. It was very obvious in the Instagram post where she relaxed her hair.
With Facetune you can widen your smile, brighten your teeth, smooth out your skin, emphasize your eyes, apply makeup, and even reshape your face to look more defined.
So take a look at the following photos in these last 2 Instagram posts of Ella, its obvious something is OFF.
IT LOOKS LIKE SHE MADE SEVERAL “ENHANCEMENTS” TO HER FACE !
Here are a few that I can see…
1.Slimmed down/Lengthened her face - it looks like Ella may have slimmed and lengthened her face, notice how far back her hair line is, in both photos. (Ella does not have a slim face... see old photo #4 and 5)
2.Enhanced shape of her eyes - notice the corner of Ella’s eyes have been lengthened horizontally to create a more almond shape.
3.Eliminated her NASAL FOLDS (i.e. nasolabial folds) ( See photos 3,4 and 5 to see the difference)
4.Smoothed out the Forehead creasing. In other photos the forehead creases appear whenever she raises her eyebrows. (see phtos 3,4 and 5 below.) Notice the start of the wrinkles in the upper right hand of her face but they suddenly disappear.
5.Smoothed out/Eliminated - Eye folds. Again look at the other photo in the orange dress.
6.Modified shape of her nose, - not sure but it seems she’s modified her nose, but could be makeup shadowing technique.
7In the Photo with Tim & Ella in the car, does that even look like Ella? Did she resize her body??
8.Repunzel blond hair weave…. SMH…

Again.. the EPIC HYPOCRISY. Ella is Always preaching self love to daughters & her subscribers and here she is on social media photoshopping her face.
HERE ARE THE 3 RECENT PHOTOS & the LAST 2 ARE OLD PHOTOS SO YOU CAN SEE THE DIFFERENCE.

the first two photos hve definitely been phtos shopped.

 

[rhondakaren]

His obsession with always having a football with him is very weird. I’m waiting for the day he trips over , trips someone else over or trips and drops the baby cause he’s putting himself and other at risks of injury. He’s so full of himself that he doesn’t even think about the risks but it only takes a second for an accident to happen. Shame on Ella and Tim for allowing the boys to take a football with them everywhere they go because they’ve caused their sons to have a strange attachment to a ball. It’s not normal behaviour and Rue does it too. Every family photo is ruined cause those footballs are in every single one. I’d honestly be concerned if god forbid Heze injured himself badly like his leg for example and couldn’t play football for a long time or never play professionally cause injuries can cause that to happen. I don’t think Heze would mentally be able to handle not playing football cause he’s so obsessed with becoming a professional footballer that’s all he thinks about and all his family expects of him is to be famous. I’m not meaning to sound like I’m hating on the kid but his personality is honestly so boring cause all he talks about his good he thinks he is at football and he doesn’t talk about anything else. They really shouldn’t have him just rely on football cause an injury can change your life and you want to know you have an education to fall back on if you need it.

I think the parents are afraid to tell him it’s not healthy to carry a football everywhere because they’re terrified he might find interest in something else. This is their retirement, their meal ticket and their mortgage payments. If he doesn’t make it they’ll have to actually work to take care of all those kids. The immense pressure this kid is under to be a professional footballer will not end well for him. There are kids who are prodigies at certain sports but never ever have we seen them walking, running, sleeping, eating, showering and going everywhere with the equipment for said sport, it’s ridiculous and unhealthy and I’m sure it causes his teammates to look at him funny.

 

[sanaew]

No Tim, you’ve just got a ego and are delusional xx

 

[account70032]

Wow. They couldn’t even give their kids a fun holiday in Spain

I know it’s really sad but in order to have a fun family holiday with your kids you have to enjoy being a parent and actually like spending time with your kids. Ella and Tim probably were hoping Ella’s mum would offer to look after all the kids cause Ella hinted a few times about how tired she is after having a baby even though she and her husband made her choice to keep having babies to make money and needs a holiday and her mum watches the videos so I bet she hoped her mum would take care of them for a week cause both Ella and Tim hinted about how they wanted to go on holiday as a couple. They really didn’t want a holiday with the kids cause they were hoping to get away from the kids as sad as that sounds. They’re both very selfish and expect everyone else to do all the hard work for them when it comes to being a parent.

 

[TheCutiePatootie]

They missed their niche during COVID lockdowns.

They would have gained so many followers who were trying to figure out how to properly homeschool their children and keep them entertained at home.

But because they are lazy and don't actually homeschool their children, they let the opportunity pass them by.

It's the summer holidays. Drive your kids to the beach, go for a hike, camp outside your backyard... There are so many fun things to do with kids for content. Especially when the parents do not have actual jobs.

