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I did go away and I'm going away again towards the end of June for a couple of weeks xThank you, Jar!
Last I remember you were on a holiday or about to leave for one? Hope that went well!
I did go away and I'm going away again towards the end of June for a couple of weeks xThank you, Jar!
Last I remember you were on a holiday or about to leave for one? Hope that went well!
Very common- we lost our 15 year old one eyed shihtzu last year- my shadow🥹-Guilt
Since getting Inky whom I adore I have been feeling a bit of guilt for getting another pet after losing Zippy the way I did I don't know if anyone else has had this feeling when They get a new pet after losing a much loved pet , Its been neary two years since I lost My Boy Zippy I had Him for 12 years .
Is this a common feeling ?
Pretty earrings! xHope you're doing better, @MiscanthusMy classmate with Thalassemia required frequent transfusions to deal with the anaemia. The good news was that she was always quite refreshed after one. Had we not been too young and my classmates too non-cool, I'd have made quite a few vampire jokes
my favourite lab tech usually gets the brunt of them nowadays
That's a beautiful bloom, @DanDanTheIceCreamMan!Makes me miss the big bush of little tea roses we had in our garden in our previous home. Wish we could have brought a cutting with us.
I'd thrown in a few Lupin seeds a few times, nothing ever came of it. Although something ridiculous happened this year. As I've complained before, we've been going through a massive heatwave (40C+ day temperatures), crossed 50C in the national capital. People and plants dying. So I was quite pleased that my gomphrena that I'd sown a few months earlier were growing - they're pretty and quite sought after by artists as inclusions so I figured maybe a bit of commercial success? I'd made some cute earrings with flowers I'd bought from a craft supplier, was excited to use my own. Anyway, this was my first time growing gomphrena, but I could tell something was off. When the first bud bloomed, I realised that it was a zinnia. Which I'd last sown I think three or four years ago, and had never sprouted. It's a bit eaten up, but it's nodding its head aroundwaiting to see what colours the other two plants put out.
Lots of mites, aphids, little orange-y bugs and lots more pests. I hate mealy mouth the most though. Every day twice a day I have to wash certain very spiky plants and scrub the leaves and get rid of the bloody creatures one by one by hand. And they're so icky!!! I'm very squeamishCan't apply any sort of repellant because it's too hot and the plants will burn. So physical removal it is
Physical health is bleh - heatstroke and almost-pneumonia at the same time, mum's usual stuff, caught dad in some lies so I'm dealing with that (financial stuff, not anything else), super-hectic at work, haven't crafted in months so withdrawal symptoms, TV and air conditioner and other gadgets keep dying or aren't working at their best so the cost plus the boredom. And the dog bit me again.
But we have ice and cold drinking water, I can afford to buy non-alcoholic beer (the malt saves my kidneys from giving up), I'm actually contributing at work and learning stuff, weather might start improving soon, the cricket world cup is beginning this weekend, and my material manufacturer told me that we're in the correct weather for crafting so I just need to be a little less exhausted. And I love my seedlings and the ginger lily is sprouting and the Pup likes me sometimes.
So lots of silver linings.
I'm also planning to buy some fun makeup for exhibitions to push myself for some self-care
I can definitely complainbut at least right now my mood is not too bad. Especially after the breakdown yesterday. Being in long meetings (virtual) all day and hearing them all laugh and have fun (some were in client's office while the rest of us connected from home) was quite nice and comforting. Man is a social animal, after all
Anyway, here are my gomphrena earrings. Not a very good photo, but it will do. Tried doing a photo with the flowers but it really confused the camera
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ETA: I'd read that mealy mouth etc are attracted to lush green gardens, so I left my dried out Fenugreek plants in the containers - not much is growing anyway in this heat. Seems to have worked. Mealy mouth and others are a daily nuisance, but not as bad as previous years even though conditions are ideal for them right now. Worth a try, maybe, to leave some dried grass in?
Good idea! Report us all!! It was quite bad last time- her own house must have been full of smoke too- hopefully she won’t do it again- am sure by the time hubby is up & about he will forget to say it to her- he is not the confrontational type anyway. I was thinking of printing off the blurb about the burning fine and sticking it in her letterbox but again she only has a house either side-You could ask them to let you and the neighbour know when they're going to have a fire and give the neighbour's washing as an example of why it's problematic. Then you could say, and by the way, do you know there's a €5k fine and you've been told they're doing spot checks!
Or ring the Council and explain the problem, but don't give them any address details, and see what they suggest. You could do with them spot checking all 3 of you, and only finding them guilty!
