Its not sentimental really and its cheaper to replace it which I will try to do when the shops open again I think. If any of my mother’s china which is so sentimental to me broke I would definitely get it repaired. I have it on display behind glass as I’m a little afraid to use it. Its so lovely.@Oops... if the china is sentimental could you look to getting it repaired? I did read that although chipped china is not good, getting it repaired is okay.
Also, I have read there are three commanding positions, your bed, stove and your desk where they should be placed diagonal to the door, and with your back not facing the door, (so you can have sight of the door to protect your back I am guessing from unseen negative energy) you can get around this with the placement of mirrors. It does sound daft that you might have mirrors everywhere, but I can see how a cleverly placed mirror in your home could alleviate a placement of a commanding item where it cannot be placed anywhere else.
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It sounds enormously daunting. However, good for you for honouring yourself and seeing it through. They may go for an out of court settlement before hand at the last minute. However, you might want to try something I was once advised to do. I must say it worked. You might if you are present in the court (you can also do it remotely if you aren’t actually going to be there). I was advised to imagine a small green ball of light in the centre of the court. Imagine that ball growing bigger and bigger until it bathes the whole court room in the green light. The green symbolises something that comes from the heart and connection to those there. Let that hang there for a while and then change the colour to blue and let that bathe the room. This symbolises communication and truth. It’s important to centre yourself beforehand maybe by closing your eyes and taking a few deep breaths and stating your intent that you would like a good outcome. If the decision maker/s in the court have the power to get the money for you maybe blast them with a bit of red. I wasn’t told to do that but its just that red is a very auspicious colour for finances and if they are making the decision for your finances I sense this may help you. Please will you let us know how you get on and if this helps you. In the meantime I hope it isnt too overwhelming for you during the build up.Good evening to you all
Do you have any feng shui guidance for legal matters?
I have a case that is being heard next week and a few other matters that are ongoing and wondered whether there is any positive energy I can create around that.
The outcome would make an important financial difference to me.
Essentially, I was betrayed and not paid what I was being owed and I fought for what is mine and now the formality of it scares me.
I am being taken advantage of quite frequently.
I wish for a positive outcome and for strong financial flow as a have a few good causes to support.
Your post made me smile
@Milking Keynes are you in the UK or in Southern Ireland, I seem to think it is Ireland for some reason?
I started a vision board on Pinterest last night and meditated/visualized it all while listening to music! Hoping it’s as good as a physical vision boardAn update on the money toad and vision boards. They do work! I finally have my dream job which I will be starting in June. Hopefully I will find a place to live that is better feng shui than what I live in currently. I am so overjoyed. Thank you for all of your lovely advices. I am very grateful!
If one of the items on vision board comes true, do you replace it with something new or leave it?
Yes - I completely agree! This is very good advice
I hate to think of you in tears but I think you’re making the right decision to keep your distance. I know others have said it and it’s hard to believe but one day you will be happy again.Morning @Kittycat86! I meant to reply yesterday but didn’t get the chance. I did put my intentions out on the new moon as you suggested.
Thank you once again for the words of encouragement, they really really helped. Tears still come at any time of the day, but I have faith the near future will be filled with happinessI have decided I will be keeping my distance from him, we have actually been texting and calling each other daily even after things ended more than a month ago, but yesterday for the first time I didn’t respond to his text.
I have no doubt you did it better than me! Still, though, I thoroughly enjoyed the experience. Love the thought of your dancing dog!
I'm thinking of wearing scrubs too.SAME!
Thankfully my work uniform consists of a pair of scrubs and trainers ... if I had to wear real clothes, I would have needed to invest in a whole new wardrobe!
I have a house full of nice clothes and two items that fit! 
Had to give daughter a lift so ended up ending v abruptly there - what I meant was, why don’t you give eachother one month? He needs it as much as you - this is not a situation to decide right now, for both of your sakes, honestly. And the other thing I would add is there is no right or wrong in love - if that were true, we would have all been easily steered in the right direction. Lots love - it’s v toughThank you, You da Man!! - I bow down to you
Oh, I’m sorry. So very hard to know. Is he willing himself to create distance in order for force you away? I haven’t a damn clue. All I will say to you is what I have learned - men are 20% testosterone and 80% pride. Give him space.
You’re the best. Yes, he was a wonderful man in every way. Your mum sounds pretty phenomenal too. I can see where you get your energy, @ Oops. So positive in every way.I can hear how difficult this must be for you. I really hope it doesn’t overwhelm you too much. Things can change in a heartbeat can’t they? There’s a book called the I Ching which can be very useful to help give you advice and hope at the same time. I would recommend an English translation as the old Chinese translations can be difficult for us to understand. It is a book of ancient wisdom. It might help you to look into that right now. You throw coins and they create a hexagram and the hexagram answer is likely to be specific to what you need. I will try and find mine (have fairly extensive bookcases to go through first). I will put the book up here for you to see and I hope it helps you. In the meantime ,,,breathe...IT WILL ALL BE OK
I’ve been looking forward to hearing more all day. I am sure she will tell us more about it soon.
Yes, you said about him being good at Art. I have a warm picture in my mind of your dear father from what you have said about him. I like drawing (as you can tell from my spell-binding efforts higher up) but definitely better at collecting it rather than actually doing the hard bit. That’s for sure.
Hehe, thanks! I ordered some orange cushions for our bedroom too, they arrived today
I saw what you did there - orange hearts - perfect!
Oh bless you, this post really moved me. I am trying to do the same with my FILs house. He’s in a nursing home with memory issues and his house is going up for sale soon. I can tell by your posts you’re a special person, your dad would be so proud xxxThank you, that means a lot.
I know I probably mention him more than I should but he’s left a huge gap in my life.
He was a very special man. I was very lucky to be his daughter.
I’ve worked so hard on his house, decluttering but without removing “him”.
On his desk I’ve placed a few books that relate to his life, alongside his glasses and his mug, and in his bedroom on the chest of drawers is his hat that he wore in the summer as if it’s there just waiting for him to pop it on before going out into the garden.
I know most will find that silly but it helps me deal with it.
When I see the estate agent’s photos I want it to still look like his home, not a impersonal show home or even worse like a “probate” house that you can spot a mile off on RightMove. I’m sure you all know the ones I mean - unloved and half empty where it’s starting to be cleared by the family. I just couldn’t do that to the place he loved.
(And there I go again, talking about him more than I should!)
Ah thank you! Upon reading, I'm not actually in line directly with the door, I'm facing the door but to the slight left of the doorway so when I rearrange the room I will try and move abit more to left! Feel better about that now! Realised the baby would be however directly in coffin position so may rethink and put baby on other side xx@1001 others What you are doing sounds good to me, have a look at this image and see if you can actually do anything with the way things are actually on your desk. The mirror to counter the door situation seems like a good fix and I have seen this mentioned as a way to get around having your back to the door.
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@Arts911 Young children are sensitive to energy changes so I had a look and it seems it is suggested you do it when they aren't in the house. Maybe if it's a nice day they could play in the garden while you do it.
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Never do space clearing with babies or children under eight years old present. Please be sure to make arrangements for them to be taken care of elsewhere during the ceremony.www.spaceclearing.com
@Yogarow I had a quick look for you, I am in no way an expert but it seems there are fixes for the coffin position. Have a read of this x At least if you look into it now when you do come to move you can look for the things you don't want to have, toilet over the front door for instance.
Feng Shui Tips for Handling a Bed Aligned With the Door
Beds and bedrooms can present numerous challenges for good feng shui flow through your home and a bed aligned with a door is one feng shui no-no.
