Sorry but is she actually referring to running a SW group one day a week as the career that she’s given up? And not the actual paying full time job she had before that! She wasn’t even at a senior level. She makes it sound as though she’s stopped performing brain surgery or practising human rights law. Given the amount of time she can find childcare for in her week for gym / shopping I’m sure she could have managed the SW job - the boys are in such a good routine and sleep loads so why couldn’t she mark people’s food diaries whilst they sleep? Or are in their playpen?