Also there is a huge difference between not getting much “pocket money” but still knowing the financial support from your family is there if you ever really need it, your parents being able to pay for all the big things like school trips, holidays, first car, clothes when you go shopping and so on. I’m not saying all that applies to grace it’s just my general observation and own experience.
Yeah, exactly this. The 'pocket money' is trivial if all her big purchases, bills, holidays etc were paid for. Like I don't believe for one minute she paid for her own phone and phone bill, for example. Gym membership alone is over £25/month and there's no way she was paying for that with the occasional babysitting job.
The privilege chapter is actually a lot more honest than I thought it would be ngl. She was never going to say ‘Yeah, I’m privileged, I grew up in Kensington with my mllionaire family who inherited loads of shmoney from my wealthy grandad who was margaret thatchers best chum’, as much as it is the truth. However, she has finally admitted to a lot of the things that she has been really sketchy about.
idk I still feel like it falls super short, there's nothing here she hasn't said before and she's still using the same qualifiers (but I had scholarships, but I worked since I was 13, but I didn't get much pocket money) to excuse he privilege. There was absolutely no need for her to add in all these 'buts' in her privilege section, they just make it seem disingenuous. It's interesting that she's
always so pedantic about mentioning all the ways she considers herself 'not that privileged', but has
never once been completely transparent about the bigger picture of her family's wealth, influence and connections.
She seems to favour thinking about privilege on a global scale - things like being white and not coming from a war-torn country, yes are privileges, but 86% of the UK (and her readers) are white British, so that's not exactly something that sets her apart. I think it's good to get her readers to think about their own privilege in this way (something we all probably don't do enough), but that also serves to make her seem more like everyone else.
Considering she said she was going to 'lay it all on the table', it was pretty weak I think.