I came on to look for advice and found this thread. I'm married with kids but have no good friends. 2 ladies i class as my best friends but I haven't seen them in a year. They seem to have no interest in meeting up even tho i suggested it. Numerous texts go unanswered. I get people are busy but 2 mins to reply to a text? Another ignored my text to meet up, no reply at all. Family members arranged a hens then last minute invited me, like i was an after thought. It was all booked etc. No rooms left in the hotel etc. I felt really hurt by all of these. I'm very shy but friendly and a decent person. While i enjoy time to myself, i do miss the chats and the company of others. My husband has lots of circles of friends, never short of an invite. I do get very down thinking how i managed to get through school, college, jobs, and still not have a best friend. I've no sisters. I've never been a bridesmaid. Whenever i offer to help out anyone, they say thanks, but my mam /sister /other friend is helping. I feel like no one need me. Sorry, this has turned into a novel but just feeling very down right now x