Fathering Autism #24 Pullups, messy hair and dirty feet. Hambeasts can’t parent but they sho can eat!

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That gif I posted of Zilla was in Jan.....

This photo is from yesterday’s vlog



If you’re having a hard time losing weight just say it. She wasted such a good opportunity to be relatable, weight loss or not.

She would rather waste her popularity recruiting for Slimelife.
She needs to recruit and make money because their YT lost a lot with the addapocalypse. I can’t find the video but there is one out there explaining how much YT people were making before and now after and it’s less than half what they once were. If they are worth a million dollars I’d be surprised, and that’s honestly not a lot. That doesn’t take you far these days. And 5k is the house. And the more I look into the house the more I find it’s worse than I said before. They are definitely pumping money into that house besides the mortgage because the house was built in 1926. We know they already had to replace the roof when they moved in and then that wasn’t even done right that had to be fixed again. And either they were to cheap or couldn’t afford to replace the fridge that was there, that one cost no joke around $10,000. They put in that mess that doesn’t match the kitchen. So I don’t believe they are living as large as they want people to believe. I think it’s smoke and mirrors at this point.

At least the virus is saving them from themselves at this point because they’d be pissing away money on a convention and who knows what other pointless trip. And Abbie would be terrorizing some unfortunate person yet again on the plane.
 
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Omg I thought you guys were joking about Asa leaving the pool to clean Abby but in today's vlog she was rolling around in the dirt with black feet,next scene she was in the pool :cautious: She was in her PJ's by dinner time with the same wet ponytail from the pool cleaning. They didn't even bother to brush her hair!

Wooooow.
 
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That posture...her neck...man oh man. It seems the older she gets, the worse her issue with low muscle tone gets. The way she kind of flaps her legs when she walks, can't lift her arms all the way up, her weak looking core, her hands now it's like she just can't hold her own head up. Maybe that's why she lays down so often right in the middle of physical activities...maybe it all exhausts her. This is what the Speech lady mentioned...her other medical issues. I'd love to know what all is wrong with Miss Abbie.
 
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That gif I posted of Zilla was in Jan.....

This photo is from yesterday’s vlog



If you’re having a hard time losing weight just say it. She wasted such a good opportunity to be relatable, weight loss or not.

She would rather waste her popularity recruiting for Slimelife.
She looks around 290 to me.
 
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That posture...her neck...man oh man. It seems the older she gets, the worse her issue with low muscle tone gets. The way she kind of flaps her legs when she walks, can't lift her arms all the way up, her weak looking core, her hands now it's like she just can't hold her own head up. Maybe that's why she lays down so often right in the middle of physical activities...maybe it all exhausts her. This is what the Speech lady mentioned...her other medical issues. I'd love to know what all is wrong with Miss Abbie.
I think we all would like to know but they won't ever disclose it. They're playing the Autism card in the forefront of everything else that girl has. The saddest thing is she's so young. She's 15. What will life be for her physically 20 or 30 years down the road.
 
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I think we all would like to know but they won't ever disclose it. They're playing the Autism card in the forefront of everything else that girl has. The saddest thing is she's so young. She's 15. What will life be for her physically 20 or 30 years down the road.
Was looking around at causes of low muscle tone and read this:

Low Muscle Tone: About 30 percent of children with autism have moderate to severe loss of muscle tone, which can limit their gross and fine motor skills. Pain: Some people with autism have very high pain thresholds (insensitivity to pain), while others have very low pain thresholds.
 
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I actually thought that A &P had switched over the camera until it panned up and you saw it was A! It really could have been P!
Same!!!🤣😆

I was skipping around and not really paying attention to the vlog, as I only wanted to grab some screenshots of his large belly 🤷‍♀️😂😂.

I thought :mwas filming, to be honest!!
 
