Feng shui

[Namima]

@MissMidnight (but only if you are well and strong enough of course).x

At the start of this thread our @PixelGirl sent this thread good energy so this is a safe space.

Thank you for coming to this thread. Just reading your name on the notifications made my heart jump. How are you doing @Oops...

 

[PixelGirl]

@Oops... comment has reminded me @50sGirl as you sit and think of him, if he had something like a watch, it is good to hold that in your hands. When we wear things we embed them with our energy, so something like a wristwatch is good, as is a wedding ring. Another thing that is good is maybe to make a cushion using one of his favourite shirts, something you can keep close. Always remember that your Dad lives on in you, his genes are yours so you're forever connected anyhow x

 

[Milking Keynes]

Evening Any info would be great. I wish I could come with you!! My county not far

Maybe @Miss Trunchbull could help with some advice too. I think she sent some of her work to Amsterdam.

Saw the btw

Do you know why the DM button was removed btw? Soooo frustrating

...and we still haven’t heard from @MissMidnight...fret...fret...

Don’t worry, @Oops, I was delighted to see @Miss Midnight posted something at 11.23pm our time on the other thread - it was just a brief clarification re a Tiffany bracelet but it was a relief that she posted, considering.

 

[whathastheworldcometo]

Short answer - yes! It goes very well with opening up to all sources either expected or unexpected.

I am sooooo looking forward to the post where you will say;

‘I know this might sound a bit ridiculous - BUT...’

I’ve just been on a little hunt through my extensive book shelves so that I could show you a book that helped me a lot in 1993. It helped me to become brave enough to set up my own company just a few years later. (The company has now evolved into a well respected (within our industry) national company. It started with a girl with an idea . I found it so useful for actively focussing on what I wanted to draw to myself...I thought putting it here may help. My Feng Shui journey began as a result of this book because it opened me up to the idea of the infinity of solution. In other words - just because I haven’t thought of something doesn’t mean it isn’t available to help View attachment 583877me...(Hope this makes sense).

I’ve just been on a little hunt through my extensive book shelves so that I could show you a book that helped me a lot in 1993. It helped me to become brave enough to set up my own company just a few years later. (The company has now evolved into a well respected (within our industry) national company. It started with a girl with an idea . I found it so useful for actively focussing on what I wanted to draw to myself...I thought putting it here may help. My Feng Shui journey began as a result of this book because it opened me up to the idea of the infinity of solution. In other words - just because I haven’t thought of something doesn’t mean it isn’t available to help View attachment 583877me...(Hope this makes sense).

Thank you so much dear Oops. This was really kind of you, to look up the book and post a photo of it. I really appreciate all your support.

Especially today, to be honest. Today I had another rubbish day, I am having a tough time at the moment and was fighting my way through the day when I got another bad message.

I felt like I was standing next to an abyss and called my counsellor who thankfully was able to talk to me and I now feel better.
She said that I simply had bad luck for the past couple of years and encouraged me to face things head on as otherwise I will get used to avoiding things that make me feel bad.

So I guess I will have another few weeks of fighting fires ahead of me.

A lot of my problems have to do with money and loss: my former partner tried to rip me off, I received bad advice, was betrayed etc.

So I was hoping that a more positive focus, including taking care of the Feng Shui of my life, could change the tide. I had so many hopes and they had been quashed and ripped out of my hands by misfortune or simply by simply having met the wrong people.

I am not looking to become rich and famous for the sake of it, but would like to be able to have my own home and support my family so that they are comfortable and secure. I hope that I can achieve this in the not too distant future.

Have a nice and relaxing evening

 

[Oops...]

Morning ladies!!! Any thoughts on Crussela plant? Also known as money plant. I bought two over the weekend but wasn’t sure if they needed to be placed in a certain room/direction? Thank you!
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In an earlier post I mentioned money plants on your desk if you wish to draw more income. Everyone in my office had a money plant on their desk. It was placed next to the telephone where business was done from. My first FSM really laboured this point. I did as he said - it worked and so the practise has always been continued. I heartily recommend this as I have had VERY good results from it indeed.
I would get the biggest one I could find if I were you place it by the phone (I know not many have the old phones any more at home but you might keep your mobile on your desk whilst working). The idea is that income comes in through communication and the phone is how we communicate.) Try not to have it in a plastic pot if possible.

Thank you very much! I am loving these websites!! I'm going to get started on it tonight!

They really work! They work because you are constantly reminded of your intention when you look at them. You follow your dominant thoughts so if this is a dominant thought - you follow it. Also, it‘s great fun - especially when the item you have focussed on mysteriously appears. Keep us posted. Also, when you are drawing something down you empower it even more by telling others about it. This is a strange anomaly - its almost as if you have to make it happen because you told someone you wanted it to...

 

[MissMidnight]

I’m here @Oops...

Thank goodness for my trusty pre-loved Tardis!

 

[PixelGirl]

I'm trying to find the clapping instructions, but can't seem to find them in this thread. Can anyone point me to the post? Specifically which corner of each room, or is it all corners of all rooms, speed? Windows and doors open?

