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I've said it before and I'll say it again...her teachers and therapists must be SO frustrated if they watch these vlogs. I know each night after watching I say a prayer that my students on the spectrum aren't in an environment in which everything we have worked SO hard to accomplish isn't being completely undone.
 
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Show of hands...how many of you are FORMER fans of this 💩 show?
I am ashamed to admit that I am. I found them over a year ago, binge watched, and then waited every day for 6 PM so I could see the latest. For our family vacation last summer we went to Florida (not for the Aass family I PROMISE!!) and I messaged them and begged them to have a meetup sometime during the week I was in their state. I was willing to drive 4 hours to Jacksonville if they did. I'm so ashamed. It was THE video that brought me here in February and helped me see them for what they are. Let me remind you that I an Autism Specialist by profession. Have I mentioned how ASHAMED I am?
I was. Not really ashamed, they put on a good front. I never spent any money or anything on them. I always saw through P's mlm scheme because I've had various Facebook friends attempt "makeup companies" over the years. They slowly started to get under my skin with their treatment of Nala and Maverick. And the whole vibe changed once they got to the new house, I found myself less interested.

I had the same experience you did. I didn't know there were forums to talk about them until THE video was posted and they complained about these forums and so I did a quick google search because I'm nosy and wanted to know more details about the scandal. I was a lurker for a few weeks, picking up on things that were pointed out on here. And then the quarantine happened and and as a Dunkin employee, their continous visits when we all know they have a coffee pot at home and have no need to go out was what made me start posting.
 
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@lovesis that pool cleaner needs to come every other day ... seeing as how dirty they are and the pool looks filthy af. They at least need to have the vacuum thing so they can do some on their own in between their services. Oh wait, they’re lazy af. Filthy, disgusting people. And that is the most redneck floatie I have ever seen with my own two eyes. Can’t wait till A shows P trying to get on it and it sinks immediately.
What’s the bet Abby has tit and thrown up in that pool multiple times from swallowing water ?

God I know it’s not Abby’s fault but I can’t help feel the same rage Pigcilla obviously has towards her. The lights are on but nobodies home obviously, her eyes remind me of like beady shark eyes. She’s dangerous and unpredictable, not aware of her own strength, she’s whiny and demanding for food constantly and breaks, even her moments of happiness are annoying because you don’t even know what’s actually caused them — food?

I don’t get why they don’t just have her barred out on Xanax to make her more tolerable/manageable. I guess a vlog where she just sits and behaves calmly won’t be making them money, they need the calamity and impulsive unpredictable behaviours which they can then attribute traits on to (“she’s sooo sassy!” “Think she’s feeling upset Summer is leaving..”) to keep people interested.

Sorry for my rants I was taking a break and just hearing Abby do that yelling stim has made my blood pressure rise...
 
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Exactly. Of course, medication plays a part. But when Summer & Isaiah were in charge, it was proven that it IS possible to get her on a normal sleep schedule and to even sleep in some mornings. They spent the time it takes w Abbie to work some energy out and get her tired for bedtime. Letting her nap so much during the day and hardly doing anything with her is a recipe for not sleeping at night.
I also believe she enjoys Summer and Is company which in turn made it easier for them to watch her

