Thatâs disgustingly inappropriateOlder vlog when school clothes shopping. Cringy
Thatâs disgustingly inappropriateOlder vlog when school clothes shopping. Cringy
Sheâs supposed to be âgoing to schoolâ though. And this is a great opportunity to be putting her in an actual routine.imo, I sleep in until then too, I mean, itâs quarantaine and (for now) I have no school work while my teachers are busy setting it up online so...
This is a very..how to put it...sensitive question..but, do you guys think Abbie has ever been sexually assualted?I just put myself in her situation... that is not ok. Same with how he wrestles with her... I have seen him touch her butt and tickle her around her boobs. Just stop it.
I mean ... who knows at this point? I certainly was not trying to suggest that ... and honestly you being the second person to say that autistic and Idd kids fall victim to that is alarming to me. Once again, an example of how Iâm learning more from you fine folks on here. There was that time where they put up a video saying that the caretaker had been taking her around and what not... so who knows at this point. For Abbieâs sake, I hope itâs not the case but itâs not like she can tell them if this happened to her .This is a very..how to put it...sensitive question..but, do you guys think Abbie has ever been sexually assualted?
The family did a video when they were in the old house about a caregiver that was apparently very inappropriate and left her in her diapers for too long, took her to their (the caretakerâs) friends houses etc.
We also know her father used to âlay with herâ (until we commented on how weird that is and they seemed to stop). We also know Assa bathes her often, and Iâve just seen a comment about how her brother apparently is tickling her in/near weird places, etc.
I apologise if this is too bold of an idea, but there are many many horror stories about autistic kids, and those with intellectual disabilities etc and non verbal people being assualted and abused because they canât always tell people itâs happened...honestly I think people would be amazed/horrified at what can occur with vulnerable people...
In the video she posted at the 9 month mark. She said she had lost 95lbs. So 3 months later, she has only lost 3lbs!? Ha! I think more like gained 20lbs!And what a coincidence...Pilla posted today is a year she had her surgery and she lost 98 pounds. Then a couple people pisted who had it and one girl list 130 pounds in 4 months. Other were posting their success....most were better than Pilla. Considering you drop the first 40 lbs. rather quickly I say shes not following the program.
She was at least 450-475lbs prior to surgery and I'm being conservative in my estimate.Yes, she may have lost weight but Iâm sure that before Christmas she had lost more than she has now put back on!
THANK YOU!!I just really can't get over some of their actions. they say Abbie thrives on chaos - but that seems like it really means that she just likes when there is action around her, when there is music and voices and lots for her to observe. how can they ignore how many benefits there would be to keeping her to a schedule? it doesn't even have to be crazy rigid. but something like making her pick up her pillows and blankets every morning, something they could do even when they are traveling, would help reinforce that task so much. consistency with these tasks are the best way to help her learn, and they seem to know that, and yet still don't follow through. and it doesn't have to be the exact same every night, but it would help. but things like their addiction to eating out wears down on these things - it means no dishes for her to load/unload from the dishwasher, no setting the table, etc..
and I will die on this hill, but there is no excuse for them to not do these things with her. it is literally their job! they gave up the shop so their job is literally just to help Abbie learn and to film it and provide that for other families - and they are utterly failing at that. they could be using whatever time that Abbie is (normally) at school to edit and then when she's home be committed to helping her.
I remember in a recent vlog Asa saying something about only filming 30-45 minutes a day (as part of a defense about how we don't see the whole picture of their day). but I've taken film and editing classes. it should not be taking 4+ hours to edit 45 minutes of footage into a 12 minute video, especially since they aren't worried about things like continuity, consistent audio, etc.. they cannot claim 80+ hours of work a week, especially when we see how little they actually do with Abbie - until now, when forced to.
eta: I'm not trying to sound like I know everything about editing. at a professional level it can take a very long time - an hour or more for one minute of finished footage. but that's when you are combining multiple shots from multiple angles, performances, thinking about things like narrative and pacing, considering audio levels and mixing, background music. however, when he is primarily just cutting out uninteresting/unflattering footage, it should take a fraction of the time. especially if he only has, at most, an hour of footage to work with.
