Since she moved into that house i feel she is just coasting along. At life, at work, at everything.
She has never had a period of time where she appears to be on top of tit. She can't keep on top of her laundry ffs.
I'm blue in the face saying this but she needs a proper solid routine.
Get a diary. Write stuff down. Set days for working. Set days for house keeping. Set days for errands. Secedule posts and work in advance, have a back catalogue of things to post.
She just stumbles through life and so long as she has an army of enablers she will never change.
I can definitely see her having another baby which is a huge mistake. No way she will sit by and watch Denise, Dom in future and maybe possibly even Jen have babies and not be jealous of the attention.