Aww don’t talk about my girl like that!
She might wanna fight you lmao

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So it is ok for your developing teen daughter to strip naked in the house and pool area just because you say so. Umm you are exposing your son to an uncomfortable situation though he can never tell you because you will make him feel awful if he complains. Your daughter also has the right to dignity even though she doesn't know it. You have Windows in your house do you not? There is also a chance someone will enter your gate or look through a space at your nude daughter. To pedophiles and curious people she is just a naked girl to be abused in their filthy minds. You will be fortunate if you don't find her picture on the internet now that Daddy Warbucks announced to the world that she hangs out in the nude and you let her. Of course she never passes a window and of course no one could possibly snap her picture. Do you tell yourself this? You and your family do not have the privilege of living in a bubble protected from the evils of the world. Complacency is something no parent can afford no matter how much money they have. Good God man...I believe you love your daughter. Protect her D@%# it! People are already disgusted with things You and your wife have done and said in your pursuit of money, fame and numbers on the net. You have now set yourself up for every pedophile on the net to make your numbers go up at the expense of Abbies privacy and dignity. Will it be worth it to know she is likely to become some pervert's fantasy? What happens when you do a meet and greet?! Who is in that crowd man? You better start using your brain for more than counting dollar signs and numbers and use it for raising and protecting your daughter FROM YOUR STUPIDITY. PROTECTING YOUR CHILD. PARENTING 101..FIRST CHAPTER FIRST SENTENCE..You are responsible for your child's well being, safety and love. In the beginning you and Priscilla with your family had a great opportunity to bring wonderful awareness, respect and support for Autism.
Now it is just so sad what it turned into.
So it is ok for your developing teen daughter to strip naked in the house and pool area just because you say so. Umm you are exposing your son to an uncomfortable situation though he can never tell you because you will make him feel awful if he complains. Your daughter also has the right to dignity even though she doesn't know it. You have Windows in your house do you not? There is also a chance someone will enter your gate or look through a space at your nude daughter. To pedophiles and curious people she is just a naked girl to be abused in their filthy minds. You will be fortunate if you don't find her picture on the internet now that Daddy Warbucks announced to the world that she hangs out in the nude and you let her. Of course she never passes a window and of course no one could possibly snap her picture. Do you tell yourself this? You and your family do not have the privilege of living in a bubble protected from the evils of the world. Complacency is something no parent can afford no matter how much money they have. Good God man...I believe you love your daughter. Protect her D@%# it! People are already disgusted with things You and your wife have done and said in your pursuit of money, fame and numbers on the net. You have now set yourself up for every pedophile on the net to make your numbers go up at the expense of Abbies privacy and dignity. Will it be worth it to know she is likely to become some pervert's fantasy? What happens when you do a meet and greet?! Who is in that crowd man? You better start using your brain for more than counting dollar signs and numbers and use it for raising and protecting your daughter FROM YOUR STUPIDITY. PROTECTING YOUR CHILD. PARENTING 101..FIRST CHAPTER FIRST SENTENCE..You are responsible for your child's well being, safety and love. In the beginning you and Priscilla with your family had a great opportunity to bring wonderful awareness, respect and support for Autism.
Now it is just so sad what it turned into.
So it is ok for your developing teen daughter to strip naked in the house and pool area just because you say so. Umm you are exposing your son to an uncomfortable situation though he can never tell you because you will make him feel awful if he complains. Your daughter also has the right to dignity even though she doesn't know it. You have Windows in your house do you not? There is also a chance someone will enter your gate or look through a space at your nude daughter. To pedophiles and curious people she is just a naked girl to be abused in their filthy minds. You will be fortunate if you don't find her picture on the internet now that Daddy Warbucks announced to the world that she hangs out in the nude and you let her. Of course she never passes a window and of course no one could possibly snap her picture. Do you tell yourself this? You and your family do not have the privilege of living in a bubble protected from the evils of the world. Complacency is something no parent can afford no matter how much money they have. Good God man...I believe you love your daughter. Protect her D@%# it! People are already disgusted with things You and your wife have done and said in your pursuit of money, fame and numbers on the net. You have now set yourself up for every pedophile on the net to make your numbers go up at the expense of Abbies privacy and dignity. Will it be worth it to know she is likely to become some pervert's fantasy? What happens when you do a meet and greet?! Who is in that crowd man? You better start using your brain for more than counting dollar signs and numbers and use it for raising and protecting your daughter FROM YOUR STUPIDITY. PROTECTING YOUR CHILD. PARENTING 101..FIRST CHAPTER FIRST SENTENCE..You are responsible for your child's well being, safety and love. In the beginning you and Priscilla with your family had a great opportunity to bring wonderful awareness, respect and support for Autism.
Now it is just so sad what it turned into.
 
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Asa is having a convo with Abbie. She looks completely lost but when he says snack, she grabs the bowl.

She picks up on certain things. I don’t see why they don’t try to teach her more signs, or more words that she could associate things with.

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Oh she picks up on anything food related and her hands are not floppy when she grabbing it and shovelling it in.

Raises my hand! Lowers my head!
I was a loyal fan, watched every day and even bought slimelife from P. I tried to like the makeup but never could get it to look good and not dry out my skin something horrible. It accentuates every single wrinkle you have and ones you didnt know you had!

