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The main family house Jamie is still in is rented. I always thought it strange that everytime they moved that they would rent again claiming they couldn't decide whether to buy a house or build. Now they've separated Skylar has obviously made the move onto the property ladder. It's a lovely house to be fair and wonderful for the children. I must admit I like how rough and ready the children are in his videos and they all wear different clothes and the girls hair is often just down. In the majority of Jamie's videos they all have to be turned out pristine and all matching with hair bows etc. Just not a very realistic picture of 4 year olds. Either way sounds like the separation is long term now which is a shame.
 
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Catt

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For him to actually move out instead of just living in another room kind of tells me one of them may have done the dirty
 
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mfch

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I definitely don’t agree with the sister wife thing. Remember he’s had a crisis of faith and isn’t LDS anymore. That isn’t (just) related to the divorce but also to Shay.

I do think he probably wanted a fun homestead and homeschooling thing and there’s nothing wrong with that except it isn’t Jamie at all, and that’s okay.

Doesn’t make either of them bad people, just makes them incompatible. I do think that he was blindsided that she left him and then has found it much harder than her.

She’s not my kind of person but I respect her.
 
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MrsSlocombe

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It is kind of ironic how people on here go on about vloggers exploiting their kids, yet they obviously support them by watching their content!
A weird double standard.
Don't make assumptions. As I said earlier in the thread I used to watch them (and several other family vloggers) three years or so ago when the quints were babies. I came to the realisation after a while that the exploitation of kids was wrong (yes - I should have realised from the outset). I haven't watched them for at least 18 months or so, but noticed the thread here, so started reading. I do admit to skimming through the vlog where Skylar announced their separation - it's obvious from the vlog titles and thumbnails (without even watching them), that they have continued to use the quints for income. It's even more wrong now given the trauma of their parents separating.
 
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lokencrepis

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I feel this has something to do with Mormonism and faith crises ...
And it is strange to see his side of the family now is in the vlogs.." He he" has been there alot, but not so much anyone else... And Jamie's family is now back in the vlogs too.. maybe it's just a coincidence, but I don't think so. Some conflict must have been there, between their families.
I feel so bad for all those children... But if Skylar has left the cult, I'm all in , then he do open up the children's life to a better future... It's strange though, cos they just keep smiling to their camera, but must go through a really hard time, all if them.
They should stop vlogging their children now, they can both work at least 50% now..and maybe do something with their channel that doesn't show the kids.
They don't seems to like it very much eighter.
But He have bought this new beautiful home now . And she lives in the "old" one.. there must be other income in the mix here too, I think. ... Cos their vlogs doesn't make them that much money?
What do you think?
I remember that Skylars brother, Shaye, worked as a videographer for the Piano Guys. Skylar used to be a Commercial Real Estate Appraiser, but quit before the quints were born. I can only imagine they had to have had enough money saved to be able to cover the loss of Skylars job... knowing Skylar wouldn't be going back to work for a really long time - no matter what happened with their youtube, he would have had to be home with the quints for at least a year or 2.

So with savings, plus perhaps being landlords? They're already involved in real estate, so it's not beyond that they own properties. I think that would cover their lifestyle. It's not like either of them are jumping to go back to work, Skylar has just bought a rather large house and Jamie will either continue renting or will be buying her own. That's a heck of a lot of liquid cash needed to buy houses, maintain 6 younger kids AND maybe be sending a child to university. Those youtube videos will be getting somewhere between 500-2000 dollars. Sponsorships... who knows? anywhere from £5000 up. For a single person, thats a lot of money, for a family of 9??? I literally have no clue how much money it takes for keeping 7 kids in food, clothes and shelter?

Given their views have spiralled as the kids are growing up, they cannot rely on youtube for their income. They are simply not interesting enough, I'm sure they're lovely people, but there isn't anything particularly entertaining about them. Thats before you think about how their young kids are essentially being exploited while there are two perfectly able parents who are not working. Youtube isn't just an easy job that is flexible around kids and family life, its exploiting the lives of children. Mark my words there will be some bestselling books coming from these various youtube kids.

Skylar and Jamie used to take in foster care kids, I'm not sure how it works in America, but I have heard that the money you receive for fostering more than covers the cost of the child? Am I right in thinking that?

