Fathering Autism #22 Bored, lazy, getting fatter. Scams, gift cards are all that matter.

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Abbie barges in the room several times, P seems annoyed a little.
Between the loud constant honking & clapping, my nerves are shot.

was not happy!! It was actually hilarious watching her get interrupted so many times by Abbie...while watching her try to deal with Abbie one on one, while live, as she had to try and compose herself.


Abbie grabbed ’s arm - and now it looks looks like a butt crack
 
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Probably the only place Asshole can get in.
 
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He has learned a good work ethic from you and Asa!!! Y’all work so hard!!! And he really does ... like getting up at 4 am to do photography the other day !!!

That was a co.ment from Prigly's live.
People are crazy.
 
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You forgot these...she just has to touch her face! Stop it! (I couldn’t watch past the first few minutes so I only took the 2 shots, I’m sure there’s a ton more of her touching her face!)

My goodness!
That ugly ass shirt she had on during her live wasn't doing her any favors.
Wow.
I agree, and she kept pulling at it. And it doesn’t cover her upper arms enough, they were flapping around when she put her arms up. At least wear something flattering if you’re being a sales person online!
 

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The subscription box was labeled by age and it hurt Asa's feelings that the things at her level were labeled "for babies 6 - 8 months" or whatever. I can understand being a little annoyed by it, but like you said, if Abbie would enjoy the subscription they should swallow their pride and meet her at her level.
I've always thought it was the other way around re: A and P's acceptance of Abbie's future prospects. I think Priscilla understands the severity of Ab's impairments and that's why she freezes her out and pretends Summer is her real daughter. I think Asa (as someone here said recently) is still secretly waiting for Abbie's savant moment, or at least genuinely expects some drastic improvement. He is her main caregiver, after all, and he knows all (he thinks) and look at all the change she has made in only such and such amount of time (sarcasm).
They both cling to the autism label because it is trendy. I hate to say that, because I know there are people here who genuinely struggle with the effects of autism either with themselves or their children. But it is a buzzword, a popular topic that you will find a multitude of information and opinions about. The topic of IDD is kind of swept under the rug. Kids are mocked, called mean names and thought of as "less than." Autism...the message you often get is that your brain is just wired differently. Also, you have this whole exclusive community to commiserate with. I'm not saying it's a walk in the park, but easier for most people to be upfront about. Maybe it's time they talked about it, though.
I don't really think Isaiah is much more than slightly above average, but they do put a lot of pressure on him to compensate for what they miss out on with Abbie.
Funny story they told in a live once. At the first awards ceremony for You Tube they attended (it might have been the Shorty? Awards but not sure), Isaiah had been excitedly going up to everyone and saying "we're from Fathering Autism!" and someone mistook him and Asa for a gay couple who were co-parenting Abbie. When they called the Maass family up for the award, the presenters were like "come on up, guys!" and were kind of looking at Priscilla like "who is she?" Ha, they obviously thought Isaiah was a lot older than he is, and I guess the name of the channel doesn't really include Priscilla, but it just kind of shows how detached she is when she isn't putting on a show, like dancing around when Abbie matches her colors correctly.
 
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It definitely hurt their feelings with the subscription box. I can't recall if it was A or P (probably Asa) who made a face and said: "But, she's almost 15!". Yes, physically she's almost fifteen years old - mentally she isn't and the sooner you guys accept that - the better! Their damn pride is hindering Abbie and depriving her of stuff she can actually relate to and get some enjoyment out of. So she loves toys that are meant for babies or toddlers - so what?? That's what makes her happy! It's not a bad thing and it isn't some failure as parents to admit and accept that.
In some ways P does accept that Abbie is limited - like the ones you mentioned. In other ways, P still tries to force the "typical teenager" thing on Abbie. Like redoing her bedroom, giving her a 'special day' to get her hair done and dressed up when JSA put on their prom. Other videos where she has a pretend spa day with Abbie. P is also usually the first one to turn something down that's geared toward the baby/toddler level and points out that Abbie is a teenager. Or she tries to convince the viewers (and herself) that Abbie is no longer interested in sensory toys and that she's grown out of it when it's plain as day that isn't true.
There is definitely a larger and more popular autism community than there is an IDD community. For sure. It gets more clicks and views on youtube so that's what they focus on. One of the many problems with what they're doing is that they are giving the impression that the kind of behavior Abbie displays is what other parents of autistic kids can potentially expect.
 
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I bet we don’t see any of those toys again.
 
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if I was brandi, id run far and fast from the family and I’d shout at the top of my lungs to avoid the maass family
I would too! Everything she does Ass and Pri undo it! If I was there to work with a child, I’d request that the parents NOT INTERFERE. They could observe me and when we were done, I’d answer any question that they had.
 
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Cilla's dance party. Starts at 4:41

Oh dear.

welcome back x

I love Hyacinth.
 
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I agree with you and have noticed this a few times. Some people with disabled children will say they wouldn't change them, but I also find that hard to believe. I think that parents want the very best for their children so why would wish a disability on them if you could change it.
I think they tell themselves that to make them able to deal with the situation they are in.
 
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Did I imagine it or did they briefly mention something about JSA moving locations? If so that seems a bit strange as I thought they had gotten planning permission etc to build the group home there and also the gardens they’ve been working on to sell fruit, veg and plants were well established.
 
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Yeah. Said something like 'she will be in a new building' next year (September) Maybe it because she is older. Perhaps her next school year is just in a different part of the school?
 
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