I almost became a supporter, until they moved and I saw that their house was huge! Sorry but I can't support someone who's doing better than I am. I was already starting to pull away before the big secret was revealed, because once they moved I felt like I was watching one big commercial with Abbie sprinkled in here and there.

Once the secret came out and
Assa said he didn't have anything to do with his 1st daughter because they were granting the mothers wish, I had had enough. I knew that was total BS and having a background in this sort of situation, it pissed me off to no end that he just let his flesh and blood go without a fight. It showed me what kind of man he really was. It doesnt matter what the mother wanted or didn't...he had rights as the father to that child. He just simply gave her up with no fight.
Isn’t it the makeup morticians use haha

This poor soul has posted this same post several times on 🐖's 🐖stick momma page.
Of course it gets ignored.
It takes 2 seconds to reply "hi".
🐖 is vile af.
IMO
Poster girl for Limelife. Sorry I can’t stop laughing, would you reply to that.
 
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Show of hands...how many of you are FORMER fans of this 💩 show?
I am ashamed to admit that I am. I found them over a year ago, binge watched, and then waited every day for 6 PM so I could see the latest. For our family vacation last summer we went to Florida (not for the Aass family I PROMISE!!) and I messaged them and begged them to have a meetup sometime during the week I was in their state. I was willing to drive 4 hours to Jacksonville if they did. I'm so ashamed. It was THE video that brought me here in February and helped me see them for what they are. Let me remind you that I an Autism Specialist by profession. Have I mentioned how ASHAMED I am?
I was kind of a fan. I watched a lot of vlogs and they were one of my favorites. They seemed grounded and relatable compared to other you tubers, and seemed to be doing the best they could for Abbie. I even remember thinking at one point (long before the weight loss surgery) that Priscilla was such a beautiful person, mainly because of her personality. :ROFLMAO: Then I started noticing things that made me think they were not so great. Like in one live stream, Priscilla went on about how dumb the mother of one if Isaiah's friends was because she planned to leave him too long at a sleepover. Then I saw Asa comment something really rude to a fan. Just little things like that. I went to the forum I mentioned before (starts with a Y) and they had a thread, but it was all worshipful comments just like in the vlogs, even though it was a forum meant for criticism and gossip. Those comments bothered me because I knew that nobody can live up to that kind of hype. I never would have imagined there was an abandoned secret third child, though, or that they would go quite so crazy with the money and let the fame go to their heads like they have.
 
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I was. Not really ashamed, they put on a good front. I never spent any money or anything on them. I always saw through P's mlm scheme because I've had various Facebook friends attempt "makeup companies" over the years. They slowly started to get under my skin with their treatment of Nala and Maverick. And the whole vibe changed once they got to the new house, I found myself less interested.

I had the same experience you did. I didn't know there were forums to complain until THE video was posted and they complained about these forums and so I did a quick google search because I'm nosy and wanted to know more details about the scandal. I was a lurker for a few weeks, picking up on things that were pointed out on here. And then the quarantine happened and and as a Dunkin employee, their continous visits when we all know they have a coffee pot at home and have no need to go out was what made me start posting.
I didnt discover this site until google recommended it to me- I was already well fed up with them (hi, also a former fan! Never did buy any merch but was interested in some of the shirts until I learned more about the puzzle pieces)

I was initially happy at their house upgrade, but they went downhill fast after getting in it. By the time the video came out about the other daughter, I was like, disappointed but not surprised. Everyone makes mistakes, I'm more upset that he never tried and often pays late for child support on top of paying the bare minimum.

Tattle came up in my recommended while they were in Atlanta. Just before it did, I was talking to my mom about how upset I was about this family (she watches it too sometimes, two of her kids are also autistic). Then thread #13 showed up on google about spreading awareness (and corona) and it was like a godsend. I felt awful for having the thoughts about them that I was esp as all the comments are so simpering.

I even remember complaining to my mom about that horrid fish bubble mouth stim abbie has, and others here also hated it!

Thank you for having me here friends haha
 
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I’m pretty sure she got tired of being called out. I also think Assa had a lot to do with it. Those comments telling him to back off got to him.
 