I agree. I always thought the social media stuff was more Skyler's decision, and Jamie just wanted to be a mum. But having watched since they seperated it seems like although he enjoys filming and sharing their life he actually wants them to be normal children, where as Jamie wants perfect children who pose for instagram photos and always look perfect. Look at the difference here. They're just spending time in their back gardens, there's no need for the matching white outfits, it's ridiculous.

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I thought the exact same as you. That it was Skylar pushing it all. But Jamie just seems to want perfect cookie cutter children, it seriously creeps me out. Why isn't she just letting them be kids? Let them wear silly superhero outfits, mad dress up, mismatched outfits and let those little imaginations shine! But no.... they have to be perfect, no personality showing and no independence or individual thought. There is no need for matching outfits, imo ever, but certainly not every day.

Maybe part of the reason for the separation was their mismatched parenting style? I can imagine suddenly having 5 kids all at once, really uncovers peoples en masse parenting style!
 
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lokencrepis

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The main family house Jamie is still in is rented. I always thought it strange that everytime they moved that they would rent again claiming they couldn't decide whether to buy a house or build. Now they've separated Skylar has obviously made the move onto the property ladder. It's a lovely house to be fair and wonderful for the children. I must admit I like how rough and ready the children are in his videos and they all wear different clothes and the girls hair is often just down. In the majority of Jamie's videos they all have to be turned out pristine and all matching with hair bows etc. Just not a very realistic picture of 4 year olds. Either way sounds like the separation is long term now which is a shame.
I love how when they're with their dad they just look like 'normal' kids. There is something weird about dressing them all in identikit prarie outfits. Its really quite creepy to make them all so squeaky clean and perfect, they're 4 for goodness sake! They should already have found their own little identities and their likes and dislikes with clothing now. I know I had some very strong opinions about what I wore at their age!

I also don't quite understand why they've kept Violets hair short? This has been bugging me for quite some time. Why let the other two grow it out and leave her with a bob? It seems rather alienating, especially since Vivi has dark hair, she fully looks like the odd one out.
 
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So shocked with the news but like I always say you should never trust what you see on social media! People only post what they want us to see and we never get a 'true' picture. I hate to speculate too but I can't help but think that it's something related to Skylar rather than Jamie. Either way I hope they can get along amicably for the sake of all the children.
 
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Vegan for the Animals

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This family have been through a lot and even though they’ve presented themselves as the perfect Mormon family, I’m sure they’ve endured a lot of stress. It’s difficult enough caring for one baby let alone five, plus having to deal with the needs of two teen boys. Jamie also had medical issues which must’ve put a strain on their life too. off course, all they’ve vlogged has been the nice stuff where everything is perfect. Unfortunately life isn’t like that.
People grow apart sometimes or one partner falls out of love with the other. I noticed a while ago that Jamie was mentioning religion much more and was talking about attending some religious weekend. Maybe they are having differing views because of that.
I have to say I’ve never thought of Skylar as being gay, but if he is and he’s being honest to himself, then fair play. Some Mormons might not agree with homosexuality, but Utah has a huge Pride March every year, so obviously not all are bigoted.
It’s sad they have split and maybe in time we will find out why, but maybe their relationship was toxic and they are better off being apart.
 
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Yeah I agree that I think Skylar was moving away from the Mormonism, and the whole perfect image that seems to come along with it.
Just in the last few videos he has seemed more relaxed and like a regular guy.

Is there Mormon thing about wearing oversized hair bows?! I was happy for the kids when they all went to Walmart to choose their own swimmers. Individuality.
It seems like Mormons really work to look and be sweet and perfect. The whole family shall look perfect..modesty is huge it seems like... And just seeing Jamie.. she is picture perfect in the Mormons eye ,I think.. so loving ,always smiling even if she is totally exhausted, and overwhelmed.. dressed modest very loving mom...I think she is brought up like that, and it is her way of living. But not showing very much personality..
 
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olliebear

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I always thought the house Jamie is in that they actually bought that house. I remember their previous house was rented for a short time but I really thought they bought the house Jamie lives in.
I remember the video that said they bought it.
 
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Sooey706

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errr no!
Did you watch Jamie’s recent vlog about why she choose to divorce? She was quite clear and open and said religion had little to do with it.
Personally I don't trust what Jamie says, I always had the feeling his brother coming out played a large part in their divorce.
Then when Jamie was wrapping christmas gifts she said those silk things were to replace well loved ones they already had, but logan had no idea what it was for...I get the feeling she's all for show. She treats them like they are still toddler, wooden toys when they told Skylar what they wanted. Makes me wonder what she'd do if one of the kids came out...would she disown them too?
 
