I'm here up to my eyes in work before I collect the kids from creche and school, my back is aching purely because I need to stretch it and do some exercise but I don't get a second to myself to do it, too busy keeping everything going at work and at home. And I only work part time, but the meals, school runs, activities, homework and all that take up all of my time at the moment, my husband works very long hours. I would be embarrassed to tell people I was fannying about in penneys, the gym, before yet another night out midweek with 2 kids and a full time working husband. She has no shame and is obviously absolutely pandered to by him and her family, that nobody tells her her behaviour is insane for a sahm of two young kids. She can't be considered a working mum. She doesn't even stay at home to fulfill the role of a stay at home mum!!