I'm mean yeah good for her for improving her riding, and she has come on leaps and bounds, and good for her for putting the work in, Banksy deserves it, he's a very talented horse, but the co dependency thing, I personally find highly irritating, especially the way she goes on about it. I mean up until recently she barely ever plaited her horse herself. But she got to the end of a really great lesson with Cameron and still seemed no further forward about what she wanted to do. If you want to stay at 100, great but pick a goal, even after Cameron suggested Bitcoin she ummed and ahhed. If you want to jump BE, fab but find a damn target. I'm sure there are people who understand her procrastination with her riding, I'm not one of them. If you find being home alone while your husband is at work really hard, you need to do some serious self reflection.