Erim Kaur gossip thread

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I don’t think she could ever leave and work for someone else, it feels like she doesn’t like being told what to do and I think that’s why when influencing fell into her lap it was the only thing. This is what happens when you get spoilt too much. I genuinely feel sorry because how have your dadi, masi etc helped raise you and you claim you didn’t know anything. I don’t know how it feels to lose a parent so I won’t even comment but still being so aggressive and touchy when someone simply mentions your mum is weird? It’s not a thing to use to excuse your crappy behaviour? This is when therapy would be important.
i agree i don't think she has the skillset to work under someone else. i know she always complains about being busy but she doesn't really seem hard-working. like what are you so stressed about, scrolling tik tok and finding dances to film? receiving free clothes and taking pics? brainstorming more ways to scam and profit off the kaurs who follow you?

she's that fake her own dog dont like her if u watch her vlogs and the dog walks away or leaves the room when she enters you'll flipping die ahahah she even admits he likes everyone but her I have a dog myself and trust me they can sense ppl.
this is soooo true :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO: that's how you know she is REALLY sketch!!! dog's definitely sense these things and that's a dog that lives with her. and he can't stand her :ROFLMAO:
 
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legit i was like she defffooo doedge if her own dog avoids her hahaha, also ive never seen her family, have u got a pic? she doesnt even talk about her bro much either
 
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i agree i don't think she has the skillset to work under someone else. i know she always complains about being busy but she doesn't really seem hard-working. like what are you so stressed about, scrolling tik tok and finding dances to film? receiving free clothes and taking pics? brainstorming more ways to scam and profit off the kaurs who follow you?


this is soooo true :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO: that's how you know she is REALLY sketch!!! dog's definitely sense these things and that's a dog that lives with her. and he can't stand her :ROFLMAO:
Erim has mentioned she’s been fired in other jobs so I’m guessing she was really difficult to work with- probably can’t cope with having to work for someone and not be superior to them
 
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also ive never seen her family, have u got a pic? she doesnt even talk about her bro much either
this is a pic online, her dad's on right

Erim has mentioned she’s been fired in other jobs so I’m guessing she was really difficult to work with- probably can’t cope with having to work for someone and not be superior to them
i truly do not doubt this at all
 

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yea they deffo not full indian i am myself indian punjabi and can tell when someone is not theres something else in them for sure, and she deffo uses a way too light foundation 🐱🐟
 
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100% couldn't agree. It's scary how much you normalise it while you're with her but once you're out of it you realise how toxic and abnormal her behaviours are and everyone around her just accepts it. She is not okay and she should be an influencer, influencing younger girls.
Tbf I think most of her behaviour comes from not having a mum. She probably feels so hard done by and that only she is the only person to have lost a parent. She clearly hasn’t dealt with her trauma from her childhood and it’s turned her into a narc, constantly thinking she deserves the respect and loyalty off everyone without giving any in return, and thinking that everyone is against her for giving constructive criticism. I think seeing a therapist would genuinely help her become a better person
It’s a good assumption but not true

Sooo im new to this web page but I've been reading for a few days and felt i needed to comment and I am SO HAPPY I am not the only one thinking and feeling the way u guys are. I dont have social and only kno erim from what ppl have told me or YouTube. I think I have a good sense to tell when ppl are fake call it a 6th sense but honestly I cant stand the girl, she's that fake her own dog dont like her if u watch her vlogs and the dog walks away or leaves the room when she enters you'll flipping die ahahah she even admits he likes everyone but her I have a dog myself and trust me they can sense ppl. In one video w harneet they did a lip video for pigmented lips.... harneet said "we have diff lip shapes and shades" erim: "and skintones" i watched that and thought what a horrible thing to say. Also I have been told by a close person that she called out this other oil brand not the usual one but someone on her team called Kunal or something @ her in comments she then replied saying "hahaha dw ill sort it" like okay sorry big MAFIA leader ur not the only one that can mix a concoction of oils together luv and shes acting like its her recipe its not even been patent so anyone can use so stop being unsupportive of small business jus bc urs is 6 figures APPARENTLY, hate how shes coming for other brands and throwing shade

Omggg alsoooo I had this girl on depop kaurclothes and she was selling things erim was repping so I messaged her n said is this erim she said no I said oh well ur selling things she has and using her pics she said my name is jasmine but now the account changed displayname to P Patel.... saw erims pr haul and looked on depop it was all in this girls depop for sale, apparently she posted on inst how she hides tags bc she forgets? Bc she wants to sell later on depop? Loads of her pandora stuff is on there
The depop is Erim
 