 

[Miss.Chanandler.Bong]

Wouldn’t it have been nice for grandma to get a holiday too as a thank you for all she does

 

[Miss.Chanandler.Bong]

Those girls should not be doing things like that were they’re flipping Harper over because one of these days Harper is risking hitting her head and god knows what serious injury that could cause. I honestly held my breath when her head almost hit the floor it was so close and it made me very uncomfortable to know that they will continue to do that move which is clearly dangerous. Ella and Tim really don’t care cause all they want is more followers and views on their Instagram videos for attention.
Also I agree with the person who said Heze is a smug kid who thinks he’s better than everyone else. He’s not a team player either he seems to find it very hard to appreciate his sisters being good at something or winning something cause he wants all the focus on him. To be honest I can’t blame him for being that way because he’s always been treated as the favourite child who is the star of the family and he’s constantly told he’s the most talented which make him believe he’s better than everyone else. The way he acts with the food he eats too for a kid his age I actually find that sad that he can’t just chill out and eat a packet of crisps or a chocolate bar for one day but instead will act all healthy and judge his sisters food choices when we all know he wants the same food as them but he’s constantly trying to get praise from Tim by being the child who is different and perfect in every way. It’s Tim and Ella’s fault he acts that way and to be honest most of their kids act like that very attention seeking and a lot of jealousy between them all. I do think Harper is the sweetest out of all the kids but I don’t know if she will always be that way the older she gets and the more she wants to compete with her sisters.
They have ruined Rues personality and it’s so sad. You can tell he doesn’t have a genuine love for football it’s just something that was forced on him and in his mind he thinks boys play football , Heze plays football so this is what I’m also meant to do. He wants to be like Heze in every way and it’s not in the normal way of looking up to an older sibling this is more just that his parents have constantly compared him to Heze and tell him don’t you want to be as good at football as Heze etc.
If they hadn’t forced football onto Rue, I know that kid wouldn’t of been interested in football that much but instead of letting him find what hobby he does love they just are desperate for a son to be a professional footballer so that child never stood a chance to just be himself and choose what he likes to do.
Also I’d love to see Tim run around that field for as long as Rue was or even longer cause there’s no way he would be able to. He acts like he’s this talented sportsman who’s coached professional teams it’s so embarrassing. You could tell Rue was so tired too but he wants to impress Tim and stay on his good side cause you can tell how much pressure Tim puts on the boys to be perfect.
Also if you look at the pictures Tim and Ella take for Instagram they try act like they are a celebrity couple it’s so cringe.

If you watch early videos of Reu he had a love of power rangers and cars. But he’s not allowed to have his own personality

 

[account70032]

it’s educational neglect . They are neglecting the kids of one thing that can help them escape their situation one day, help them better themselves , socialise & possibly get help from a outside source. It’s quite bold how the parents display their neglect online for all to see…..

It’s awful how they get away with doing this and how much they’re holding those kids back in life. When Tim said before that whenever they’re out in public and the kids see other kids all they do is freeze and stare at them and don’t talk cause they’re not used to seeing other children, I don’t know how any parent can say something like that so causally and not think to themselves hold on that’s very weird that our kids act like that so we should do something to change it instead of continuing to isolate them from other children.
Those kids are the ones earning the money and they don’t even realise it cause their parents are so sly and selfish. Also Heze needs some serious help because carrying around that football 24/7 is very odd behaviour.

 

[rhondakaren]

These two haven’t even made it home yet!
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Kids still sleeping on the floor months later, smdh! These two are pathetic.

 

[Foxybrown]

Does that mean what they have earnt in total or per month sorry I don’t understand


All they do is kick a ball. The girls and boys all day everyday. It’s truly not normal

Their day consists of going to David Lloyd Gym for tennis & occasionally swimming, Heze football/ & or Reu playing football in the house, girls windin their hips to inappropriate songs, going to Costco, occasionally kids get a burger/chicken meal out, & Ali G & horse nostrils thinking their Jay-Z & Beyonce out for a posh meal/drinks...uploading cringe IG posts of them looking into thin air with Ali G making 'sexy eyes ' & Ella with her tits out, throw in a few mindless prank videos & occasional outings to the park, that's pretty much their content,... geeze.... & I thought my day was boring .....oh yeah forgot the Claires accessories outing for hoop earrings & Primark videoing in the changing rooms.

 

[Foxybrown]

She can starve herself as much as she wants & be a size 8 for all I care, but she'll still have the same lax attitude towards her kids emotional well being & pander to that stupid husband of hers

 

[LondonFogFamily]

WHEN ARE THOSE CHILDREN GOING TO GET A PROPER EDUCATION??????

 

[Chez300]

I’ve never seen parents who are so spend happy for themselves and so tight with the children to the point they don’t have basic needs (education, beds etc). Makes me think back to safeguarding training, neglect isn’t always shown by dirty/unfed/unclothed children

 

[Iseeinternet]

AND already spending big money at LV. If they were really doing all this for their 'love' and spending quality time together, it wouldn't be on insta. They would put away all phones and just enjoy their time without kids. They're trying to prove something...wanting everyone to see they're getting big money. I wonder how Ella's mum feels looking at their insta stories (coz I know she has insta).

