No wonder Abbie resists doing activities with Asshat. He takes all the fun out of it. Rather than letting her explore the fishing toy on her own, investigating it, messing around with the pieces, Asshat is instantly "Match colors! Where's blue?? Show me blue. Look at what you're doing. Ok reel it in, no not like that, do it this way" (because she has to do it the 'right' way)... she walks away and he barks at her "Wait, you have to finish fishing."... he makes it into a chore, into work, rather than something fun and enjoyable. Asshat has this hang up where he NEEDS Abbie to play with items the 'right' way and she is not allowed to deviate from that and explore on her own and play with it in her own way. I'd walk away from his dumb ass, too.
You can see him get angry when he continues trying to make her match colors. She keeps looking away or trying to pick up the wrong color and he keeps pushing the fishing rod back and practically shoving the green fish in her face. Calm down, Asshat. This is supposed to be FUN.
Once again he does the full body hold to do hand over hand.
Asshat, stand beside her, if you must do hand over hand. There is no need to have your whole body and arms on her like that.
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