I didn’t specifically call you a hater, it was a generalisation.There actually is a rave thread and I linked it in here and got called a "hater"
Fleur has got herself a light coloured Chanel Jumbo (might even be a maxi) as per her latest IG picture. And a new Rixo dress. But yeah she's soooo sustainable.
And from friends, too. And not cheap, either. I mean, that copper pot... I did a quick Google and they run from £90-200! And then she said she was probably not going to use it..? Wow...
She's using it as a decoration object
I know. If I spent £150 (let's go with the middle ground) on a pan that someone then said 'Oh I'm just going to use it for decoration' I would not be happy. But I guess I don't hang around in those kind of circles where a £150 gift is nothing......
If I give someone a gift, of whatever value, I'm happy to have spent the money. I wouldn't go getting annoyed with them if they didn't use it at all or for the purpose intended. Once you give a gift it's no longer yours to decide what to do with it. It might not be someone's style or they might not need it.
I think a lot of people use copper pans as decorative items in a kitchen. She said that if she were to use it for cooking it would need to be lined, so personally I didn't take that she was given something and has decided not to use it. I wouldn't be surprised if she was given it with the intention she would use it for decor. Personally if someone gave me a 150 pound antique copper pan, I wouldn't want to cook with it and potentially ruin it. I'd want it on display!
must be a rich person thing
She refers to it either as vintage or antique and then goes on to say something like they don't make them like this anymore, this isn't lined so you aren't supposed to cook with it. Which is why I assumed it was more decorative than something to be used for cooking.
I always wonder this and think maybe it’s because she herself goes all out with the presents so people feel obligated. That or it’s just cause she’s wealthy. Can’t relate, lol. If I had the money I’d love to spoil my friends but it’s just a bit of money dropped into my sisters account for her birthday and a family Kris Kringle for me, lol. To be fair, she must be a really lovely friend as she seems to have had the same circle of off-youtube friends over the years. Probably because she keeps all that stuff private I guess
Seems like all her friends are quite well off, too. I mean, how many weddings abroad has she been to in the last few years?
I get that impression too - she gift high value things to friends and so they feel obligated to do the same.
And it's not just a box of choccies, a bunch of flowers, or some bath salts, either....
Well yeah, that's what us poor people get for our friends.