 

[Jovan]

Sorry this is so long but those girls don’t get to have a hobby like how Heze does cause those girls get nothing and it’s incredibly sad. Heze’s hobby is cause they hope it’ll turn him professional and make them money but also the sponsorships that Heze has revived through football is another thing that keeps them pushing Heze keep going and it’s disgusting how parents can use their child like that while the child is completely unaware of how selfish and greedy his parents are.
All the time and support goes into whatever Heze does and they were quick to sign Rue up for football and get him his boots and try turn him into another Heze while the poor girls are the boys cheerleaders. The hobbies the girls did with dancing in the past didnt make Ella and Tim money or bring attention to the family so no surprise the girls don’t get to do anything like that and are used to make Instagram content. Growing up I did hobbies and had a main sport I played and so did my brother and we were always treated equally and received the same support with either one or both of our parents coming to watch us sometimes and I am grateful for that so I can’t imagine what it must be like growing up in the grimwades house with no toys to play with which sounds awful cause as a kid I looked forward everyday to playing with my bratz dolls and Lego but those poor kids don’t know what that’s like.
They’re not allowed watch tv so not getting to enjoy Disney films and the things that are part of childhood cause tv shows can teach you things but also just fun and they’re not allowed have a hobby cause their brother is the star and gets all the attention and time which will most likely lead to friction between the siblings as they get older leading to unhealthy relationships and bitterness and their parents will be at fault for that.
Sounds like a miserable childhood to me they have no fun and sorry if this sounds horrible but like I said before the kids are boring with no personality they don’t know how to have fun they seem very lost and awkward and like someone else said they are very annoying but I can’t blame them for that cause it’s Ella and Tim’s fault.
I can tell it’s Tim who has the made the rules with tv etc cause Ella spoke happily reminiscing on when she was younger watching tv shows during the day but then quickly said “ but we prefer our kids to be productive so we don’t allow them to watch tv” no Ella it’s TIM who is controlling and won’t allow that and instead of standing up to him years ago you just did whatever he tells you to do and your kids see that and will grow up thinking a man is allowed treat his wife like that.
The way both Ella and Tim have treated Halo is wrong cause that poor baby deserves to be really loved and wanted. I do think Ella in her mind had hoped for a marriage with a loving husband like the way dad is who helps out at home and I do think Ella hoped for a good father to her kids who would help her out without being asked to and was actually responsible for the kids and wanted to spend time with them but as a teenager she obviously developed a crush on Tim who’s older than her and also let’s be honest she liked that he’s white cause she wanted mixed kids cause she’s very insecure with black features which is a shame. Tim thinking he was all cool when he younger doing his rapping if you can even call it that lol but that clearly amazed Ella who was so insecure probably thinking omg Tim likes me and they ended up together but I think he saw a young girl who was easy to manipulate cause she was obsessed with him and still is.
Ella’s dad saw right through him and she really should of listened to her dad cause it’s obvious he was looking out for her and to this day you can tell her dad isn’t the biggest fan of Tim.
Of all the YouTube families I’ve come across this family is one of the worst and I’m not hating on the kids for being the way they are
as it’s not their fault at all but I just don’t understand how they have so many fans but I hope everyone’s sees through them eventually.

I also think he cheated or flirted with another lady, something popped off when she gave birth. It hurt her deeply, straight into a midlife crisis. Also the mini vacays and public affection, may be a message to the lady from Ella. Tim really enjoys people fighting for his affection. I also think when Ella complains too much she needs help, he punishes her with less affection and she quickly submits. Ella's ultimate goal is to prove her parents wrong.

 

[fnddlsoxnz]

It’s a shame how they push these girls to act older than what they are. It’s bad enough they are allowed to wear big hoop earrings and dance inappropriately to songs with explicit lyrics at such a young age. Now they are all dressed and acting like grown women on this train. And look at the adult looking shoes Harper has on. Smh! And poor Houston is starting to look older than what she is as well. As parents, they should be ashamed of themselves. I swear sometimes I think Ella is mentally ill.

Before I read what you said, my initially reaction was it’s bad enough they wear the big hoop earrings aswell everything you have said is literally what I was thinking. It’s actually soo terrible, furthermore why do they always have to be in the same outfits. Let the children have some originality. It’s bad enough hosanna already looks much older than her age, with that outfit she could easily pass as 13-14. Sorry I just think it’s inappropriate. Especially as there are a lot of weirdos out there.

 

[Gomo]

So Ella really expects people to believe the reason for weaning Halo so early was because the baby was so hungry and she wasn't making enough breast milk, but just so happens to go on a vacation without the very young baby just a few weeks later.

Lol.

I mean their gullible subscribers will clearly fall for that big fat lie, but people with just an ounce of common sense can see what's really going on here.

Bless their hearts.