My step daughter is gay. We dont really discuss gender/trans issues as she’s just not that interested in it but she shared this story on Sunday morning, totally unprompted. So, her and a few other lesbian friends went to a gay club in Cardiff on Friday night which had unisex toilets. As she was telling me her story, in a sentence that represents how most women feel about men in our toilets, she drops in that ‘obviously we were going to the toilet in pairs because they were unisex’. This wasn’t actually the point of her story, it was just to set the scene but how sad that they just accept that they have to go in pairs? Later in the evening after they’d had a few drinks she went to the loo on her own and
bleeping SHOCK a man was lurking in there and accosted her. Another girl came in and, again her words, ‘we managed to get him off me’ and then she actually got to the point of her story which was that the girl who saved her was hot and was chatting her up and she might see her again etc etc
![Face with tears of joy :joy: 😂](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f602.png)
Once she’d told me all about Hot Girl, I asked her a bit more about the club and the clientele. I was really saddened but not in the least bit surprised when she said that it was a lesbian night but there were lots of trans women there.
ETA: She was absolutely fine. She’s a tough cookie, I wouldn’t mess with her and she was much more focussed on the hottie who saved her but is this really how our young women have to live now? Just accepting that a world full of trans women means not going to the toilet by yourself and being ready to fight off these
bleeping pricks who lurk in them if you do?