Is that supposed to be gravy? If so ... my lord ... chef P? What’s wrong with ya lipstick mama ?Sorry to offend my fellow southerners, but
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oh an nothing would make Asshat more happy than members throwing shade at each other in here.
Omg. Is that Asshat or Pilla serving up that greasy slop? Just what they need.Sorry to offend my fellow southerners, but
...big momma sitting on the couch as usual On her phone. If she put that phone down for one hour a day she’d be losing weight from her surgery. Or at least just maintain the weight she’s at!
AnP are so awkward. The only time they “may have” kissed was on the vlog the next day after the reveal of the other child... A put Abbie in the car and P had the camera and he came from the passenger side and they apparently kissed. I have never seen these two be affectionate towards each other... at all.
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And thebonly reason they let her nap all day is so that they can have some peace and quiet. And they wonder why she doesn't sleep at night and she thinks its funny. She doesn't have to cuz she knows she can sleep anytime she wants during the day and can get up during the night and have another snack or 3. Again....her terms, not theirs. Oh he blames that on autism too and came right out and said "and its not because she naps during the day". Where'd ya hear that from studmuffin?
Neither have I.
I like Joan. Where is she at? Surely she is here!!!
If she isn't here, someone needs to go and formally invite her to our constant party on this side of the internet.
I am thinking that's for two reasons. Most girls getting BC is becuase they are either having sex or plan on it. Also, Dr may want to make sure you aren't pregnant. I'm just guessing though.
A random Pap is not going to show if Abbie has yeast or UTI. So it still doesn't make any sense to either papoose board her or sedate her unless she is having a problem.
Asa must be agitated
Thank you for addressing this. I too was slammed by a couple members here for expressing my thoughts. I believe Abbie would be better off in a group home. She’s a danger to herself and others and is a serious accident waiting to happen. Ass and pissy are lazy MFers and are inconsistent with Abbie. They’re doing more harm than good.
I dont know if I have already made you folks aware of this or not but, I once read something that said that we are the bitchiest ppl on the internet. It said this was the bitchiest part of the internet. Now, I just want to say that I take that as a compliment. It's not everyday that you secure a title like that and I, for one, am proud to be a part of that. So, I raise my glass to all you fine folks that help me make up the bitchiest place on the internet.....(I don't have any glasses of anything but, it sure did sound good.)
Thank you.
The way I see it is this, just as you're free to say what you want, I'm free to say what I want. That's how freedom of expression goes. Especially on a public discussion forum. I'm sharing my opinion just as you are - I'm not telling you to stop talking. I'm just sharing my feelings on what I'm reading.
Do you know which vlog that was?
Not sure what you are so angry about. I have been a LSW and licensed crisis counselor for 21 years. If you think that perfectly "normal" (as you say) kids, and even adults are not and have not tried to claim they have mental health issues to get attention from their peers, disability benefits so they do not have to work, have an "excuse" for abusing a spouse, beating a child, or commiting a crime, then I REALLY REALLY suggest you get off Twitter, spend the next five years in college, work in the field for 21 yrs and get back to me. And since Isaiah isnt autistic, and was the person being discussed I have no need to be persuaded about his behaviors or look for a hashtag. Have you dx him yet too? Generalized anxiety? Social? Situational? Chronic or acute? Better yet, has anyone formally dx him? Or Summer? Havent heard them or A&P mention any type of counseling, therapy, or coping techniques. Nervousness, shyness, even apprehension or fear do not equate to mental illness, they are emotions that are now attributed to "anxiety" because the term is used so freely.
The line about ADHD? Not sure where you were going with that. I didnt say I "thought" I had it. I said I did. Dx and on meds for 11 years, twice weekly therapy sessions with a psychologist for behavioral issues, and came out the other side. And I thank god I had the therapy which yes, was a version of ABA and a mother who didnt allow excuses, labels, and followed through. I am not sure if you did not understand the context of my post, or if you did, we will simply agree to disagree.
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Oh yes, people can fake it. And that's unfortunate I agree. But remember, not everyone can *afford* a diagnosis, that's classist to assume that (in general, not just you ofc). and anxiety, same deal. Panic attacks, dread, not being able to leave the house on some days, yeah I've had that too. I used to hear other people say that and would think, 'what, how is it possible for it to be that bad?!' Then I started having my own severe anxiety in my senior year (NZ, Year 13) and realised that as weird/exaggerated as it sounds, it's completely true, and can happen to *anyone*. I'm slowly getter better now by looking after myself, knowing where my triggers are and learning how to remove myself if I need to. But that has taken years, and when I was a kid, I would be physically ill from anxiety, partly due to sensory issues that are a part of being autistic. Also re labels and excuses? That's good for you, and hopefully your therapy didn't occur at the cost of your mental health, like that kind of therapy has for so many other people, particularly autistic people, but those labels and adaptions are what's *needed* for some people. As ableist/classist as it sounds, some people need a formal dx. to get services, and without those services, THEY CAN NOT THRIVE! Unfortunately we live in a very ableist society, and thse requirements are only seen 'different from the norm' because most people don't need them and they're seen as an easy way out, rater than people admitting that school systems etc do not work for the majority of neurodiverse people ANYWAY. And that some things we do because we think we 'need' to, rather than realising that we don't actually have to put on stress on people by working min wage jobs, giving homework, or working five days a week, it,s just what the people at the top benefit from - capitalism.