There's this https://tattle.life/threads/feng-shui.15660/post-4001599 and this https://www.thespruce.com/alternatives-to-smudging-4137648

 

[OutDamnSpot]

11am should work for me, I’m looking forward to it!
Over the last week I’ve been making some small changes and additions in our house, as well as clearing out clutter and getting round to some deep cleaning. It’s amazing how much better the energy feels already
Can’t wait to hear everyone else’s experiences with the clapping

 

[whathastheworldcometo]

My money plants have arrived! I ordered them online.

The three crassulas are tiny and the pots I have are too big. I will need to get some very small green pots for them or possibly repot them soon.

The ones with the leaves that look like coins are a pair - I put them in the romance corner until I get a third one (or should I rather move them in the wealth corner despite them being two, not three)? Maybe they will send me a wealthy man?

So far the little toad hasn't been as helpful as he could have. Lets see, it is his second day.

 

[MissMidnight]

Hey, beautiful Tattlers!

I am alive and I promise an update about my hospital outpatient appointment yesterday is coming.

There is so much I want to tell you guys, but I need to type it all up and proof read it before I post it, as I no longer have the ability to delete any of my comments (not sure if this has happened to everyone or if I just reached my quota ).

Thank you for caring about me so much!

 

[Rubythefirebat]

Does anyone has a tip how to clean a place from bad energy without painting and moving furniture? It is a hotel, so it is not an option. I was thinking about maybe flowers would help.
I personally do not believe in ghost, but there was a guy who came and cleaned them, but I think nothing changed. The place is generally great, but there is some part with few rooms which has a bad vibe. Others swears for ghost. For me it is somehow creepy quiet. It is not because of how it is built, because all the rooms are on the same side. But in these "bad" rooms, I can't really explain it, but you can hear the cars less(?) and it has a heavy feeling. Every time I leave this part and step over the hallway door I feel relief, and feel alive!

 

[50sGirl]

These look wonderful! Much better than the purse mouse I found on Etsy. I haven't even used my purse since Covid started. I jam my pockets with all I need to not have to faff with sanitizing my leather purses. Much better to have something I can stick on/inside my phone case.

Thank you, @50sGirl!!

They’ve been dispatched so I’ll let you know when they arrive.
Tbh I chose that website because it’s run by a Feng Shui master and they say they ensure that all items are cleansed of negative energy before they post them out.

 

[Gertrude]

So interesting that you felt many emotions whilst you were clapping. Clearly your focus was very intent and it sounds to me like you did it very well. The effects should carry on with you for a little while as you have created a bit of a re-set now and may find this overlaps and insinuates itself into clearer thinking in other areas of your life. I have decided to do my next clap at the beginning of October or sooner if I start to feel a bit stuck. Having done it this time you will sense when you need to do it again. SO glad it felt good for you to do it.

I think you may be feeling what so many others are starting to feel vis going back to work. Are you able to entertain the thought of setting an intention to enjoying your work when you go back at all? Is it the work (I know your desk isn't in the right place at all) or is it the commute which makes you most anxious? Are you able to ask your employers if they would mind you carrying on working from home btw? If anyone who worked with me wrote and asked me that question I would definitely give it consideration. Perhaps you might say to them that you would be happy to attend zoom meetings but feel you are more productive at home and feel you have a great deal to offer them without the distractions of the office...you might cite the fact that you feel very over-looked at your desk. I am not trying to put words into your mouth of course but a lot of employers will have noticed an increase of productivity when workmates are working from home. (A strange anomaly which no-one might have imagined pre-Covid). It’s all dependent on the nature of your work of course and how much your employer values you and what you do for them. If yOu added up your total commute time there and back and halved it and then offered to donate that time to them that may help them consider your preference.I say donate because it’s against employment law to change someone’s contract of employment so your charitable donation to giving them some ‘free‘ work might not complicate matters for your HR department if it was suggested in that way. Just trying to think a little differently. I’m sure there’s a way through this...Do you have work colleagues who might feel the same way? Maybe if there are you might feel safer jointly approaching your employers on that basis perhaps...Just a few ideas...

Do you think it's something that is okay to be done frequently.. say monthly? or would that be too much? Don't want to mess anything up, but there are just a few things I'd like to do different next time, though there is no need for me to rush into it.

Re work, it's a combination of different elements making me extremely anxious. The commute being one of them! But also being around people all day again and certain office politics/dynamics. I feel so much happier and at peace at home. I am enjoying my job a lot more and am far more productive. The question of working from home post covid, has already come up. Your idea of 'donating' my time is excellent and one I would have gone for. Unfortunately, the company I work for are rather backwards in that respect; very set in their ways and not open to change. Very odd considering the industry I am in (I work for a large American corporation based in London, maybe this has some impact!?) They've acknowledged that productivity has increased this last year, but they want to go back to having an 'office presence' as soon as this is over
Maybe it's time to find a new job!! xx

 

[PixelGirl]

@Oops... with a lounge that @grumpycat has where it is an L shape, or there might be cupboards. If the cupboards say are in a corner, would you when looking at the room disregard the cupboard or include it. If your wealth area was the corner where the cupboard is, would you consider the area outside or inside the cupboard as the space to look at? I think it is outside the cupboard as that makes sense to me, but I'm just checking. Also, because it is an L Shape, is the Relationship SW corner in that room or in the 'missing area' which is in the kitchen?

