A lot of mixed race people identify as black because the world will never see them as white. Really donāt see a problem?Grace acting like she is full black. Lee is half too. So Cyprus is half
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I thought she was going to say C made her chase round the park after him, but no 
Also, which is it? She said the other day thereās ālots of changeā going on, then she says things are very stable and boring, then sheās stressed
Also, which is it? She said the other day thereās ālots of changeā going on, then she says things are very stable and boring, then sheās stressed
Wow in that second picture she is basically saying Cyprus is getting in the way of her happiness isn't sheI thought she was going to say C made her chase round the park after him, but no
Also, which is it? She said the other day thereās ālots of changeā going on, then she says things are very stable and boring, then sheās stressed
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He is such a massive inconvenience to her it breaks my heart. Grace, maybe instead of thinking how hard your life is with a toddler, think about how hard it is for him, being in pain teething, having so many feeling he can't express, probably feeling the change that is coming his way, constantly being dumped on other family members because mummy can't look after him... Find some empathy towards your poor boy please 
grace is everything thatās wrong with a woman in 2022.
Pretty sure the āstable, normal, boringā was sarcasm though?I thought she was going to say C made her chase round the park after him, but no
Also, which is it? She said the other day thereās ālots of changeā going on, then she says things are very stable and boring, then sheās stressed
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She is so out of touch with reality - off she goes to reflexology while her toddler is at her mums for the 6364th time this week (and if he isnāt then she has him in front of the tv at home for a āsofa dayā) but she apparently still needs to āpour into her cupā ?!
sheās such a lazy spoiled bleep. The fact she lists a couple of things she did with C indicates to me that she plays with him like that so rarely that itās notable to list it on IG when she does.
sheās such a lazy spoiled bleep. The fact she lists a couple of things she did with C indicates to me that she plays with him like that so rarely that itās notable to list it on IG when she does.
Meanwhile all other mums would book an evening appointment for when their partner is home/kids are in bed. Probably wait twice as long for it.
That thinking leads to the erasure of actual black people with two black parents. Someone with a white parent can never be black. They can be mixed race, or a black biracial, but not just black.
this isnāt America and we donāt follow a one drop rule for blackness. White people in this country know the difference between a mixed race person and a black person and on government documents there is a separate box for mixed race people
A lot of black (African) people won't see them as black either.
Anyway, it's a richness, like other people who grow up with a double culture (colour aside). They should embrace all their cultures/origins.
Actually, if I remember well, Grace's father wasn't very present. Maybe she idealises that side of the family for that reason.
Thatās fair. But race is a social construct so it is interpreted differently by many people. In the English town I grew up in mixed kids were called black all the time by white people. The one drop rule is a made up arbitrary concept for sure, but so are the concepts of blackness and whiteness itself.
When you try to make clearly defined boundaries imo it gets confusing. Grace isnāt allowed to call herself or her son black, but what about for example a āfull bloodedā Jamaican or Black American who has almost as much european blood as they do, but may not have had actual white ancestors since the 1800s. They would identify as black because they have two black parents. But why is one okay over the other?
Ofcourse this should mean that they can call themselves white, but they never would and no one would ever accept that. Because whiteness was invented as an exclusionary category, hence Irish and Italians not being considered white at one point. I donāt think thereās a right or wrong way to navigate this, because thereās no real logic to any of it. Race at itās core is a messy, confusing way to categorise people.
Whatās a while Grace? Three daysā¦ the boy probably sees her Mumās as home more than his actual home. Thatās prob why heās more settled there, behaves better.
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I like that my son is a tit at home, it proves Iām his safe space (according to my therapist). If he was a golden child at home heād be awful for everyone else, Grace and then where would you be?
We donāt follow the one drop rule, and yes, she is mixed race, nor am I saying that her experiences mirror those who have two black parents. Iām just saying that sheās more than welcome to partake in the use of an uplifting slogan for black children and that itās not a weird take as many mixed race people do it. I feel like a lot of people here sometimes find her alignment to blackness strange when really, most mixed race people in London at least have an affinity to it (rather than seeing themselves as fully black, I can correct myself there).
Mixed race people living in a predominantly white country will find themselves well immersed in white culture by by virtue of being here. Her acknowledgement of her (part) blackness isnāt her shutting away her whiteness.
Again, if you speak to most mixed race people in a multicultural city like London, regardless of whether they are close to that side or not, they do tend to find affinity to that part of themselves because society often reminds them of it. And black people will very much see mixed race people are partly black before anything else.
Her mum sounds like a saint tbh, I wonder if sheāll be taking on two under two this often going forward? I wouldnāt wish that task on anybody
Why did she make a big deal about being on maternity leave if she keeps posting?
There's no change in her posting habits at all. Odd eh
God I cant stand her insta posts any more. Her lips always have dribble on them and the wet sounds she makes, it looks like shes gurning and has no teeth. And then the lip smacks to stop the dribble coming out. So gross. 100% if you are sitting next to her she would be spitting all over you. BLEH
Dont think its that she's unaligned and unbalanced but more so she's in her third trimester and hormonal but I suppose that doesn't sound special enough for her
Grace literally thinks sheās carved from the golden tree of Babylon. I cannot stand her. She palms her son off to binge watch telly and eat copious amounts of takeaways with her fat fella & calls it healing, groundwork and healthy behaviour. Itās the furthest thing from healthy, sheās completely warped from reality. Her mum does so much babysitting, tbf, she probably loves it because heās adorable and most Nans wanna have their grandkids all the time. My mum always wants hers.
but grace and Lee just donāt seem to utilise the time away for good things like tidying up their cluttered little pokey flat and getting some storage for their washing. It always looks like she needs a good clean in that place. I just canāt deal with her stories of her humpty dumpty head selfies and her chatting whilst parked on the sofa leaving an imprint of her fat arse whilst poor Cyprus plays around her.
but grace and Lee just donāt seem to utilise the time away for good things like tidying up their cluttered little pokey flat and getting some storage for their washing. It always looks like she needs a good clean in that place. I just canāt deal with her stories of her humpty dumpty head selfies and her chatting whilst parked on the sofa leaving an imprint of her fat arse whilst poor Cyprus plays around her.
youāve put it perfectly. rank
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