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Kidney stones🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬...luckily I usually avoid catheters but they tend to go straight for stents. Urologist calls me a stone factory, I blame my parents lol.
Which brings me to the question of, do they even have health insurance? ER for stone was April 25..with insurance paid $250, without would have been alot more, i refused being admitted since hospital was last place I wanted to be with COVID.
I wonder if their just playing Russian roulette
Hi Kermy, fellow ks suffer here, in 2016, got blood poisoning, stent, etc. Then stent removed, kidney stones blasted. 2017, yearly check to see if blasting good, 7 X1 mm bits, L kidney, had stopped drinking ‘pop’, soft drinks, ended up hospital, as body dumping phosphates! Specialist said, rare side effect..... drink Coke (as in coca cola! 2020, scan shows, new stone on L side, 5 on other. Painful
 
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Hi Kermy, fellow ks suffer here, in 2016, got blood poisoning, stent, etc. Then stent removed, kidney stones blasted. 2017, yearly check to see if blasting good, 7 X1 mm bits, L kidney, had stopped drinking ‘pop’, soft drinks, ended up hospital, as body dumping phosphates! Specialist said, rare side effect..... drink Coke (as in coca cola! 2020, scan shows, new stone on L side, 5 on other. Painful
I feel for you both, I have never had them but I have seen them bring my husband to his knees in pain.
 
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That posture...her neck...man oh man. It seems the older she gets, the worse her issue with low muscle tone gets. The way she kind of flaps her legs when she walks, can't lift her arms all the way up, her weak looking core, her hands now it's like she just can't hold her own head up. Maybe that's why she lays down so often right in the middle of physical activities...maybe it all exhausts her. This is what the Speech lady mentioned...her other medical issues. I'd love to know what all is wrong with Miss Abbie.
I don’t want to diagnose Abbie because I don’t know her, but from what I’ve seen past and present videos... I’d say her biggest problem is she’s lazy.

This was also another reason A&P should have never forced her to be in the advanced class, her old classes also included PT.

Now she no longer is working on her mobility and A&P let her sit or lay down anytime and anyplace she pleases. They do no exercises with her. The most she gets is a walk. But A&P are lazy so what do we expect.

Also she goes to camp, I highly doubt she’s getting away with her game of sitting and laying down constantly there. I believe her buddy is moving her to do activities. And that’s what she needs is constant motivation till she understands she can’t be lazy. But if she can get away with it of course she’s going to.

We all saw at Disney they didn’t even make her walk there because they didn’t want the tantrums so they got her a wheelchair. I was a bit angry about that one, first Disney doesn’t always have enough wheelchairs to go around when it gets extremely busy and your child and that other boy are perfectly capable of walking they just don’t always want to. They need to start telling her to get up and stand there and start walking. They created this monster that thinks it’s a funny game now. Because look on Abbies face when she does it, it’s behavioral not physical.

They can correct this issue and help her before it’s too late but unfortunately like I said they are too lazy. And even Summer has become lazy since she’s moved in. Since they are in the pool I’d be moving her arms and legs but again that be too much for any of them. Even simple neck exercises would help but we won’t ever see it. And Abbie will pay the price. But like I said when they don’t even care about their own health why do we expect them to care about their daughters. After all Fathering Autism isn’t about Abbie or even making people aware it’s about making money. And they are going to ride that money train for as long as they possibly can.
 
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In the US, Chesapeake, VA to be specific. Ever since companies started running hospitals, they are turning away patients who may have an unfavorable outcome. Between my weight (which is a struggle when you cannot stand or walk a short distance) and my CRPS, I am being put on hold. CRPS has no cure and very little successful treatment options. I am fighting the system, even with several doctors saying the knee will need to be replaced. But what can I do?
I have CRPS too, from a piece of polypropylene mesh put in to lift my bladder neck after baby. Twenty years of ‘it’s all in your head’ pain wise, Immune system down the toilet. Twenty years later, had mesh removed, but we can’t sue J&J, as we have no fault insurance, but finally had my assessments, and my CRPS is covered by the universal insurance, as well as mesh damage/ immune system stress. Compensation from these 🤬$1000 a year
 
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Hi Kermy, fellow ks suffer here, in 2016, got blood poisoning, stent, etc. Then stent removed, kidney stones blasted. 2017, yearly check to see if blasting good, 7 X1 mm bits, L kidney, had stopped drinking ‘pop’, soft drinks, ended up hospital, as body dumping phosphates! Specialist said, rare side effect..... drink Coke (as in coca cola! 2020, scan shows, new stone on L side, 5 on other. Painful
They are like ticking time bombs waiting to go off. Best thing was being the only female in a urologist waiting room. It's when I discovered men are wimps lol
 
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As I am unfamiliar with Floridian birds, and Asa obviously hasn't got a clue, please can someone tell me what the birds in yesterday's vlogs were - I did recognise a Jay.