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I still can’t get over the fact she was in support for providing government IDs to open a social media account just so she wouldn’t get hate or whatever she sees it as, like the actual reasoning being the government trying to create a more authoritative state where they can arrest you for speaking out against them. Like the thought of that is so scary to me because how can you have 1 brain cell to not think about the wider implications
 
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i've always had this feeling that she made those fan accounts about her herself and runs them herself lmao i can't imagine anyone actually being a fan like that of hers, but the erimsfc account sounds just like her
 
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i never understood why she decided to act like she's sooo into sikhi. i mean come on, i'm gonna be honest here and say that i'm not the most religious and i find her daily "waheguru" posts to be so mfing obnoxious. but at least i don't go around waffling about being into sikhi when i'm not, and capitalizing on the community to sell my crappy hair oil
 
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Also I don't understand why she now justifies her trip. For instance, when she went to her so called "business trip" during a bloody pandemic; she had her dad with her. Yet when she was with that ammy guy she would go out with him on holidays etc. Not saying going on holiday with her bf is wrong; but hate how she now justifies that she is only with her dad etc

Have you guys also seen when harneet and erim were friends how she would respond to her insta comments
 

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Also I don't understand why she now justifies her trip. For instance, when she went to her so called "business trip" during a bloody pandemic; she had her dad with her. Yet when she was with that ammy guy she would go out with him on holidays etc. Not saying going on holiday with her bf is wrong; but hate how she now justifies that she is only with her dad etc

Have you guys also seen when harneet and erim were friends how she would respond to her insta comments
She probably saw harneet as a fan even though her own fan pages were probably created by her 🤣🤣
I can’t figure out erim. She either loves herself too much that’s why she’s always posting them cringy short staged videos and can’t take criticism. Or she’s insecure as she photoshops herself so much
 
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It’s funny how she puts up a video saying she’s so sick and tired of photoshop yet in every single picture her poses are so extreme to create an hourglass shape. Why don’t we see you in a more natural pose and why don’t you not contort your body?
We can see your natural shape from your tik tok anyways. I don’t get why she’s so hell bent on twisting her body to create an hourglass illusion. Girl if that ain’t your shape then it just isn’t and there’s nothing wrong with that.
 

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She's not even Persian or Arab... her ex has told people where she's actually from... she's defo half Muslim but only claims her punjabi/sikh side
there’s no such thing as half muslim, half sikh. You’re one or the other.
I don’t care for anything that Erim does in terms of being this nasty narcissist because honestly, dumb people on Instagram clearly see past it
For me personally, it’s the fake Sikhi facade. From her going to shisha lounges which it’s such a huge sin, to her dads restaurant selling halal meat which is another huge sin, to her trying to push a false narrative that she doesn’t cut her hair (which is really clearly what she tries to do), posting videos with Gurbani in the background when she very clearly does not do paath, selling necklaces w Gurbani on them for “aesthetic” and so many other things.
Erim saw Sikhi is not a big deal in influencer culture and is using it to her advantage and it just sickens me. I watched her journey to Sikhi video and she doesn’t talk about ANYTHING other than the UoM Sikh society. Wow, you relaunched a Sikh society but do you even know the names of our Guru’s?
Everyday she’s posting 🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿 but if you believe in Sikhi, you’d know that a silly emoji isn’t protecting you the way Guru Sahib will protect you from the evil in the world. I’ve questioned this in her dm and she has never responded. She really sickens me
 
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Here she goes again with the online abuse. I’m going to go on a little rant here because I’m sick of it so bare with me.
First of all, I don’t get what the issue with gossip (not hate) forums is anyway. Would erim rather us comment this under her insta posts. We criticise her outside of her social media accounts. I understand complaining about hateful comments on your social media and stuff but she clearly has a problem with this forum. Here’s a tip for you Erim- don’t read it. To me this is the same as when i gossip with my friends about influencers, i really don’t see the difference, and i don’t think we ‘abuse’ her on this forum but rather comments on her actions and behaviour. Just because we are not sheep and fall for her act doesn’t mean we are harassing her.

influencers like erim really see any form of criticism as online abuse/harassment. Stop acting like the victim- you chose to put your life online so obviously there will be people that gossip (especially if you are scamming people)

Also, has she not thought of the problems it would cause to get rid of anonymous posting. What a great idea erim. Lets out all the gay teens finding their feet online away from their unsupportive religious families. Lets allow governments to prosecute human rights activists.