Yup and they are sharp lol am already covered in scratchesAbsolutely gorgeous! And look at those claws!![]()
Sorry you're having to put up with such a self absorbed person. How old is she?I had a near miss with what would have been a nasty tripping accident in my room. My mother's response? Told me to stop whining and what about me with blah blah blah.
She doesn't really have bad health at all for the most part but her attitude in recent years is becoming horrendous when it comes to any time I say anything that she might get away with calling "whining"... and I really don't much.
I wish my nana was still here so I could get a hug.
You are so interesting! I will be googling “ havans” later! They won’t accuse me of racism - one of my family is married to a girl whose grandparents were from India- their kids are often here after school & overnight- My hubby has a huge industrial fan in his workshop- I can’t imagine him pushing it up the path to send the smoke over the fenceThat changes things. A complaint might give rise to accusations of racism. And although the Indian Christians I know don't perform havans etc, I can't stand by that statement in general because the world seems to have gone crazy these last few years. We've got a Sikh family here performing all kinds of havans and calling in black magic practitioners, even though that goes against the tenets of Sikhism, which was founded basically in reaction to the ritualistic practices of Hinduism and (those led to great corruption, repression of the poor etc).
Havans are meant to be cleansing and the stuff (samagri) that goes into the sacred fire is made up of all natural, nice-smelling and good-for-environment materials, but I can see how it would not smell nice to someone who's not used to it. And it's not great for people with any sort of allergies and respiratory issues either. Also, these are meant to be performed at certain times and in certain directions (I'm a Hindu but my parents and I don't perform most rituals so I don't know exactly).
That being said, we don't know if that's what they're doing. And either way, burning stuff close to your fence isn't polite or safe.
The call might help, I don't know. At least you're now equipped if they say it's a religious thing. Just say you understand but the smoke is not helping your respiratory issues, so it would be nice if they could at least move it away from your fence.
Otherwise you can get those outdoor fans I'd mentioned before, if feasible. The religious/cultural minority angle makes this tricky.
P s. If they're performing havans, they might argue that these are environment-friendly and meant to purify the air and keep away bugs etc, so the smoke won't harm you. Just hold firm on the respiratory distress angle.
I did think about it but really there is no one living near that a fire would bother- only us either side- anyone passing by wouldn’t be near enough to know what the smoke could be - ( smokey bbq etc) I think she would figure out one of us made the complaint.Yeah no I meant a drizzle to fizzle out the fire right now. Can't accidentally water their yard either, I guess.
About the complaints, thought one option was to do a general (anonymous) report and get everyone investigated, so it wouldn't be a "you reported us" thing?
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I don't know what I'd do. Like you said, if you report them, then it will be obvious who's done it. All you can do is speak to them and they will probably ask what the hell it's got to do with you!No not in Ireland - it’s up to each household to get a bin or not - €300ish a year for a recycling bin and a non recycling bin- we only have private bin collectors no council bins anymore- no one collects garden waste- i have compost bin so not an issue - there are massive bins in various places- i think it is €10 per black bag of waste- we also have a deposit return scheme on plastic bottles - and we can recycle glass free at recycling points.
Lol we have plenty of rain in Ireland lovely @ChaoticArtistThat's one more place that I need to pray for rain for for. I don't know how to fix that sentence right now.
Did you make the complaint?
Pretty earrings! x
Lol we have plenty of rain in Ireland lovely @ChaoticArtist- I can’t complain about them- we live in the countryside- 3 houses all in a row- the middle house are burning rubbish- if I complain then it is obviously going to be me or our other neighbour🫣 ….
Ya it is tricky- i felt for our elderly neighbour she had 2 lines of sheets/ duvet covers drying when the last fire was lit- not fair- Will see how things go- Hubby who is unwell atm says when he sees her he will let her know there is a €5,000 fine for burning rubbish🫣 - You may see a post in the future saying that I am movingI don't know what I'd do. Like you said, if you report them, then it will be obvious who's done it. All you can do is speak to them and they will probably ask what the hell it's got to do with you!
I did think about it but really there is no one living near that a fire would bother- only us either side- anyone passing by wouldn’t be near enough to know what the smoke could be - ( smokey bbq etc) I think she would figure out one of us made the complaint.
Hello Everyone thought I would pop in and show of My New Kitten it is called Inky and not sure if it's a boy or Girl yet what I can say Inky is a little tearaway with bundles of energy and sharp claws not bad for an 8 week old Inky is currently on my back playing with my ponytail View attachment 2887618View attachment 2887619