So sorry to hear that. I understand exactly where you're coming from. You just have to allow time. And cry as much as you want to. Crying is good for you, it releases all kinds of endorphins which help lower your stress and other stuff. So cry away. And keep the brother cat close. Sending hugs to you.Our beloved cat passed away on the weekend and his little brother is really missing him. It's so heartbreaking - he's crying a lot, really clingy, and very unsettled. I don't know how to make it better and can't stop crying as I miss him too
Oh that's so sad, our furbabies are such a big part of our family aren't they,? We adopted 4 yr old sibling moggies 3 years ago and realised quite soon on we would have limited time with our ginger Tom. He's still with us for now and I'm dreading the day he isn't ..his sister will be bereft . I can't really give you much, in terms of advice - just go with the flow. Our last much loved kitty's ashes are buried under a rockery in the garden with a slate paw print to mark the place . Even now I'll go sit by the rockery with a cuppa and have a chat with her. My oh thinks I'm barmy but as I said earlier ..just go with your emotions . Much love to you, your family and surviving kitty..Our beloved cat passed away on the weekend and his little brother is really missing him. It's so heartbreaking - he's crying a lot, really clingy, and very unsettled. I don't know how to make it better and can't stop crying as I miss him too
II think it's all the sanitizer usage during covid that has caused a problem.I've got to admit that I don't pay much attention to my nails. As soon as they show any length, I cut them down short again. Long fingernails irritate the hell out of me. But I have noticed that when I type all day (writer) they grow much faster and much stronger. I touch type and I'm quite fast but don't know if that makes a difference.
Ooh thanks for that Chita, I've got some cuticle oil so will look into the Burt's bees balm.
Our beloved cat passed away on the weekend and his little brother is really missing him. It's so heartbreaking - he's crying a lot, really clingy, and very unsettled. I don't know how to make it better and can't stop crying as I miss him too
So sorry to hear that hun. I really feel for you. Sending big hugs xxxOur beloved cat passed away on the weekend and his little brother is really missing him. It's so heartbreaking - he's crying a lot, really clingy, and very unsettled. I don't know how to make it better and can't stop crying as I miss him too
To be honest, I felt like a fraud when you said that - that's why I backed-off for a bit.Tatty, you are an inspiration. You have so much to deal with but you keep on fighting.
You are wonderful.
You have posted a lot about what you have to deal with in your every day life.To be honest, I felt like a fraud when you said that - that's why I backed-off for a bit.
Inspirational, wonderful?
I don't consider myself to be either of those things, but thank-you
I've had many difficult circumstances in my life, I've also had a lot of love - especially the love I share with my Mum, my husband and our children.
I'm just me, and life goes on x
Aiways hurts when you lose a pet - they're part of your family. I have no shame in mourning our beloved family members; it does get easier in timeSo sorry to hear that. I understand exactly where you're coming from. You just have to allow time. And cry as much as you want to. Crying is good for you, it releases all kinds of endorphins which help lower your stress and other stuff. So cry away. And keep the brother cat close. Sending hugs to you.
Thank-you so much, virtual hugsYou have posted a lot about what you have to deal with in your every day life.
You keep going no matter how hard it gets.
I know people who whine and moan about how unfair life is and how things get them down. Negative people.
They have to deal with only a small fraction of what you have to deal with.
So, yes, you are inspiring.
And I see today's exam results have been amazing in your house.
Well done all round!
Bloody hell girl, you've done more in a few days than I've done all week!I folded the laundry today! I did it! Even put another load in for tomorrow to catch up. Also made a real (microwaved but actual food- rice, peas, cubed tofu) dinner. I’m writing out a new sticky note for my mirror for tomorrow. Thank you for the long distance support, all.
I never used to wear nail polish other than on special occasions and my nails were always great.Well, Ive chucked all my nail strengthening products in the trash.
All have made my nails split and break worse than before I tried any.
When they grow back, I will have to put up with the few that seem bendy.
Most are usually ok, just a few grow a bit thinner than the others and bend if I let them grow too long.
Now even the usually good nails have broken.
I tease the shit out of cat people on here, but it's just me messing them about. I know how those little (and big) fur babies can grab your heart and are part of the family. I'm so sorry for your loss.Our beloved cat passed away on the weekend and his little brother is really missing him. It's so heartbreaking - he's crying a lot, really clingy, and very unsettled. I don't know how to make it better and can't stop crying as I miss him too
Most excellent!How's everyone today?
Fine thank you Cassandra333. Hubby went off to visit his elderly dad and I relived my teens by watching Saturday night feverHow's everyone today?
I tend not to get involved in that chat, no one knows who is telling the truth. I skim past the PA stuff, I hope the truth comes out one way or the other. You can report posts for being off topic if you feel strongly about it, or ask in the thread that it be discussed in an appropriate thread... I am sure people will understand.I'm having depression. The Prince Andrew discussions on the other thread aren't helping because I don't know whether that lass is telling the truth or not, but ppl are blaming her and what not. I'm an abuse survivor and it's kind of triggering. I used to have to smile in photographs too, but behind the scenes, it was hell.
Hugs.I'm having depression. The Prince Andrew discussions on the other thread aren't helping because I don't know whether that lass is telling the truth or not, but ppl are blaming her and what not. I'm an abuse survivor and it's kind of triggering. I used to have to smile in photographs too, but behind the scenes, it was hell.
Could you ask for it to be behind a spoiler?Hugs.
I did politely ask if the PA stuff could go on the Royal Family thread instead because it’s off topic but most people appear to want it to stay.
I can’t ask again because it will be classed as moderating.
I‘m doing a lot of scrolling on there at the moment.
It’s more PA than H&M at the moment so the whole thread will be a spoiler!Could you ask for it to be behind a spoiler?
Hugs.
I did politely ask if the PA stuff could go on the Royal Family thread instead because it’s off topic but most people appear to want it to stay.
I can’t ask again because it will be classed as moderating.
I‘m doing a lot of scrolling on there at the moment.
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