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The “Village” that JSA is looking to create, would allow everyone within the community to work, have appropriate oversight, learn, etc. and either live in a group home setting or independently. There are several of these communities popping up around the US. The problem is, by what I can tell, none of these would allow Abbie to work and live in them. They require that the person go through VR services and be able to handle some independent direction without complete oversight constantly...
These “Villages” are also very expensive. They not only require the parents to sign over their monthly funds but they also usually require the family to make several huge payments to secure housing. They are a logistical nightmare for Medicaid and Medicare to bill and depending on the state, if they can even use them. Some that aren’t dependent on Medicaid and Medicare require families to constantly pay monthly too..
In New Mexico or Texas, they did this with an apartment complex. Each 1 bedroom apartment, sold for $650k... Then their monthly funds from SSA and Medicaid were used for upkeep and care of all the individuals.. I don’t even know if they got to open..
The Village runs itself, having some learning to cook, others learning to fix items, etc. If they want to change jobs, they can request it and will eventually be able to try that job..
The biggest issue is that parents facing retirement, to find places like this, have to look at a huge debit, just to secure their adult child’s housing and even then, it isn’t completely secure because some of these never materialize and leave families scrambling to find long term housing...
But as Stripe69 says, Abbie is too IDD to be able to fulfil any useful function as she has nil attention span and would need constant supervision. She cant lay a table, cant peel vegetables, cant clean effectively so sadly would probably not be accepted into such a community.

It’s a shame Abbie will never be able to live in a place like Jen, I’m pretty impressed with it from what I can see...I’m sure that cost back
 
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I can't 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 this enough!!!

This 💯⬆⬆

What an A$$~! His exploitation of their daughter has funded ALL THE THINGS they have now.


Anyone notice how in the last two vlogs Isaiah is referred as having to go care for Abbie? The night P was exercising her fingers in bed😂 and she texted BOTH A$$ and Isaiah to put Abbie to bed then in the latest one Isaiah mentioned he woke up at 3:30AM with Abbie? That poor kid! Even if his college does online classes I hope he still moves to the college area. He's only 18 so I hope he begins to understand the terrible influence his parents have been on him, teaching him the love of money, grifting ignorant (and I don't say that in a mean way) people to send them money and gifts or participating in the MLM scam and exploiting your disabled sister.

The latest vlog really amplifies that P has no problem "mothering" Sandy but can't be with or care for her own daughter. I wonder if she lets A$$ be the "fixer" or if she holds the first daughter over his head. How he can put himself out there as such a loving father to his chosen family and ignore his own flesh and blood in monetary support is stunning. Saying the mother doesn't want him in daughter's life is an easy cop out. Step UP!

The P.O. Box haul was not that much considering they said it had been left at the P.O. for a long time. I remember when they would go at least once a week and get near that much. ALL of it should be donated - after all they are "unsolicited from complete strangers" so they shouldn't be accepted.

Summer is nothing more than a paid playmate. She gives A$$ a break and P, well, now she doesn't even have to pretend she cares.

I believe the comment P made about "only missed my daily sales goal by $10" was yet another shameless attempt to get more sales. Counting on one of the leghumpers to say "Oh, she only needed $10 more - I'll buy something I don't need to help her." How I'd love to see that pyramid collapse! I still have some of the thankfully only a few products I bought when I was taken in by their genuineness and I now want to just throw them out! I hope more people begin to see through them like we did. They should be ashamed of themselves.
Agree about Sandy. In one vlog you can hear Priscilla talking sweetly to someone in the pool and I thought, wow, sounds like she's actually having a good time with Abbie...but it was Sandy she was playing with. I can understand that Abbie would be a hard child to bond with or even to love, but P has it in her to be nurturing to a dog. She can at least try with Abbie. It just seems like she is becoming more and more distant with her.
 
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That leghumper honestly thinks standing or floating around in the pool constitutes swimming?? None of them are swimming laps or going from one end to the other and back. Staying stationary in the pool does not equal being active and exercising. tit, if it were that easy, I'll buy a gym membership and just stand around in the gym.
Did anyone catch the part where P said “I did my laps” it was ignored by everyone but I caught it lol
 
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Something major went south during birth or in utero. Abbie appears to have looked normal as a baby and something or someone damaged her brain. AssTwat will never reveal the truth.
Can we not? Special needs kids often have an age past "baby age" where they plateau and the parents are not to blame for that. Many babies are "normal" and then regress at 2 with asd. Just please stop.
 