Besides, expressing your opinion (NOT ABUSE) is essential to a democratic society? Like if we’re banning sites like this (which don’t break the law) which erim can block then what would happen? Influencers like her are just so far up their a, people who are obsessed with themselves and their images.

long story short, this isn’t online harassment. Either block this site if you don’t want to see us gossip about you, choose to learn from this criticism and be a better person (rather than seeing it as harassment) or stop posting on social media
 

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The fact that she can’t see how it affects anyone but herself just says it all
 
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I've been reading this thread for a while now and finally decided to post.

You can see in the attached pic that she claims to be using coconut oil... there are also comments later on where she is telling organicoilsbyhema that her oil is finished and hema replied saying that can be sorted. What happened to byerim being in her fam for generations like she claims? When only a few years ago she wrote she used coconut oil or oilsbyhema.....interesting...

When she started using mixed oils you used to share how to create it on IG too and then after when she realised she can make money from it she stopped sharing the mixture.

When she got the pandora collab she used to post in a sisterhood group on fb lives (which she never saved) that shes going to post a pic soon and to go like, comment and tag pandora coz she was doing all this for her sisters/brown girls and it's a big deal... if she was doing this for her sis like she said then why not do giveaway with the pandora stuff instead of selling it? She gets so much makeup yet she hands harneet an empty nars box 🙄 and she made a big deal about it by posting it to her stories that shes so generous.... like really? At least put some makeup in there.

Harneet stated a cookies biz and erim only just shared it to her stories once. She could have easily promoted it more esp as she claimed harneet is a sister to her... she wasn't gaining anything from that so she never bothered. She's so selfish and will only share/promote things that benefit her but never share to help others even if they are friends. She never tagged her friends in her stories but tags other influences. She's clever.

Another thing that pisses me of is she keeps going on about hating her birthday and doesn't like celebrating it but why do you keep talking about that? Like just stfu about it. For years she keeps saying that and then she posts on her birthday and tells people her birthday when they ask when it is. If you really hated your birthday you wouldnt openly advertise it like that so people wish you and send you gifts. She is such an attention seeker.

I actually liked her when I first started following her years ago but she's a different person now and I hate this persona of this "perfect" person she tries to portray

It's obvious she can't keep friends. I do wonder what happened with hamesha. One day she was at erims house and then the next they unfollowed eachother and she was removed as the moderator and then eventually hamesha disappeared from social media completely. She also used to be close to that black girl nefy london, but now she unfollowed her. She always used to take erims photos.

She also broke up with her bf around Jan/Feb 2019. He also helped her set byerim up. She takes all the credit but it was her bf and the girls doing all the hard work behind the scenes. Interesting how she was always bae this, bae that 🧿 and then never posted about the breakup or anything. It's like he never existed in her life!

It was after the breakup that she started posting about needed an assistant to take her pics over the weekends.

Also regarding her massi, she seems a lot older to be her mums sister. I believe it's actually her dadi's sister who would be her dads massi and she prob just calls her massi too. So her great aunt I believe then.

I know a group of girls in her sisterhood group who created their own group on messenger and they were all saying the same stuff you guys have been here and someone from that group fed that info back to erim, so she removed them from her fb group, removed them as her followers and his her stories from them. Funny thing is the people that kept quiet and didn't say anything about erim in the group she didn't remove them. This was last year. Surely if she was genuine and all this was just rumours or assumptions she wouldnt get this defensive and try hiding from people who have clocked on about her by removing from everywhere. Like why hide your stories from them? 😂

I'm surprised her bf put up with her for that long tbh.
Also another thing when she had a bf, she would never reply back to men in her comments and used to claim that her page is for girls only but now she sends them all these hearts and kisses 😂 and all of sudden targeting men now by saying it's a beard oil too!

Who the duck is this kunal sood? He is so up erims a with his bs byerim promotions. It's so fake!! I think he was originally mates with harneet as I've seen her comment on his posts from years ago. So he was prob on the byerim team too.

She definitely has been promoting unhealthy body image/food relationships. She used to go on about how light she weighs and how shes lost so much weight and how she eats less than 1000 cals a day!! This is bad as all the girls in her group and following and younger than her. They're going to think that it's normal to starve to look like her.

P.S I feel like slapping her when she does that annoying laugh that she think is cute!! Grow up erim!!
 

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Have you guys also seen when harneet and erim were friends how she would respond to her insta comments
this is just so sad, she doesn't even know how to speak to friends.

