Yes! And I'm also so tired of the narrative that women who 'don't have a job' are a menace to female independence. My mum didn't work, she was always a housewife because none of her diplomas were recognized in Germany, and always had to defend herself for that. There's so much judgement around women no matter what they do. They work, they're unsupportive girlfriends. They don't, they give a fuck about female independence. What about circumstance, the things we don't get access to? It's so easy to judge someone based on the things we see but we don't know crap about what's going on behind the scenes. Maybe she's struggling to get a job, having (mental) health issues or whatever and having people speculate about - and I'm quoting what I've read before - 'why she's following Daniel like a puppy and a real woman should have a job' is absolutely unnecessary, but like always it's easy to assume the worst... Rant over (also not targeted at anyone, just a general rant about how 'women supporting women' is just a myth, sadly, based on what I've seen...)