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Just to say - I absolute love this thread and feel like I've found my tribe with all you beautiful souls []
Oh! Such a lovely thing to say:). I love the idea of joining a tribe of beautiful souls - I have never thought of it in that way before.🍊 🍊🍊.
 
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Yes, I got rid of lots of things, I had to sell the house as I couldn't afford it on my own. I downsized considerably, but I love this house I am in now. It's not grand at all and for my daughter and me, it is enough. I hope you find your happy, I did x
It's sad you had to sell your house but at least your new home is your own. I am trying to keep the house for me to little ones and think we have an agreement. Won't get too excited until it's all done.
I hope you and your daughter are happier now x
 
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@Oops... if the china is sentimental could you look to getting it repaired? I did read that although chipped china is not good, getting it repaired is okay.

Also, I have read there are three commanding positions, your bed, stove and your desk where they should be placed diagonal to the door, and with your back not facing the door, (so you can have sight of the door to protect your back I am guessing from unseen negative energy) you can get around this with the placement of mirrors. It does sound daft that you might have mirrors everywhere, but I can see how a cleverly placed mirror in your home could alleviate a placement of a commanding item where it cannot be placed anywhere else.
 
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@Oops... if the china is sentimental could you look to getting it repaired? I did read that although chipped china is not good, getting it repaired is okay.

Also, I have read there are three commanding positions, your bed, stove and your desk where they should be placed diagonal to the door, and with your back not facing the door, (so you can have sight of the door to protect your back I am guessing from unseen negative energy) you can get around this with the placement of mirrors. It does sound daft that you might have mirrors everywhere, but I can see how a cleverly placed mirror in your home could alleviate a placement of a commanding item where it cannot be placed anywhere else.
Its not sentimental really and its cheaper to replace it which I will try to do when the shops open again I think. If any of my mother’s china which is so sentimental to me broke I would definitely get it repaired. I have it on display behind glass as I’m a little afraid to use it. Its so lovely.

The information about mirrors is brilliant thanks so much! This will make things clearer for us all! :m

Also, thanks so much for taking the trouble to explain how to clap corners to clear energy - that’s invaluable to anyone who might have been a bit puzzled.:m

It was so good of you to share the procedures you used at the end of your relationship. This is very relatable.🍊 x
 
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To help change my financial circumstances there was a book I read, The One Command by Asara Lovejoy, it was recommended to me at a networking event. It is a bit woowoo for some maybe because it is about theta thinking but I found it helpful. I've pulled it off the bookshelf and am planning to read it again. All this chat has been helpful for me personally because I have been in a bit of a funk for a while now with my thinking. I need to give myself a bit of a kick up the rear end and get moving again, making some long term plans.
 
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Oh! @PixelGirl - When you have read it again will you share it with us?
Its been hard on all of us since all this fear has been foisted upon us globally. It’s so easy to become down and not really understand why just now.
I was reading recently that empaths who have always been told/accused they were super-sensitive all their lives will now rise as beacons of light with super-power! This cheered me up enormously!
 
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I'm really enjoying this thread, who would have thought from LEM to here eh..! I'm a total newbie but finding everything you're all saying fascinating.

If anyone has any suggestions, I'm soon going to be moving into my first home is there anything in FS that suggest would be helpful for a fresh start to bring good energy in? Or perhaps to clear the air of the previous owners? Thank you so much 💛
 
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I'm really enjoying this thread, who would have thought from LEM to here eh..! I'm a total newbie but finding everything you're all saying fascinating.

If anyone has any suggestions, I'm soon going to be moving into my first home is there anything in FS that suggest would be helpful for a fresh start to bring good energy in? Or perhaps to clear the air of the previous owners? Thank you so much 💛
You can join us clapping our corners for great energy on 28th February - time yet to be arranged. That would be a great start for moving in. Bed placement is important (read earlier posts and watch YouTube for hints and help) and click on some of the helpful web-sites @PixelGirl has put up for us. Hope this helps. Any questions come back to us. 🍊
 
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I'm trying to find the clapping instructions, but can't seem to find them in this thread. Can anyone point me to the post? Specifically which corner of each room, or is it all corners of all rooms, speed? Windows and doors open?
 
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Can I ask what is significance of the banana theme in this thread? Are they good luck?
They might be, but they relate to a thread that we all follow (those with banana avatars) regarding a UK Influencer called Lydia Millen who was abusive to a heavily pregnant hairdresser. The hairdresser in an effort to placate her offered her a cup of tea and a banana.
 
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Has anyone got any preferences for a time to clap on Sunday please? It might be nice for us if we all manage to clap at a similar time.