We can see your natural shape from your tik tok anyways. I don’t get why she’s so hell bent on twisting her body to create an hourglass illusion. Girl if that ain’t your shape then it just isn’t and there’s nothing wrong with that.
even in her tik toks she's constantly posing. it looks so weird, like she doesn't know how to stand like a normal human.

influencers like erim really see any form of criticism as online abuse/harassment. Stop acting like the victim- you chose to put your life online so obviously there will be people that gossip (especially if you are scamming people)
yep she will constantly victimise herself. it validates her narcissism, it makes her think she's doing something right even if she can't handle it

You can see in the attached pic that she claims to be using coconut oil... there are also comments later on where she is telling organicoilsbyhema that her oil is finished and hema replied saying that can be sorted. What happened to byerim being in her fam for generations like she claims? When only a few years ago she wrote she used coconut oil or oilsbyhema.....interesting...
someone on this thread posted screenshots of erim repping the hema oil a couple years ago, before byerim. i asked oilsbyhema in dms as well and they said she def used to use their oil.

When she started using mixed oils you used to share how to create it on IG too and then after when she realised she can make money from it she stopped sharing the mixture.
yep i remember this clearly too. she used to use random oils and she got a couple questions of people asking what oil is it and from like 2018 she has been saying on her stories she's going to share the recipe soon, of course she can't share something for free with her following. if she really believed in the power of her oil, she would have shared the recipe for free. and then if she really believed in herself and her branding and her bond with her audience, she would have pursued byerim with a clean heart and honesty and if people saw her being genuine, they would have purchased the oil to support anyway even if the recipe was given out by her for free. tons of influencers start their brands like this. they will tell you exactly how you can DIY their product, then later come out with the product that's just more convenient than DIYing it. their audience supports them because of the transparency. but from the beginning this girl has been lying and trying to make a buck off her "sisterhood." on linkedin it's stated clearly that it was developed to be sold at selfridges and harrods, she's been wanting to profit off this from the beginning, it has nothing to do with her relationship with her audience other than her relationship with their wallets.

When she got the pandora collab she used to post in a sisterhood group on fb lives (which she never saved) that shes going to post a pic soon and to go like, comment and tag pandora coz she was doing all this for her sisters/brown girls and it's a big deal... if she was doing this for her sis like she said then why not do giveaway with the pandora stuff instead of selling it? She gets so much makeup yet she hands harneet an empty nars box 🙄 and she made a big deal about it by posting it to her stories that shes so generous.... like really? At least put some makeup in there.
she still posts in the fb group asking people to check out whatever she's doing. never actually interacts with the girls in their and tries to get to know anyone. she doesn't have a friendship with anyone in there. she sees them as her little fan club when these girls are just in their asking for recommendations. tbh the facebook group is so dead too, no one really is friends with anyone in there. it's definitely not a sisterhood space.

Harneet stated a cookies biz and erim only just shared it to her stories once. She could have easily promoted it more esp as she claimed harneet is a sister to her... she wasn't gaining anything from that so she never bothered. She's so selfish and will only share/promote things that benefit her but never share to help others even if they are friends. She never tagged her friends in her stories but tags other influences. She's clever.
she also never would tag harneet's page. like you clearly like how harneet does your makeup and hair, and that's something harneet can get an income from. the least you can do is tag her in all the pics and stories where your hair and makeup is done by harneet and help her grow! but instead erim just tags herself 💀

get a load of this bull. she says she only promotes brands and products she loves and believes in. why is she selling all her tit she has promoted on her depop then? why has she done random sponsorships and never spoken about them again? can she go even a day without all of this bull?
 

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She probably saw harneet as a fan even though her own fan pages were probably created by her 🤣🤣
I can’t figure out erim. She either loves herself too much that’s why she’s always posting them cringy short staged videos and can’t take criticism. Or she’s insecure as she photoshops herself so much
Definitely the first

there’s no such thing as half muslim, half sikh. You’re one or the other.
I don’t care for anything that Erim does in terms of being this nasty narcissist because honestly, dumb people on Instagram clearly see past it
For me personally, it’s the fake Sikhi facade. From her going to shisha lounges which it’s such a huge sin, to her dads restaurant selling halal meat which is another huge sin, to her trying to push a false narrative that she doesn’t cut her hair (which is really clearly what she tries to do), posting videos with Gurbani in the background when she very clearly does not do paath, selling necklaces w Gurbani on them for “aesthetic” and so many other things.
Erim saw Sikhi is not a big deal in influencer culture and is using it to her advantage and it just sickens me. I watched her journey to Sikhi video and she doesn’t talk about ANYTHING other than the UoM Sikh society. Wow, you relaunched a Sikh society but do you even know the names of our Guru’s?
Everyday she’s posting 🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿 but if you believe in Sikhi, you’d know that a silly emoji isn’t protecting you the way Guru Sahib will protect you from the evil in the world. I’ve questioned this in her dm and she has never responded. She really sickens me
You can be half Muslim and half Sikh in terms of your parents but she chooses to only acknowledge Sikhi
 
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