Father of Daughters #46 Richard_of_the_ranaissance

[Emmadale]

Still in high dependency but off the hi flow oxygen. Thank you for asking It has really scared me and reinforces how terrible it has been for some families.

I can imagine

When we had it in Feb, we were v lucky symptom wise but I know I’d never want to feel like that again. The unknown is so scary…knowing how it will affect you in the short term but also the fear of long Covid. A close friend had long Covid and was off and on (more on that off) ill for a year and still not 100% so I was scared of what we were facing.

And then you get twonks like Sly whinging about isolating in his 6 bedroom house and newly done garden!

 

[Hatchet_job]

Outdoor bath scenes with various children. Thinks he's a trendsetter

 

[Bizziebody]

He really is the most smug git around.
Someone jam that water bucket down tight over his smarmy face.

 

[heretoreaditall2019]

Surely there comes a point when a grown man refuses to stop sharing photos of his daughters partially clothed that we need to ask questions about him?

I don’t want to take things too far or be a weirdo, but seriously in the year 2021 we’ve got a man sharing multiple shots of two young twins and now a preteen in a tankini? And this doesn’t raise questions from anyone about him? Yikes.

 

[Bizziebody]

Fodney has replaced the beanie with the skater boy backwards cap, 20 years too late fod. Silly old fart.

 

[FrannyGallops]

Fodney has replaced the beanie with the skater boy backwards cap, 20 years too late fod. Silly old fart.

Reminds me of this View attachment 670957

 

[rainbowlemon]

887k now.

 

[heretoreaditall2019]

887k now.

Wait he’s lost over a thousand in a day?!

Unsurprising normal people don’t want to see your partially clothed daughters.

 

[ExhaustedDad]

I don’t want to take things too far or be a weirdo, but seriously in the year 2021 we’ve got a man sharing multiple shots of two young twins and now a preteen in a tankini? And this doesn’t raise questions from anyone about him? Yikes.

This is the worst photo on his grid

 

[heretoreaditall2019]

This is the worst photo on his grid

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You’re a bloke aren’t you? What would you say if a mate / peer did this? I’d be really concerned if someone’s husband was tbh, I wouldn’t let my daughter round theirs

 

[rainbowlemon]

When I posted yesterday he was just +74 over 888k. His follow count is at 887930 at the moment, so he's minus 144 followers.

Surely there comes a point when a grown man refuses to stop sharing photos of his daughters partially clothed that we need to ask questions about him?

I don’t want to take things too far or be a weirdo, but seriously in the year 2021 we’ve got a man sharing multiple shots of two young twins and now a preteen in a tankini? And this doesn’t raise questions from anyone about him? Yikes.

I've been going through a photo phase for around three months now, printing all of the older photos I have on both my laptop and phone as I want hard copies.This is after my dad was being cheap and didn't want to pay an extra £40 to back up memory on his computer. My mother went nuts at him as she realized his computer had the only copy of photos we had from a 2014 holiday. One of the photos I printed of my sister was from when she was 11 (she's 18 now) .

One of my best friends birthday is coming up, so I did the same and took photos from her insta page and had them posted to her too.

Anyway my point is everyone used to make family photo albums. The issue is that it's just mainly all just done online now. Posting photos of the girls has always been the same as inviting a random from the pub to view your family photo album, but it feels different as there's no contact between you and the other person. (unless they message). With the Courtney Adamo drama with her daughter's belly picture the parents cry "oh but it's innocent. You're the one with the dirty mind".

(I would recommend the FreePrints app as they let you have 45 6x4 photos for free each month and you just pay for delivery. You can also create another account with Photobox who do the same thing so you can get 95 free prints monthly.

#SneakyAD
#Influencer

 

[EddieBeds]

Surely there comes a point when a grown man refuses to stop sharing photos of his daughters partially clothed that we need to ask questions about him?