 

[Milking Keynes]

@Milking Keynes aka Miss Havisham, Mrs Reticule Bennett, Mrs Archer Karcher and now Milton Keynes. I mean you are just destined for names. It’s your destiny... I once called @Miss Trunchbull, Miss Trunchpole...Trunchy is so much easier for the hard of memory...Anyway - it suits her. Milton Bennett - Oh! Milton Bennett! I can’t find my glasses again...Yep it’s got a definite ring to it

Just back from getting my Pfizer jab - v civilised. Took place in the hallowed grounds of rugby history - the Aviva Stadium. Anyway, happy Saturday - and yes, I love my name if it has Bennet in it for I am indeed more Bennet than Bennet herself. I am Bennet in a bonnet. Milton-Bennet-Bonnet.

 

[Milking Keynes]

I was so touched by your post. Truly . Also, it has INSPIRED me! I had a moment! I am absolutely mad about Interiors. They give me so much joy. Also, so do animals. I KNOW I’m not the only one. Maybe we could have a new topic thread where we could all share snapshots of some of our own interiors maybe or interiors we really like the look of AND our own pets! I am thinking it could maybe be called ‘Vignettes and Pets...’ I could write poems and songs about the pets again - I LOVE doing that and ANYONE else who wanted to could too.

The best part of Fur Babies (for me) was seeing the photos and hearing about the characteristics of everyone’s beloved pets. The mixture of sadness and joy of the Rainbow Bridge Babies (I bawled my eyes out writing some of them) and the feel-good factor of us all sharing them. So combining the two might give us a really happy, joyful site to visit and share together...So we’d have Feng Shui here and Interiors and Pets there; Whadderya’ think? If you like the idea I can set up a new thread tomorrow.

...this is me doing a giggle-fandango at the thought of it...

That would be lovely

 

[Milking Keynes]

Oops...I did it again . I hate it when my posts all roll into one...Tch!


@Milking Keynes , I’ve lost count of the times I have thought how lovely it would be to talk to you on the phone NAY de-camp to Ireland! Never more so than at the moment...I love you right back! But you know that...

Teddy Bear sends massive cuddles to his Gem

Drat the no DM rule...

Get the ferry, woman - I’ll pick you up - me and Archer Karcher!

I’ve been thinking of Teddy Bear, actually, as, when I got assigned to collecting doggy names for Downtonbury - in my imagination - Teddy Bear and Gem would fall in love - TB would sing ‘I am sixteen, going on seventeen...” from The Sound of Music and they would waltz outside staring into eachother’s eyes - ha - I’m a hopeless romantic (and TB turned sixteen in April, right?). Anyway, hugs to our wonderful fur babies.

Other good news on the MK front, Mr. Mk is back to golfing - the man is reborn! No more sulking in front of Bloomburg Markets (Romaine - over to you - whacha got) Oh - I did despair..who could watch that soulless tripe..

Anyway, I think you should pop in to the other thread from time to time even if you don’t want to commit completely right now - you have so many friends there as you know - just because I steal you as my own - you are honestly the most popular member there. Sending love from me and Gem to you and Teddy Bear

 

[whathastheworldcometo]

I am now wondering if and whether the boxes in the hallway behind the entrance door to my flat created bad Feng Shui and blocked the flow of money into my flat and that this is responsible for the negative outcome of the court case.

I totally blame myself

 

[Rubythefirebat]

I couldn't find it either

PMs

Re PMs We've kept them on for years now and it's gone from minor annoyances like when people don't spill tea and instead only send it via pm to people they deem worthy. Stuff like that is annoying as we'd like tattle to be inclusive and not cliquey. It got a bit more serious when quite a few...

tattle.life

Here you go

 

[Milking Keynes]

I really feel for you. I don’t know if this will help you BUT I was once told this and it has really helped me. If you get a coin and say heads I should do this...and tails I should do that - then you toss that coin and it gives you your answer - THEN if you want to say to yourself “best out of 3’ from the result you just got then the right decision is the opposite of what you just got on the first toss. (If it wasn’t you would not have wanted to do the best of 3 because your answer would have come with the first toss). I hope you can understand this very badly written post. I am more than happy to attempt to explain it again if it sounds like gibberish. Also, maybe the energy on the other thread has resonated with you because it might be more uppermost in your mind than you maybe thought it was. It’s almost like you’ve been given a processing trigger by reading the views of the posters. Energy is SO powerful...half the time we aren’t even aware of it. It might really help you to have a good hard think. On a quantum level we can at times damage ourselves by doing something that doesn’t feel right. If it feels right do it - if it doesn’t don’t. That’s your inner bell - It rings for a reason.

I think I may have said this before on this thread but Tesla said this;

If you want to understand the secrets of the universe; think in terms of Energy, Frequency and Vibration.

I am personally going to treasure that piece of advice.