Similarly with the shrubs they were busily decimating - one I think was plumbago. Seems a shame that they don't bother to find out what they have growing in their front garden. They have no sense of enquiry or discovery.
 
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As I am unfamiliar with Floridian birds, and Asa obviously hasn't got a clue, please can someone tell me what the birds in yesterday's vlogs were - I did recognise a Jay.

Similarly with the shrubs they were busily decimating - one I think was plumbago. Seems a shame that they don't bother to find out what they have growing in their front garden. They have no sense of enquiry or discovery.
A Blue Jay for sure and in the tree, it looked like a Mourning Dove.

I was bummed they ripped that plant out, it had some pretty blooms and much potential. One more reason to dislike this family.
 
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She needs to recruit and make money because their YT lost a lot with the addapocalypse. I can’t find the video but there is one out there explaining how much YT people were making before and now after and it’s less than half what they once were. If they are worth a million dollars I’d be surprised, and that’s honestly not a lot. That doesn’t take you far these days. And 5k is the house. And the more I look into the house the more I find it’s worse than I said before. They are definitely pumping money into that house besides the mortgage because the house was built in 1926. We know they already had to replace the roof when they moved in and then that wasn’t even done right that had to be fixed again. And either they were to cheap or couldn’t afford to replace the fridge that was there, that one cost no joke around $10,000. They put in that mess that doesn’t match the kitchen. So I don’t believe they are living as large as they want people to believe. I think it’s smoke and mirrors at this point.

At least the virus is saving them from themselves at this point because they’d be pissing away money on a convention and who knows what other pointless trip. And Abbie would be terrorizing some unfortunate person yet again on the plane.
It is usually a good idea to purchase the least expensive house in the best neighborhood but these clowns bought one of the more expensive houses.

She looks so foolish dancing. Why would P want to make herself a laughing stock?

Thanks ... I’ve been saying that about walking around in Florida barefoot... especially in grass and such... anywhere really. Those damn bugs are no joke! Idk how they let her do that! At least teach her to wear flip flops.
Ticks get under the skin as do chiggers. Fire ants sting.

This totally looks like a crime scene. 🤷‍♀️

Seriously though, the only crimes here are the three inches of her diaper showing (still no potty training) and her dirty, nasty, gross feet that probably weren't washed until the next morning. 🤢🤮 👣


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Nice neighbors.
 
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It is usually a good idea to purchase the least expensive house in the best neighborhood but these clowns bought one of the more expensive houses.
By British house prices their house was cheap. Is theirs a smart neighbourhood? I read up a bit about Jacksonville and it said it is a dangerous city. I would have thought they are setting themselves up to be burgled. Mind you, Asa having been done for burglary, will know a bit about the best security but they don't appear to have much in the way of an alarm system. As they broadcast when they are away they are making themselves vulnerable I would have thought.
 
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Also wonderful advice and insight. Siblings get overwhelmed with adult responsibilities by the same people who then treat them like irresponsible children when it suits them. Looking back that makes me the angriest. Example would be cleaning my brother's room and bathroom when I was nine and then being told I could have a new bedspread only if I kept my own room immaculate. (While we were at the store buying new bedding and curtains for my brother.)

I hope Isaiah is reading this. Just get out and start your own life. It may seem counterintuitive, but breaking free makes it possible to help out later to the extent that you are able without it grinding you down.
I sincerely hope that Isi can go to school and spread his wings a bit. All he has ever known about working for a living is based on his parents (lol). I’m sure that if ISi had said he wanted to be an engineer building bridges, he probably would have been shot down in flames. There is nothing wrong with engineers, plumbers, electricians etc, but he hasn’t had a lot of exposure to any of that. I think the only one of his grandparents still working, is Asa’s mother’s husband, who is a nurse practitioner, which is again, in the medical side of things. I hope he goes to school and finds his passion for something like performing arts, where he can travel and work overseas, helping out in countries like where Stephen lives, or Romania, and helps bring a little light in to these poor communities, by teaching, entertaining, helping build new communities etc. IMO a much better life choice to a sweet caring young man, than going into the military as is family tradition
 
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