11am - Midday or 1pm (GMT) are good for me x

I’m planning to take my ladder round with me as my ceilings are high. I am also planning to waft a white sage smudge stick everywhere when the corners are clapped having wafted the smudge stick over myself first for purification. There are other methods that don’t need a smudge stick as @PixelGirl has shown us in her post.
When I have clapped my corners in the past I have clapped up and down them until it feels better. I have opened the windows to do this and made sure the windows are clean. I have done space clearing in the past prior to clapping and am doing space clearing this week here again (Although I have never clapped corners in this house before). I think you might be supposed to use an eagle feather to waft the sage but cant find an eagle locally :rolleyes: . Looked on eBay but none of them are real eagle feathers so no point. I will waft with my own fair hand in that case...Can’t wait to hear how everyone gets on:m.

Oh btw when my Reiki lady came to a house I used to own she started clapping from the front door then all round the first floor then went upstairs. However, @PixelGirl has recommended to start from the top down so I will do it this way.
Also, I have read that if anyone is bed-ridden in the house at the time they should be moved but don’t effectively see how that’s possible. Also, pets should not be present either as they might pick up on the clapped energy...so my poor little Teddy Bear may have to spend some considerable time in the garden on Sunday which he wont be at all happy about if he’s on his own bless him.

Can I ask what is significance of the banana theme in this thread? Are they good luck?
On the other thread which @PixelGirl has told you about many of us changed our avatars in solidarity with the lovely lady who offered her transgressor a banana. It‘s become a bit of a thing on that thread since we previously changed our avatars to stand in solidarity with @PixelGirl when she was making a stand. :m. Some of us here came from that thread because we are interested in Feng Shui and improving the energy in our homes. Thus we are here and hopefully growing...Welcome to you! This is a lovely forum.
 
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I’m delighted that you recommended The Spruce. I was googling the money toad when we first opened this thread and came across it and I similarly found it to be a very calming, informative, well-laid out website.

I was wondering, @Oops, if I can get my girls to do the energy clapping and smudging in their rooms or if it ideally should be the same person throughout.

I can do either of the times mentioned so await your confirmation.
 
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I’m delighted that you recommended The Spruce. I was googling the money toad when we first opened this thread and came across it and I similarly found it to be a very calming, informative, well-laid out website.

I was wondering, @Oops, if I can get my girls to do the energy clapping and smudging in their rooms or if it ideally should be the same person throughout.

I can do either of the times mentioned so await your confirmation.
I would say it would be perfect if your girls do the clapping yes! Make a family fun day out of it :m .

Hopefully we can agree a time suitable for all soon - Great you can do any of the times mentioned x
 
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I would say it would be perfect if your girls do the clapping yes! Make a family fun day out of it :m .

Hopefully we can agree a time suitable for all soon - Great you can do any of the times mentioned x
So happy you agreed as the girls are keen to get involved.

I have enjoyed reading your comments so much and especially in light of the Lydia situation and our ongoing concern regarding little Porter and the chaos in the house. It is v interesting that you mention, for example, that Teddy Bear and, in my case, Gem, should not be in the house during our smudging and clapping for energy day. It has come up a few times on this thread of a dog’s sensitivity, ie in light of bad energy the dog may cower from those perceived areas.

In Lydia’s case, I don’t think she has given Porter a single thought. I think, as a puppy only recently introduced to a new home, the complete gutting - not minor refurb, but gutting of the living areas and the outside, is unforgiveable. It is so frightening for him to be faced with all these changes and scents and smells and disruption in such an important transition time, I just feel sick. It’s really gone beyond cruelty now.
 
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So happy you agreed as the girls are keen to get involved.

I have enjoyed reading your comments so much and especially in light of the Lydia situation and our ongoing concern regarding little Porter and the chaos in the house. It is v interesting that you mention, for example, that Teddy Bear and, in my case, Gem, should not be in the house during our smudging and clapping for energy day. It has come up a few times on this thread of a dog’s sensitivity, ie in light of bad energy the dog may cower from those perceived areas.

In Lydia’s case, I don’t think she has given Porter a single thought. I think, as a puppy only recently introduced to a new home, the complete gutting - not minor refurb, but gutting of the living areas and the outside, is unforgiveable. It is so frightening for him to be faced with all these changes and scents and smells and disruption in such an important transition time, I just feel sick. It’s really gone beyond cruelty now.
Oh that’s wonderful that they want to get involved! Perfect! I really hope you all enjoy the process and it will be great to be able to discuss it here afterwards.:m

(I have sensed all along that it will all end in tears with Porter :cry:)
 
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I would say it would be perfect if your girls do the clapping yes! Make a family fun day out of it :m .

Hopefully we can agree a time suitable for all soon - Great you can do any of the times mentioned x
I can also do any of the times you have mentioned ❤
 
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I've been catching up with this thread for the past week or so, I'm really enjoying the information and the general sense of support and positivity <3 I have some questions (which I will ask later, when I can gather more thoughts more eloquently) but trying these out to feel less stuck and trapped sounds like a great start. I am not in a position to alter anything where I currently live - even though I badly want to but hopefully even adjusting my own space will help lighten things up a little bit.
 
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