I understand and I’m glad that your mom has at least said sorry for this. I never had a full time job growing up either. In fact, I never did until I was done with school. I always have praised my peers and others who did though. Same like you... I had responsibilities around the house and family business but, I was never a caregiver (so I can’t really imagine that burden.) Honest question- do you think that AnP are so used to getting assistance that they are wanting to put him through this stress of looking for scholarships? I’m not against him getting them ... I just feel like it’s an unnecessary stress placed on him when they have money.
I can't quite figure out why they harp on so much about him getting scholarships. I imagine they really do have expenses for Abbie beyond what insurance/waiver will pay. Realistically, that is not going to change. It may even cost more as time goes on to provide the care she needs. And heck, if you can get a scholarship, take the money! But to make it sound like he covers it all or it isn't going to happen? It really does feel unnecessary.