Ok-ish.
Too short. Whats our password?
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Ah I loved him (the real one). There was a heartbreaking story in The Guardian about him a couple of years ago.
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@EddieBeds how are you doing today?
Mr Beds went to the appointment and came out looking quite shocked and said the Dr had said about for him to return home the right conditions need to be in place.
Heās adamant he needs a diagnostic review and saying I lied to the Dr at the previous appointment and that he hasnāt done XYZ behaviour or anything to endanger the children (his parents are colluding with this). Today Iāve been told the Dr said something completely different about him coming back home and heās claiming itās just relationship issues. Itās so obvious heās lying and spinning tales. I get heās ill and itās easier to make me the villain but itās still hurtful. It also feels like itās verging on gas lighting? It was like dealing with a child having a tantrum when I reinforced boundaries and he didnāt like it.
The only analogy I can think of and I sincerely apologise if this isnāt right or causes any offence (not my intention) is that itās like listening to somebody who is addicted/dependent who wonāt take accountability for their actions - heās just blaming anything or anyone else. Though I appreciate while heās ill and in the middle of this mania he wonāt recognise what he is doing or be able to be accountable for his behaviour.
He also vaguely threatened me that it āwill get difficultā as he can just come home whenever he wants. He is so unrecognisable from who he is ordinarily itās scary. And Iām also genuinely concerned he might just show up now (Iāve double locked everything so he shouldnāt be able to get in/make sure weāre safe) and do something stupid as heās so unpredictable.
I just hope the mania breaks soon so he can engage with the relevant professionals to get the right things in place for recovery short and long term. Sorry for being a revolving door of doom and gloom.
Heās adamant he needs a diagnostic review and saying I lied to the Dr at the previous appointment and that he hasnāt done XYZ behaviour or anything to endanger the children (his parents are colluding with this). Today Iāve been told the Dr said something completely different about him coming back home and heās claiming itās just relationship issues. Itās so obvious heās lying and spinning tales. I get heās ill and itās easier to make me the villain but itās still hurtful. It also feels like itās verging on gas lighting? It was like dealing with a child having a tantrum when I reinforced boundaries and he didnāt like it.
The only analogy I can think of and I sincerely apologise if this isnāt right or causes any offence (not my intention) is that itās like listening to somebody who is addicted/dependent who wonāt take accountability for their actions - heās just blaming anything or anyone else. Though I appreciate while heās ill and in the middle of this mania he wonāt recognise what he is doing or be able to be accountable for his behaviour.
He also vaguely threatened me that it āwill get difficultā as he can just come home whenever he wants. He is so unrecognisable from who he is ordinarily itās scary. And Iām also genuinely concerned he might just show up now (Iāve double locked everything so he shouldnāt be able to get in/make sure weāre safe) and do something stupid as heās so unpredictable.
I just hope the mania breaks soon so he can engage with the relevant professionals to get the right things in place for recovery short and long term. Sorry for being a revolving door of doom and gloom.