I don’t want to take things too far or be a weirdo, but seriously in the year 2021 we’ve got a man sharing multiple shots of two young twins and now a preteen in a tankini? And this doesn’t raise questions from anyone about him? Yikes.

It’s bleeping vile (him not the daughters) that he doesn’t have any foresight when posting this, let alone actually posts it. Like I know it’s expected of him but like you say it’s 2021 - why are you not protecting your children’s privacy? Why are you willingly feeding a creepy undercurrent of weirdos who look for this content??

Also the initial shot with Confessions of Love - the book de jour - on the table so set up for engagement/likes. Yawn.

But seriously at what point do these idiots wake up and see what they’re doing? I read People Like Her following our previous discussion on it - what happens is really disturbing but (the lack of real influencer commentary/criticism aside - that ending!) you could understand something as dark as that happening IRL given all the information available on those ‘little squares’ let alone when people like Fodney post the videos he does.

 

[FrannyGallops]

Someone mentioned mama village (not sure what or if that’s her handle) but I had a look at her latest post where she talks about sharing kids online and while I do think the tide is turning, some of the comments underneath her post are still along the lines of ‘they’re MY kids and I’ll do what I want’. One even said what’s the point of having social media if you can’t post photos of your kids? Dumbasses, the lot of them. Absolutely pig tit thick.
As Lemon said upthread (and I’m gonna paraphrase here if you don’t mind, dear ) print your bleeping photos off and give them to relatives instead of plastering info about your children on an open site for the whole bleeping world to see. Or if you really cba, do it over Whatsapp. It’s free.
It pisses me off that even when someone is posting the very basics of internet sharing and safeguarding, they have to add a disclaimer along the lines of ‘it’s ok if you want to share your children to perverts and weirdos on the internet but just be aware…’ Newsflash! It’s actually not ok. And you’re a head if you ignore all the warnings, you stupid fucks. These people need the sensible folk to stop pandering to them and start telling them how it is.

 

[I drink lemon juice]

Yes! I saw the comment from that person who said there'd be no reason for her to post on social media if she didn't post her kids. Here's a bit of advice for her: get a life ffs! Honestly don't understand why some people seem to stop existing as a whole person with interests and hobbies after they have kids. I love my child but I also have plenty I can post about without including her.

Also, if you want to include your child there are creative ways around it. For example, I mostly share photos of the back of her head or where you can't really see her face. My daughter is 5 and only 15 (just counted) photos of her appear on my Instagram where she's fully identifiable. And tbh, I've thought lately that it's started creeping up a bit so I this is a good reminder to make sure that doesn't happen. Apparently the average is 1,500 photos of their children by the time they're 5!!!!

 

[Behelzabobs]

This is the worst photo on his grid

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He doesn’t care
His middle class twit friends don’t care
In their world child pornography only happens to the lower classes and people on benefits
It’s all about £££ and selling their child’s souls doesn’t matter to them that some pervs are sharing those images, making disgusting comments and pleasuring themselves whilst looking at them

after a while if you’ve been warned or had the risks highlighted you have to be labelled complicit

 

[sassmaster3000]

I’m gonna go off piste here for a bit, but I have a point so bear with!

I don’t like directing people to gomi because I think the creator of it is highly problematic and anyone who posts something she disagrees with either gets their post removed or gets blocked from the site. BUT, for years, one of the main people on there with a big thread has been this American woman called Jenna who seems to have been raised in a religious setting, has since had some kind of awakening and is now absolutely obsessed with sex/being sexual - has photographed her children playing with her vibrator (“I cleaned it after use!!”).
Anyway, she is currently front page news on Gomi because she came onto her stories last week absolutely raging that people were suggesting she should maybe crop/censor photos of her topless prepubescent daughter.
She is of the view that it doesn’t matter if someone is using photos of your child for their pleasure, because they’re not actually physically coming to your house to abuse the child, ergo it doesn’t have any affect on the kid. Essentially, as long as your child isn’t being physically assaulted, she had no issue with child porn.

