Erin - Little.Lulu.Love

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Came here to say exactly the same thing!! Look at your daughter struggling
.... surely that's your clear sign Erin .... doesn't get much clearer than that. Fucks me off she's swanning off for "me time" when poor sweet Luella is struggling and deteriorating waiting for her mother to sign on the dotted line. Erin wake the fuck up. All mum's obviously need me time but when you come online to moan epilepsy has ruined it... expect some backlash. Luella's days are all spoiled by her condition. Give her the best chance at a better life. What the fuck are you waiting for!!!!
 
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seizures ruin the day again

off for some me time!

seizures haven’t ruined your day so bad you’ve changed your plans eh???
 
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Normal service has resumed. No more napa for yummy mummy… she’s off to Pilates with the golden boy!
 
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Normal service has resumed. No more napa for yummy mummy… she’s off to Pilates with the golden boy!
At least she doesn't have the child that ruins the day with her. We can't have Lu there ruining everything with her seizures
 
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I have to wonder, if Erin had to take Lu to Napa each week.. how would she cope? There would be parents out there that do just this..
I just can’t imAgine Erin being there 3x weekly

I get it, we all need a break and I’m sure it’s tough but what if you couldn’t have this assistance?
 
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she doesn’t realise how good she’s got it. plenty of us exist doing 2-4 appointments a week for our disabled kids, given up our jobs and can’t even send our kids to childcare or be babysat. she wouldn’t cope at all! she has more help than the majority of us and she’s still behaving like this
 
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Such an attention seeker. Who just films themselves with a crying baby and uploads it for sympathy. Put the phone down!
 
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Such an attention seeker. Who just films themselves with a crying baby and uploads it for sympathy. Put the phone down!
Yes how good to have the ability to just be with your baby while someone else has your toddler. I do have to wonder how she would cope if she didn't have that help. I know I'm barely coping when the baby is screaming and my toddler is either simultaneously melting down or is at the other end of the house drawing on the walls or getting in to my make-up.

All I know is when my baby is crying I'm either stepping away to breathe for a second or trying another technique to soothe. Not filming myself and posting to social media
 
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I just can't with the filming yourself while babies crying.... surely he doesn't cry Erin...he's the golden boy? Put him a front pack and get outside and grab yourself a coffee...lucky you can do that while someone else is with lulu.
 
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Even putting disabilities aside, most people with multiple kids are running between activities! Even if it’s just trying to manage school pick ups on a regular day. Between specialist appointments and sports, we’ve got something on four afternoons a week and I’ve usually had to drag at least one sibling along with me.

If Lulu was the perfect, “normal” child Erin wants, she’d likely be in swimming lessons or dance classes or preschool and what would Erin be doing then? Throwing the baby in the carrier and getting on with it, like the rest of us
 
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There’s also the fact that none of them know any different. Erin needs to stop with the comparisons because she’s not known an atypical toddler. Accept the reality you have and take the help you have. Luella wasn’t born and then experienced a catastrophic injury. She doesn’t know anything but her world. Making the best of it is literally all they can do. There are therapies and support.
 
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Now she's moaning about lulu finally being able to pick up food and feed herself because it's a chip and not a carrot. There is literally no pleasing this woman. Be happy. She is feeding herself. Fucking cheer her on and celebrate this for lulu.
 
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If she cared to know about her daughter's food issues she would know that this is actually very common in children with sensory issues surrounding food. Think about it....a potato chip tastes exactly the same everytime. A carrot or piece of meat can taste and feel very different every single time. Kids with sensory issues notice even the slightest change in taste and texture so again if she gave a shit to even try to understand she would know that. Try exploring her issues instead of blaming her for ruining your day you pathetic piece of shit mother. Sorry but seeing her carry on that way makes me so angry and especially because I have a child with severe sensory issues with food. Frustrating? Yes of course it can be but I certainly don't sit there acting like he's ruining my life and being a pain in the ass for issues he can't help.
 
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Erin is getting to experience having a typical child because pretty much every kid on earth prefers chips over carrots! Like yes, it can be annoying, but this sounds like great progress for Lu and frankly something to look for the positives in instead of giving it a negative spin.
 
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