I can't be arsed with NB as a trend anymore. A friend of mine "came out" a couple of months ago as NB on social media, and then quietly decided he was a man again within about two weeks. Can't lose that great manprivilege!A woman I know recently started identifying as "non-binary." She has a number of mental and physical health problems that I think are far more of a factor here than genuine dysphoria of which she has seen no signs. Today she threw a tantrum on her social media because, when she "came out", she announced she wanted people to pronounce her name slightly differently. She has a common feminine name - let's pretend it's Anna and instead of "ANN-a" she wants people to pronounce it as "AHN-a". She thinks that this is somehow making a break from the past and more befitting of a non-binary person; how? You still have a feminine name that people will always associate with a woman. And sees it as a form of "misgendering" if someone gets it wrong
I briefly worked with someone who was what I'd consider actually NB - very androgynous, didn't give a fuck about pronouns, just wanted to be something in the middle/neither and left alone about it. I respect that those people do exist but I think 99.9999% of "non-binary" people on Twitter are just piss-takers and attention seekers.