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If my husband announced he was a transvestite or a trans woman, I would never stay and put up with his predilection or kink or whatever it is. I work give a shiny shite whether I was labelled transphobic or unaccepting of someone’s kink. The wives in this scenario seem to be expected to put aside their own needs or desires - it all becomes about him and what he wants. No way would I stay, no way would I care what I was called, I would be utterly repulsed and feel widowed, that the man I thought I knew was a mirage. I would rather be called transphobic rather than a mug. Each to their own, but it would not be for me or in my best interests.
It’s not an immediate thing though ( in most cases), it starts with very small things that seem insignificant. They’re very manipulative and clever about it. Each time something is accepted they move on to something else. This is how, it happened with me and many of the accounts that I have read from other women. It takes years. I look back now and feel so sutpid for not ending the marriage years a before but I didn’t. I wouldn’t have believed how I could have been manipulated so easily. It’s been a tough few years recovering from the mess that I found myself in. Hindsight is a wonderful thing.
 
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It’s not an immediate thing though ( in most cases), it starts with very small things that seem insignificant. They’re very manipulative and clever about it. Each time something is accepted they move on to something else. This is how, it happened with me and many of the accounts that I have read from other women. It takes years. I look back now and feel so sutpid for not ending the marriage years a before but I didn’t. I wouldn’t have believed how I could have been manipulated so easily. It’s been a tough few years recovering from the mess that I found myself in. Hindsight is a wonderful thing.
I am sorry for the pain you have been through. It’s sounds heartbreaking. I think a lot of women are now very attuned to things now, in a way that they weren’t a few years back. There are so many stories out there from trans widows that shows the trajectory of their manipulation. Before there was an innocence about it, but now I think everyone is a bit more knowing. If my middleaged husband started to sudden introduce a few things that I thought were 🤔 I think I would be better placed now to realise what was going on. And try to get myself out of the situation as cleanly and swiftly as I could. Difficult when emotions and time invested in a relationship, but ultimately the relationship would be heading in a direction I would never want to travel in. I wish you the very best for your future.
 
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Some wee dweeb TRA snowflake blocked me today. Apparently the women meeting in Cardiff made him/her/it “feel unsafe” I suggested they should learn to have a bit of stoicism and fortitude and they didn’t like it. These young people don’t seem equipped to deal with life, a lot worse things will happen than a bunch of women discussing things that affect them.
I do wonder what will happen to the swathes of the population who have been indulged all their lives when they discover, as they inevitably will at some point, that the world will not always bend to their beliefs and reality kicks in.

The Baroness is awesome. ❤
 
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"I squirt and do anal by default"?

Here's Jordan Gray 2 years ago talking about how oestrogen destroyed "her" sex drive.

And why is expelling diluted urine and taking it up the arse held up as the pinnacle of female sexuality anyway? Acting out porn scenes because your partner is porn-addled seems less than ideal to me personally.
 
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I was lucky enough to go to LGB Alliance conference on Friday which was wonderful. It’s so exhausting fighting gender ideology every day online or at work .. so to be in a room with 600 people who understand what’s going on, is a tonic for the soul.
It meant I missed Jordan Gray and his indecent exposure stunt. As bad as THAT was, his lyrics were also disgusting and degrading to women. He basically said he was better than women because he could squirt, his tits would always be pert and he did anal. Oh and that straight women’s husbands fancy him. I wonder if the idiots in the audience even listened to his words as they whooped and cheered. The good thing is it’s peaked even more people.

Another glimmer of optimism is that apparently Jordan Gray’s one man show at the Palladium on Friday is struggling to sell tickets, so a cut price ticket online seller has been brought in to try and fill the seats. This is good.
I can’t post the Twitter evidence as I’m banned for 12 hours .. no doubt it was because I replied to a deluded woman who thinks she’s a gay man , she was boasting she’d gone to a gay male sauna and paraded her male pussy at the men there. She felt empowered .. she’s lucky they just ignored her instead of being aggressive, she invaded their space and they’d have no interest in her vagina BECAUSE THEY ARE GAY MEN.

There were many more gay men at the LGBALLIANCE conference this year, which is great as they might finally be waking up and possibly even starting to support us lesbians.
 
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This talk about cross dressers and trans widows reminds me of an After Life episode when Tony goes to interview a man who says he identifies as an 8 year old girl. The dialogue is brilliant:

Wife: "It's bloody ridiculous. It's bollocks."
Husband: "I'm trans. Deal with it."
Wife: "You're not trans. You're having a bleeping breakdown. The silly twit thought he caught Down syndrome last year."

Made me laugh my head off, I love Ricky.

(Obviously I'm not ridiculing anyone who's been hurt by being in a relationship with someone like this - you have my utmost sympathies)
 
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I see Pink News have written a smear article about Kemi Badenoch, pointing out that she’s met with the likes of Kathleen Stock, Keira Bell and LGB Alliance. Which is a resounding positive from where I’m sitting.
 