I don't know/have all of the answers, this is what I've learned from other people in the autistic/neurodiverse community, and without labels and resources, we *wouldn't have* ways for these people to be successful in their own ways, they would still be forced (and many still are!) to conform to the norm.
Can someone give examples of the older videos where they had Isaiah in the back of the garage with Abbie ? I haven’t seen a single one of those...
Invisible Abuse: ABA and the things only autistic people can see
One of the most hotly-contended points of division between the adult autistic community and the neurotypical parents of autistic children: explained.
neuroclastic.com
The Problem with the Autism Puzzle Piece - Learn From Autistics
For years, Autistic people have been condemning the use of the colorful jigsaw puzzle piece that stands as an international symbol for autism awareness. But their voices haven’t been able to overpower the media push to use the symbol. It’s everywhere: on clothing, keychains, coffee mugs, license...
www.learnfromautistics.com
I just scrolled down in my bookmarks and found these two, please heart eyes or reply if you want more, I need to do a quick online quiz now lol
Oh yes, people can fake it. And that's unfortunate I agree. But remember, not everyone can *afford* a diagnosis, that's classist to assume that (in general, not just you ofc). and anxiety, same deal. Panic attacks, dread, not being able to leave the house on some days, yeah I've had that too. I used to hear other people say that and would think, 'what, how is it possible for it to be that bad?!' Then I started having my own severe anxiety in my senior year (NZ, Year 13) and realised that as weird/exaggerated as it sounds, it's completely true, and can happen to *anyone*. I'm slowly getter better now by looking after myself, knowing where my triggers are and learning how to remove myself if I need to. But that has taken years, and when I was a kid, I would be physically ill from anxiety, partly due to sensory issues that are a part of being autistic. Also re labels and excuses? That's good for you, and hopefully your therapy didn't occur at the cost of your mental health, like that kind of therapy has for so many other people, particularly autistic people, but those labels and adaptions are what's *needed* for some people. As ableist/classist as it sounds, some people need a formal dx. to get services, and without those services, THEY CAN NOT THRIVE! Unfortunately we live in a very ableist society, and thse requirements are only seen 'different from the norm' because most people don't need them and they're seen as an easy way out, rater than people admitting that school systems etc do not work for the majority of neurodiverse people ANYWAY. And that some things we do because we think we 'need' to, rather than realising that we don't actually have to put on stress on people by working min wage jobs, giving homework, or working five days a week, it,s just what the people at the top benefit from - capitalism.
I don't know/have all of the answers, this is what I've learned from other people in the autistic/neurodiverse community, and without labels and resources, we *wouldn't have* ways for these people to be successful in their own ways, they would still be forced (and many still are!) to conform to the norm.
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Again, I am not sure what your post is referencing. I posted about NT individuals using the guise of MH for attention or other self serving interests. I have not mentioned anyone on the spectrum or someone who is neuro diverse but you keep implying that I have.
It isnt "classist" to assume people should be dx. You are contradicting yourself as your earlier posts expressed disdain for someone "thinking" they had something without a dx. Anyone can be seen in crisis by walking into any ER in America. I work PT in an agency that charges nothing, and not touching the capitalism remark..its appros to nothing. I would also like to point out that for someone who considers themselves diverse and wants to live without labels you are very quick to label anyone who doesnt agree. In a single post you have insinuated I am an ableist, classist, and focused on capitalism. Believe it or not there are people who want to feel better, they dont desire to be diverse, and this "ableist" is happy to help.
Not engaging in this further. I wish you well.
This vlog is from 2017 (Hard Day for Autism Mom)
P is actually truly working with Abbie AND some discipline with redirection too! It reminds me that they used to use the counting down technique to keep her on task. I don't think they do that (much) anymore. What a difference in P's interaction from 2017 to now.
Isaiah Maass on TikTok What he did to that poor cat was cruel! Repressed frustration perhaps???? I am shocked he would do that to his cat...
P is actually truly working with Abbie AND some discipline with redirection too! It reminds me that they used to use the counting down technique to keep her on task. I don't think they do that (much) anymore. What a difference in P's interaction from 2017 to now.
Isaiah Maass on TikTok What he did to that poor cat was cruel! Repressed frustration perhaps???? I am shocked he would do that to his cat...
I’m from the u.k. what is that.Sorry to offend my fellow southerners, but
Loving Joan.
These are really interesting. I think this post kinda got 'lost' because it was right before a new thread. Thanks WTC!Invisible Abuse: ABA and the things only autistic people can see
One of the most hotly-contended points of division between the adult autistic community and the neurotypical parents of autistic children: explained.
The Problem with the Autism Puzzle Piece - Learn From Autistics
For years, Autistic people have been condemning the use of the colorful jigsaw puzzle piece that stands as an international symbol for autism awareness. But their voices haven’t been able to overpower the media push to use the symbol. It’s everywhere: on clothing, keychains, coffee mugs, license...
I just scrolled down in my bookmarks and found these two, please heart eyes or reply if you want more, I need to do a quick online quiz now lol
I remember watching that one and feeling really bad for him
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