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Loouie

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I made an account here just to write how shocked I am by this news. I’ve never seen two people who seemed so in love, so sweet to one another, so gentle. This truly breaks my heart for them and their kids.
I don’t think Skylar is gay, although I can see why you might think that.
I wonder if it’s a secret addiction of some kind.
Me too on the account front. I was shocked, but not surprised as I always felt the vlogs were just too over the top happy go lucky - especially Skyler, he just seemed fake happy, fake nice to me. May be totally wrong, but there was always something about him and his older kids reactions that made me feel like they weren't feeling the same level of happiness.
I really, really feel for the older boys, they didn't ask to get taken on this ride that exposed so much of their childhood to the world - for what seems like the ability to have the absolute best of everything - very expensive houses, etc. Is the money and stuff really worth selling out for??
And the babies, every second, every milestone, every private detail shared with the public - I very rarely watched their vlogs after the initial few because it just felt wrong to me to use your children for profit.
 
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b1tchinb0ld

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they’ve never really had the children alone; they’ve always had help from the church or the twins and even a nanny I believe so the idea of skyler having to have supervised contact is quite far fetched - anything that could be deemed even mildly “inappropriate” I doubt there would be any contact at all due to Jamie’s prim and proper outlook. I definitely feel that the split was something that always would’ve come. Jamie lost a lot of herself during and after the pregnancy with the quints - she seemed very vacant and uninterested. You can see little bits of her true self when she speaks about the garden etc. Whatever has gone on I doubt we will ever find out
 
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gossipygertie

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@lokencrepis I too am fascinated by Mormons, it is interesting how the religion invades every area of their lives right down to the kind of underwear they are allowed to wear! (Thanks TikTok for that!).
I also agree about Skylars family. Seeing them appear in more recent vlogs they do appear to be the more relaxed side of the family, and he seems to be seeing them more.
 
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This made me so so sad! 😥 They seems so loving, and have such a big task to share... Wondering how the big boys are taking this. . So much has changed in their life already.. and now this!.. I know they love their smaller siblings, but it has been so much for such great kids. I really hope they can work their way back to eachother! 🙏
 
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NotYouMia

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I followed them for along time. It was about a year ago I drifted away. When they took the whole family to Florida during the height of the Pandemic. With them having fans all of the world it rubbed me the wrong way. I would check in every now and then but never watched every video and did notice they hadn't made any videos for awhile. There are a lot of You tube families that I started drifting away from because they are using their kids to make money and especially large families within religion. When you film them being potty trained it's too much. Not necessary this family but filming punishments, going to the bathroom meltdown ect it's too much. I have three teenagers born between 2003 and 2007 who have asked me to not share random photos anymore and for various reasons. We had long conversations about it together and it changed my perspective. I think back to would i have wanted my parents to tell the neighbors about me going to the bathroom, or a meltdown or getting grounded that would have been a no at any age. Telling the whole world absolutely not. It's a total invasion of their personal space. Want to take video of them at the park playing or doing a craft, having a birthday party ect ok but that is where it should end. As far as why they are separated I don't get the gay vibe from him. Others do. I actually see a porn addiction or maybe extra marital affair. Though that would be hard with 5 toddlers.

Just because you yourself doesn't see it exploitative doesn't make it not. Others clearly do and when your 3/4 years old and adults are deciding for you that's not right. At least 1 of those 5 kids isn't going to appreciate it later on down the road won't like it. My guess their older son already doesn't and never did that is why you rarely see him.
 
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nahthankx

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Newest vlog has skylar sporting a large, new tattoo on his bicep.
Pretty big step for someone who is (was?) devout Mormon. Tattoos are a giant no no
 
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mfch

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It was pretty foul of him to be airing a new very quick relationship on the channel that Jamie was still posting on too. That’s really disrespectful to Jamie.
I don’t mind him but I think he’s on a long journey and I’m glad he sees that too, I hope he’s in therapy and gets a proper job and focusses on being a good dad and person and stops being so narcissistic.

I have respect for Jamie. She’s not my kind of person but boy is she tough. I get the impression she doesn’t have much money (maybe a job could be good) she’s raising all those kids, she’s neat, well presented, but more relaxed and comfortable than she used to be. She’s stepped up a bit I think.
 
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