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I was lucky enough to go to LGB Alliance conference on Friday which was wonderful. It’s so exhausting fighting gender ideology every day online or at work .. so to be in a room with 600 people who understand what’s going on, is a tonic for the soul.
It meant I missed Jordan Gray and his indecent exposure stunt. As bad as THAT was, his lyrics were also disgusting and degrading to women. He basically said he was better than women because he could squirt, his tits would always be pert and he did anal. Oh and that straight women’s husbands fancy him. I wonder if the idiots in the audience even listened to his words as they whooped and cheered. The good thing is it’s peaked even more people.

Another glimmer of optimism is that apparently Jordan Gray’s one man show at the Palladium on Friday is struggling to sell tickets, so a cut price ticket online seller has been brought in to try and fill the seats. This is good.
I can’t post the Twitter evidence as I’m banned for 12 hours .. no doubt it was because I replied to a deluded woman who thinks she’s a gay man , she was boasting she’d gone to a gay male sauna and paraded her male pussy at the men there. She felt empowered .. she’s lucky they just ignored her instead of being aggressive, she invaded their space and they’d have no interest in her vagina BECAUSE THEY ARE GAY MEN.

There were many more gay men at the LGBALLIANCE conference this year, which is great as they might finally be waking up and possibly even starting to support us lesbians.
Gay men don’t deserve to have their spaces invaded any more than women do.
This talk about cross dressers and trans widows reminds me of an After Life episode when Tony goes to interview a man who says he identifies as an 8 year old girl. The dialogue is brilliant:

Wife: "It's bloody ridiculous. It's bollocks."
Husband: "I'm trans. Deal with it."
Wife: "You're not trans. You're having a bleeping breakdown. The silly twit thought he caught Down syndrome last year."

Made me laugh my head off, I love Ricky.

(Obviously I'm not ridiculing anyone who's been hurt by being in a relationship with someone like this - you have my utmost sympathies)
This is on Netflix - I’m surprised all those people complaining about Dave Chapelle didn’t protest this either? Bet they didn’t watch it…
 
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Kemi Badenoch argued against buffer zones around abortion clinics. I'm not sure she's all that in terms of equality?
She's a good example of how the left has to be careful what it wishes for.

Yes the Labour Party might tie themselves in knots trying to avoid accusations of transphobia but on balance they will be better for women - access to health care, childcare, improving the care sector, investment in policing, funding for VAWG services etc will all have a disproportionately positive impact on women. And things like improved funding for services will mean more options for separate additional provision/support for TIM rather than them displacing women.
 
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She's a good example of how the left has to be careful what it wishes for.

Yes the Labour Party might tie themselves in knots trying to avoid accusations of transphobia but on balance they will be better for women - access to health care, childcare, improving the care sector, investment in policing, funding for VAWG services etc will all have a disproportionately positive impact on women. And things like improved funding for services will mean more options for separate additional provision/support for TIM rather than them displacing women.
Nope. They can't even agree on what is a Woman.
We won't be voting for them any longer.
 
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Yeah I think that's naively optimistic @Cucumberthunder I don't have any faith that a Labour government would be any better for women than the Tories have been (which is of course not great).
 
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Imagine if there were C-girl nights where groups of white British women dressed up as Chinese. How deeply offensive would this be?! All the old stereotypes in costume form. Like you couldn’t even understand why you’d think it was a good idea. Yet men dressing as women, no doubt in suspenders, heels, tons of make up, all the things we wear of course 😩 If a newspaper got wind of these kind of parties you’d end up losing your job surely!
 
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She's a good example of how the left has to be careful what it wishes for.

Yes the Labour Party might tie themselves in knots trying to avoid accusations of transphobia but on balance they will be better for women - access to health care, childcare, improving the care sector, investment in policing, funding for VAWG services etc will all have a disproportionately positive impact on women. And things like improved funding for services will mean more options for separate additional provision/support for TIM rather than them displacing women.


No. A party that doesn't have the guts to define a woman properly as an 'Adult Human Female' but insists 'everyone needs to feel accepted' and 'it is wrong to say that only women can have cervixes' is simply in thrall to a group of men and I cannot take them seriously.
 
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And today’s first Twitter scroll finds us this disgusting man ( paedophile I’d say ) who identifies as a baby, getting chucked out of a childrens area in an American park.
His nappy seems to be full.
These men are dangerous and gross.
 
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And today’s first Twitter scroll finds us this disgusting man ( paedophile I’d say ) who identifies as a baby, getting chucked out of a childrens area in an American park.
His nappy seems to be full.
These men are dangerous and gross.
Someone will shoot him , over there, probs .
 
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And today’s first Twitter scroll finds us this disgusting man ( paedophile I’d say ) who identifies as a baby, getting chucked out of a childrens area in an American park.
His nappy seems to be full.
These men are dangerous and gross.

To be fair, why not? If a bloke with a cock and balls says he's a woman and can access women's spaces then why not a pweirdo identifying as a baby?
 
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