Had to come running here after seeing her IG isn’t up anymore. I must say I do have a soft spot for Erin, I only knew of her after her first pregnancy because the YouTube algorithm started recommending her vids to me for some reason. She seems like a really good mum, very loving but also not afraid to express how truly difficult it all is.
She’s basically a text book example of why people tell women to be exceptionally careful about who they choose to have babies with. It seems like she’s hesitant to fully bash him online which is fair enough, he’s her kids father after all. But he comes across like a deadbeat. She couldn’t even get him to watch Mila for an hour in the day to go get her nails done iirc.
It was sad to hear her taking about the pressure to balance being an active present mum, ferrying the babies to their extra curriculars, trying to be a full time financial provider and progress her career while also only being 28 and still wanting to travel and be social and experience new things.
If she was with a true life partner, a provider and active father, it wouldn’t be such an uphill struggle to balance ththings. Ultimately she is in a hell of her own making as this guy was suspect from day one from the sounds of things. It’s not like he was a lovely respectable guy and then suddenly switched on her.
It was also interesting to see her talk about being done with fast fashion and how she’s removed from her old identity and trying to rediscover who she is. It’s good to know that even though she lives 100s of miles away from them, that she has a good solid family support structure. It would be amazing to see her pack her kids up and leave London behind as I can’t see how it serves her anymore.