Obviously this woman is insane and at the extreme end of the spectrum, but I do wonder with influencers if part of their justification for selling so much of their personal life, is that they are lying to themselves and pretending that there is still a huge divide between online life and real life. Like, they can still have their own private lives and get all the benefits, as long as they post a cutesy photo of their kids in their sponsored outfits. what’s the harm eh, it’s paying the bills and the kids got a new toy! It probably starts with innocent thought like that, and then eventually down the line, you get this craziness of trying to justify that as long as there’s no physical paedophile in your house, then your kids aren’t being exploited.
Clearly the ODs are not at that ridiculous extreme, but I wonder if that is how it begins, and then before you know it, you’re posting pictures of your kids in the bath in exchange for a 4K sink…


Very long ramble and sorry if I derailed! Have just been really trying to get my head round the parenting influencers recently and I can’t understand it at all.

 

[EddieBeds]

I’m gonna go off piste here for a bit, but I have a point so bear with!

I don’t like directing people to gomi because I think the creator of it is highly problematic and anyone who posts something she disagrees with either gets their post removed or gets blocked from the site. BUT, for years, one of the main people on there with a big thread has been this American woman called Jenna who seems to have been raised in a religious setting, has since had some kind of awakening and is now absolutely obsessed with sex/being sexual - has photographed her children playing with her vibrator (“I cleaned it after use!!”).
Anyway, she is currently front page news on Gomi because she came onto her stories last week absolutely raging that people were suggesting she should maybe crop/censor photos of her topless prepubescent daughter.
She is of the view that it doesn’t matter if someone is using photos of your child for their pleasure, because they’re not actually physically coming to your house to abuse the child, ergo it doesn’t have any affect on the kid. Essentially, as long as your child isn’t being physically assaulted, she had no issue with child porn.

Obviously this woman is insane and at the extreme end of the spectrum, but I do wonder with influencers if part of their justification for selling so much of their personal life, is that they are lying to themselves and pretending that there is still a huge divide between online life and real life. Like, they can still have their own private lives and get all the benefits, as long as they post a cutesy photo of their kids in their sponsored outfits. what’s the harm eh, it’s paying the bills and the kids got a new toy! It probably starts with innocent thought like that, and then eventually down the line, you get this craziness of trying to justify that as long as there’s no physical paedophile in your house, then your kids aren’t being exploited.
Clearly the ODs are not at that ridiculous extreme, but I wonder if that is how it begins, and then before you know it, you’re posting pictures of your kids in the bath in exchange for a 4K sink…


Very long ramble and sorry if I derailed! Have just been really trying to get my head round the parenting influencers recently and I can’t understand it at all.

That’s bleeping horrific and such effed up thinking! I’d be devastated if a picture of my child was found in the hands of a paedophile - it would understandably freak me out that someone was viewing my child that way. It’s crazy how screwed up their thought processes are isn’t it. Urgh I feel like Helen Lovejoy but won’t somebody think of the children in all this - how is not seen as grotesque the way they are shared so willingly across social media platforms?!

Can you imagine being one of the twins (or any of the daughters tbh) and you go for a job interview and the interviewer/HR doing a social media check and they see numerous photos/videos of you as a child, like from the day you were born - most painting you in a tit light cause you know naughty twins ups the engagement let alone pics of you in a state of undress? Zero autonomy over themselves. Yeah we all share with friends/family funny pics but we do it privately.

Like @heretoreaditall2019 said Fod knows what he’s doing - he knows that video will boost engagement and he must know - even if he doesn’t want to admit it - some of those views come from creeps.

ETA: Will try and find the step off my sweary soap box.

 

[Mustard]

I’m gonna go off piste here for a bit, but I have a point so bear with!