Thats why they make you go to a shrink before you can get approved. Apparantly she should have been denied.The reason they âlet Abbie get her wayâ is either one of two reasons.
They truly cannot handle her. If they try it backfires w Abbie having a meltdown and they canât keep showing those.
Or the second,is because something like this makes for good vlog content. All the oohâs and ashâs that come from the fanatics is worth letting her go.
They have learnt what the fans comment the most on,and what they think is cute and will garner the most comments.
P knows deep down she has absolutely no way of controlling Abbie. She hasnât the strength nor the fortitude to do so. She has let Asa take charge all these years. She couldnât even take charge when Abbie was younger,allowing her to pummel her at the ballfield.
As I said,they have studied their audience. They know what plays and what doesnât. Abbie âbeing Abbieâ seems to win the hearts. So now,if it gets the monies,they will just let it be.
Mmhmm, and that week in Cabo she slept great! Not only was he not in her bed, he wasn't even in the house. What's your excuse now Asa? You guys come back and within a week she is back to having sleep issues .And his sudden need to "lay with her" and "boop noses" when he never slept with her before. Again, they have zero boundaries. Well, actually P does. She never goes near her unless its to dress her up for prom.
98lbs?? I'm calling BS! She looks bigger now than she did back in October/November and she was claiming to be down almost 80lbs then??And what a coincidence...Pilla posted today is a year she had her surgery and she lost 98 pounds. Then a couple people pisted who had it and one girl list 130 pounds in 4 months. Other were posting their success....most were better than Pilla. Considering you drop the first 40 lbs. rather quickly I say shes not following the program.
She is mentally disabled, I don't think that "milestones" or "levels" of neurotypical children apply to her. It is up to them to work with her to learn and discover what her capabilities are. Sadly, she has those dumbbells for parents, It is what it is.What level is she? I have been going back and forth as far as toddler or baby? This is insane that they are so delusional and we on the outside can see that all this stuff they are âteachingâ is not on her level. I also think that she should have been far advanced with sign by now but they didnât do their part in teaching her (of course). Also ... when she does the moaning sounds itâs almost very baby like ... you know like when a baby starts to cry but doesnât cry all the way( but they do it to show their displeasure.) Anyone feel this way or am I reaching ?
It looks photoshopped to me. Anyone else think that could be a possibility, done just to irk and laugh at us?That dirt must be ingrained by now. I think it needs more than a bar of soap, maybe a sandblaster or 90 grit sandpaper
Yup, the least (bare minimum) that they could do while school is out is toilet training and get her out of pull ups. Yes, it is a messy tiresome job, put the camera down, cover the furniture and bedding with plastic and just make the effort. Won't it be better in the long run? Who knows, maybe even Abbie might be happy with the comfort of being diaper free. Of course outings and maybe some nights she still might need the diaper for awhile, but it could be a small step towards good things, actually it would be a huge step, considering she has been in diapers for 15 years.Sheâs supposed to be âgoing to schoolâ though. And this is a great opportunity to be putting her in an actual routine.
He mentions the amazon link. They are affiliated with amazon so get a kick back from the sales.Sorry if repeat, but he should really get these 2 warts frozen off. Heâs likely getting refunded or gifted for mentioning the new (fit your wifeâs big wrist) stretchy watch bands. And talking to his leghumpers like they too can afford an Apple watch! Most are living in a van down by the river, canât afford services, but give them $ monthly!
Either way it's disgusting. Photoshopped or not even pics showing her in her couch corner that show the bottoms of her feet they are always filthy. I don't think anything would get them cleanIt looks photoshopped to me. Anyone else think that could be a possibility, done just to irk and laugh at us?
Haha, who's willing to bet that Asa is scrambling to find tutorials and binge watching how to Photoshop images since everyone has been commenting on their dirty feet, weight gain, man boobs and make up fails .Either way it's disgusting. Photoshopped or not even pics showing her in her couch corner that show the bottoms of her feet they are always filthy. I don't think anything would get them clean