I want to back this comment up. Having a different opinion is one thing, but I just found it really off when your response to a member discussing how they didn't want their partner to watch porn was to suggest that they discuss making sex with their partner more pornified. Her whole comment had been that she didn't like to feel that she had to compete with porn so why on earth would she then want to discuss enacting some of it?To be honest, I’m starting to doubt your intentions in this thread, such is your tendency to bring your sex life into it. This thread isn’t to display your kinks and frankly I’m starting to find it all very weird. If you’re trying to convert a bunch of kink-shaming radfems it isn’t working.
Any sex that requires aftercare and “soothing salves” (such strange, flowery language) is harmful to women.
I’m going to step away from this thread until the vibe gets back to normal.
I also question how healthy it is to engage in activities with your partner to the point of there being physical evidence of abuse.
I quite agree with Glinner when he says 'bring back kink shaming' - there are some things that are just a bit fucked up.