Not got kids but…are those things not a sign somethings not right? you might not be failing but that isn’t normal….
yeah, I have absolutely no idea what it’s like to be a parent and it must be a lot to deal with (which is why I know I never want kids myself because I know I’d feel like that!) but it’s a bit odd to constantly post about how you don’t like playing with them and dread spending time with them and can’t wait for them to go to bed?? like you said, this doesn’t seem to be the odd day - she complains every single day, even when they’ve been in nursery!
she’s not failing but the whole ‘it’s okay, it’s normal, let’s be HONEST, self love club, it’s okay to prioritise YOU xxx’ is basically just a new way to sell people
tit they don’t need like £60 on bath bombs under the guise of ‘self care’. She could instead spend that money on something useful like… some actual support, therapy and/or a babysitter so that she has an actual break instead of acting like a martyr constantly?
yes of course look after yourself but maybe try not to emotionally traumatise your children in the process by openly acting like you can’t stand being around them?? they didn’t ask to be born