SqualorVictoria
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This thread is a lifeline. We're afraid to speak up on this in real life. Someone once said it was a "feminist echo chamber" *eye roll* but they're not in danger of being cancelled for believing men aren't women.
Yes! I’ve never understood the “wrong body” argument. Your sex is determined by biology, not feeling. What do men wanting to transition think being a woman is supposed to feel like? I mean, if that’s how you think you’ll be happiest - living as the opposite sex - then go for it. It’s not my place to judge your life and decisions and, quite honestly, I don’t give a shit what you do. But in the process you’ve got no right to muddy, take away or threaten my identity or safety as a biological woman. If you commit crimes, they should not skew data on exactly who has committed it. And, most of all, you have no right to project or normalise your choices onto children.To those whose family members have “drunk the cool aid” I’ve found asking them why they support homophobic gay conversion therapy in a shocked voice seems to work. Which, it is. NOBODY is born in the wrong body. It’s illogical and old-fashioned.
100% agree.Why is it that these biological men have to trample on our rights to campaign for more rights for themselves? Why is it that they can be born male (and hence with all the physical features and advantages of that gender) and somehow when they decide they want to be a woman, we have to include them in our safe spaces, communities, and campaign for them as well? Women's rights are for women because we face unique challenges that result from our physiology and experience in the world. A biological man does not understand why we feel threatened when we get cat called by large, hulking figures on the streets or when a particularly aggressive man corners us in a bar. We are not comparable and our experiences in the world are different, and therefore, need different communities that address the difficulties of each group separately.
Of course you don’t. Women have to be “womxn” and “birthing people” and “people with a cervix”. But it’ll be a cold day in hell before we see “mxn”, “ejaculating people” and “people with a prostate” becoming common parlance.Yeah you don't see "mxn" being used...if you did there would be uproar.
Made my blood boil reading that I couldn’t finish it. Just the same old shit about how women should make way for transwomen yet again.Saw an article thats caused quite a stir on mumsnets feminist boards, read it myself and was pretty shocked with what was being said, wondering what your thoughts are? www.refinery29.com/en-gb/2020/07/9919890/transphobia-and-domestic-violence
And in my case, I’m convinced that I’m autistic (just another woman who went undiagnosed all her life... who then gave birth to an autistic child and the penny dropped). It’s no coincidence that there are scores of autistic teen girls attending gender clinics.Right?? With children and teenagers, you're often desperate to fit in or at least have some confirmation that you aren't "strange" and this would've been the perfect "excuse" for why I liked catching bugs, playing sports with boys, and preferred shorts to mini skirts. But I've since grew out of a lot of that (still play a lot of sports with men and like wearing shorts) but I also love dressing up in a traditionally feminine way, have a wonderful MALE fiance, and love wearing new makeup. I am clearly not uncomfortable in my body or sexuality but some radical trans activists would've put that idea in my head if they existed when I was a kid. And at that age, I would've been very confused not as a result of anything I felt, but because of what some people and the media have been telling me. Kids and teens are super impressionable.
I do understand where you are coming from. When the JK furore first kicked up my instinct was to side with the trans people who felt attacked. But, crucially, I then read JK’s essay and specifically researched organisations like Mermaids and Stonewall along with reading the journalism of Janice Turner in the times.A trans women is a women, thats why they are called women.
However, i would also not say that their rights sre more important than anyone else's, as in i think eveyone should have equal rights. So yes, if someone is going to find their presence uncomfortable at a women's rescue shelter, then another solution should be found. But why should they be turned away for a service they also need? Because I don't believe a trans women is going to turn up at a gynecologist or a domestic shelter unless they actually need that service. Why would they want to make their own lives harder knowing the backlash they'd face for it? (There will of course always be a minority who exploit services, for now, I'm not talking about them).
I agree, trans women having their own services is a good idea if it makes people feel more comfortable. But i disagree with the notion that they should be the ones to fight for it just because we had to fight for women's rights on our own. We should help everyone we can get equal rights and opportunities.
I also definitely do not think giving children blockers is anything to be blaise about. I've already covered my opinion on trans children and their treatment and support so I'll not repeat it.
I would also just like to point out that just because I disagree with J.K.Rowling and the way she has going about things and used her platform, does not mean that I don't think a discussion needs to be had surrounding all of this. Because it most definitely does.
YES PIERS. He is really speaking some sense this year and I never thought I would say that.I’m sure he asked pretty much the same thing last month
Piers is answering..
Imagine if it were possible to just, you know... be a man and wear earrings/grow your hair long/wear a dress...This was shared on Facebook as a good news story. I mean it's great that this person is happier in themselves now but there's more to being a woman than just wearing earrings and dress, having long hair and going to Debenhams for a makeover
Transgender Cork farmer (65) surprised at positive response to telling her story
Erica Coates said it was like a sentence ‘my body was free but my mind was in solitary confinement’www.irishtimes.com