I don’t like directing people to gomi because I think the creator of it is highly problematic and anyone who posts something she disagrees with either gets their post removed or gets blocked from the site. BUT, for years, one of the main people on there with a big thread has been this American woman called Jenna who seems to have been raised in a religious setting, has since had some kind of awakening and is now absolutely obsessed with sex/being sexual - has photographed her children playing with her vibrator (“I cleaned it after use!!”).
Anyway, she is currently front page news on Gomi because she came onto her stories last week absolutely raging that people were suggesting she should maybe crop/censor photos of her topless prepubescent daughter.
She is of the view that it doesn’t matter if someone is using photos of your child for their pleasure, because they’re not actually physically coming to your house to abuse the child, ergo it doesn’t have any affect on the kid. Essentially, as long as your child isn’t being physically assaulted, she had no issue with child porn.

Obviously this woman is insane and at the extreme end of the spectrum, but I do wonder with influencers if part of their justification for selling so much of their personal life, is that they are lying to themselves and pretending that there is still a huge divide between online life and real life. Like, they can still have their own private lives and get all the benefits, as long as they post a cutesy photo of their kids in their sponsored outfits. what’s the harm eh, it’s paying the bills and the kids got a new toy! It probably starts with innocent thought like that, and then eventually down the line, you get this craziness of trying to justify that as long as there’s no physical paedophile in your house, then your kids aren’t being exploited.
Clearly the ODs are not at that ridiculous extreme, but I wonder if that is how it begins, and then before you know it, you’re posting pictures of your kids in the bath in exchange for a 4K sink…


Very long ramble and sorry if I derailed! Have just been really trying to get my head round the parenting influencers recently and I can’t understand it at all.

I too saw and read that about the Jenna woman. She needs to be banned from posting on social media. Her poor children.

 

[sassmaster3000]

That’s bleeping horrific and such effed up thinking! I’d be devastated if a picture of my child was found in the hands of a paedophile - it would understandably freak me out that someone was viewing my child that way. It’s crazy how screwed up their thought processes are isn’t it. Urgh I feel like Helen Lovejoy but won’t somebody think of the children in all this - how is not seen as grotesque the way they are shared so willingly across social media platforms?!

Can you imagine being one of the twins (or any of the daughters tbh) and you go for a job interview and the interviewer/HR doing a social media check and they see numerous photos/videos of you as a child, like from the day you were born - most painting you in a tit light cause you know naughty twins ups the engagement let alone pics of you in a state of undress? Zero autonomy over themselves. Yeah we all share with friends/family funny pics but we do it privately.

Like @heretoreaditall2019 said Fod knows what he’s doing - he knows that video will boost engagement and he must know - even if he doesn’t want to admit it - some of those views come from creeps.

ETA: Will try and find the step off my sweary soap box.

I had a funny photo of my sister on the toilet when she was a toddler - she was fully dressed but pulling a face that made it look like she was straining to have a tit. Myself and my parents thought it was hilarious - even more so because it had been caught on the end of a disposable camera that I’d been given for a school trip to the zoo, so she was kind of the “exhibit”
Even then, I knew it was too private to share with my classmates (I was 9) even though I was convinced it would win me the £150 prize on “you’ve been framed”.
I don’t know if the idea of consent ever entered my brain but I just remember feeling that it wasn’t right to show my friends because I knew I’d feel hurt if she’d shown that image of me to her friends.
To think that my morals as a child were more sound than FODs just tells us all we need to know really.

I too saw and read that about the Jenna woman. She needs to be banned from posting on social media. Her poor children.

She strikes me as a Katie Hopkins type who just says crap for drama without actually engaging, but I haven’t followed her thread properly, and I understand there are many concerns about her parenting. It sounds like she needs a lot of therapy, and perhaps her children will too. I don’t particularly agree with GOMI’s “shame shame shame” attitude, but it’s clear that she really needs some help.

 

[ExhaustedDad]

You’re a bloke aren’t you? What would you say if a mate / peer did this? I’d be really concerned if someone’s husband was tbh, I wouldn’t let my daughter round theirs

He’s a creepy fucker. I wouldn't let my kids anywhere near him. I just don’t understand how Clemmie lets him do it.