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We used to have boy who lived next door to us, he was very similar to Abbie. He lived with his mum and dad , they weren’t young when they has him, so they were clocking on a bit. Anyway as he grew he became bigger and stronger and his parents suffered terribly trying to control him. When he got to about 30, he would stand on the front step flailing about and grunting and scaring all the kids.
One night we saw an ambulance come to their house and it turned out the father had a heart attack and died. After that the mother just couldn’t handle him because of his size and meltdowns and came for my husband many times to help out.
The sad thing is she had to have him put in a home as he beat her very badly one day and soon after she died. I think about her often and what an awful life she had and wonder what became of the son.
I fear that this will be what happens to Abbie as there will come a point when she is too much for them and the irony is it’s their own fault for not trying to correct her behaviours.
Sorry if it bored you all but I was just thinking about it all today.
Holy cow, me too!
When I was about 11 yrs old we moved. Our new neighbors were an older couple, mid-50's, and their son who was late 20's, profoundly IDD. He was HUGE. He had hip issues so his gait was uneven, but still average speed. He used to stand outside, and carry around a childrens plastic play telephone. He would just walk around and yell "Hello!" into that phone, and when he saw someone would chase after them. I was terrified of him for many months, I was just a kid and he was truly a big scary man. About a year after we moved in, the father died. Days later I woke up because I heard a ruckus outside. It was early in the morning, and there were police and an ambulance outside, and we all watched "Sonny" be taken away in an ambulance. Come to find out, his mother called law enforcement and told them to get to her house as her son was there alone and could harm himself. After making the call she left in her car, and drove to a local rail crossing. The train ran the same times every day. She parked her car, and walked onto the tracks and stood in front of the train. As a kid, I was just like...wow...I was 11. Couldnt grasp the situation for what it was. As an adult, so sad. Can you imagine that level of despair?
 
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We used to have boy who lived next door to us, he was very similar to Abbie. He lived with his mum and dad , they weren’t young when they has him, so they were clocking on a bit. Anyway as he grew he became bigger and stronger and his parents suffered terribly trying to control him. When he got to about 30, he would stand on the front step flailing about and grunting and scaring all the kids.
One night we saw an ambulance come to their house and it turned out the father had a heart attack and died. After that the mother just couldn’t handle him because of his size and meltdowns and came for my husband many times to help out.
The sad thing is she had to have him put in a home as he beat her very badly one day and soon after she died. I think about her often and what an awful life she had and wonder what became of the son.
I fear that this will be what happens to Abbie as there will come a point when she is too much for them and the irony is it’s their own fault for not trying to correct her behaviours.
Sorry if it bored you all but I was just thinking about it all today.
I think the issue with Abbie is as she get bigger is her inadvertently hurting a person or an animal. She has no sense of empathy. She would just walk away not understanding someone or something was hurt. She can't be left alone. I'm surprised they can even sleep well at night. I'd be worried she would get out of her room and hurt herself.
 
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They are not crate training. I crate trained both my Golden’s and it’s been a godsend, but they were started in crate training before even coming to me from their breeder. It makes house breaking so much easier! I’d put money on sandy not being house broken. She’s also soooo poorly bred. She’s small and scrawny. She’s Got to be close to 6 Months by now, my dogs were easily close to 50 lbs and well muscled at that point, but they also are exercised, trained and well bred. My puppy (just turned 1) is crated any time I’m not home and overnight. I think sandy is crated anytime she’s not outside.
I’m not a dog expert but I thought Sandy looked underweight too

I agree with you. I Crate trained my dog and the only time that he's in his cage is when I'm not home. I bet they got the dog from a puppy farm or likewise and I can bet that they aren't feeding her the correct food either.
If mothering isn’t her jam why did she get another baby
 
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Did anyone catch the part where P said “I did my laps” it was ignored by everyone but I caught it lol
Does 1/2 a lap really count 🤔

Why can’t Asssa go to the local EMS and see if they need help with rotating tyres, replacing lightbulbs, easy stuff, that might mean an ambulance doesn’t have to go to maintainance and be out of action. Even giving the outside of the vehicles a wash might be helpful, feeding them, some of P’s food (er, no, wait, that might make them their own patients 😂😷🤧🤢🤮
I think you forgot 💩🤮
 
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