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ocean_eyes89
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wonder how well Tustin is protected because no way she would still be here today if she wasn’t!!
one day a prison officer will turn their back… only a matter of time.
one day a prison officer will turn their back… only a matter of time.
Absolutely. 1000% second this.
SmudgeTheCat
Chatty Member
This made me so emotional to read because it’s just what we are all feelingI don't think I've commented on these threads but I have on Star's and I can 100% confirm you are not alone. Hearing Arthur shout and cry that no one loved him and no one was going to feed him will never, ever leave me. Nor will seeing him limping and too weak to fold his blanket on the morning of his death. I just want to pick him up out of the screen, give him a big cuddle and bring him home with me to a warm comfy bed and as much yummy food as he wanted and never let anyone raise a hand to him again. I can only imagine his friends' families feeling the same too. I have sobbed at the most random time over him. My 2 children are 4 and 6. Both little blondies and like you with your grandson, they remind me of Arthur. As Emmadale said, my youngest's birthday is days before Arthur died so I remember the time well, preparing gifts and a cake, all while Arthur suffered. While having dinner last night my 6-year-old was thanking me for a lovely mealand my partner said flippantly how lucky they are to have a mum like me and my thoughts went instantly back to Arthur being starved and off I went in tears again. My kids are getting away with all sorts because I can't bear to tell them off or have them upset. We were looking back on our lockdown memories the other day - we were "lucky" in that none of our families suffered any serious illness/financial loss etc through the pandemic and we "enjoyed" lockdown with lots of family time in the garden etc and to be honest, those happy memories are now tainted by the thought of Arthur and any other children who suffered while being kept at home. I don't know how to get over this, I don't think I will get over it, and at the same time, I feel silly that I am so upset when I didn't know him - I feel like I don't have the right to be upset? I see people comparing Arthur to Baby P and James Bulger, both of those poor boys were killed when I was still a child so it almost wasn't on my radar, if that makes sense? I feel like this is the first time I have really followed such a harrowing case as an adult and it is REALLY affecting me. I think my partner thinks I need to pull myself together as well but I just can't.
This is weird because in my county they definitely don't (or didn't). I had an unannounced visit due to a school safeguarding issue that resulted in mental health issues in my son. They needed to rule out home as the cause. No notice whatsoever.
Unless it's a COVID thing they introduced maybe? To protect SWs from being exposed.
Unless it's a COVID thing they introduced maybe? To protect SWs from being exposed.
Emmelina Ball
VIP Member
I’ve been avoiding reading and watching anything about poor little Arthur’s death because I didn’t want to break down in front of my own 2 boys so I only know some of the horrible things that poor little boy went through 
but I’m in isolation now and feel ready to read about it as I’ll have space to cry without upsetting my own boys. Is there anywhere that I can read all about the case or a podcast or anything anyone can recommend that has all the detail about what happened in the courts etc.
I hope those bastards get hell in jail they should never ever be allowed out
but I’m in isolation now and feel ready to read about it as I’ll have space to cry without upsetting my own boys. Is there anywhere that I can read all about the case or a podcast or anything anyone can recommend that has all the detail about what happened in the courts etc. I hope those bastards get hell in jail they should never ever be allowed out
heatmagazine
Chatty Member
As they say, only ponces speak to ponces.
I didn’t mean ponce it was autocorrected.
Mrs_honestyx4
Member
To be honest. I'm getting slightly sick and tired of the world. Society puts me to shame. There were a lot of abuse cases years ago, people blamed poverty, lack of security etc. We are in a better situation now and yet children's welfare isn't getting any better. In fact, it's getting worse because these people are documenting it via phones/social media, that means they have no shame? It's a trophy to them, they are not even hiding it. Which to me, speaks volumes? Children are being left to fend for themselves because it's all about what the hell next mummy and daddy can buy on credit, staging the next best photo for the likes and getting shagged to boost their own self centred ego.
We are in a better situation compare to years ago, what the hell is happening?
We are in a better situation compare to years ago, what the hell is happening?
ocean_eyes89
Member
She went missing over a dispute about her children threw her toys out the pram cause their dad had them or something
From whar I understand MH hadnt seen him since October 2019 when Arthur cane fir her birthfay. When Hughes came to collect hIn he asked his dad if she was in the car. When he said yes he started crying and asked MH if he could please live with her. In April 2020 after Hughes went home for a night and his parents took photos of the bruises, the text MH to say about the bruises and social services. The next day she said she rang social servuces and they told her they had already been to the house and had no concerns. That is the extent of her action. Shocking. Shameful.
I keep trying to find out on prison life looking for updates if anyone has got to them ( I wish )
All I can see she is in isolation for her protection so either she has been got at or been close it doesn’t give me any comfort altho for a few seconds it did then all the heart break returned my thoughts back to Arthur there is no punishment lol hat could ever come close to what they did, to day I feel angry and sad and to think they going to give her parenting lessons omg .
I’m also puzzled why her own mother did not do something regarding Arthur all guilty of playing apart in Arthur’s death shocking beyond belief.
Typo error on lol
All I can see she is in isolation for her protection so either she has been got at or been close it doesn’t give me any comfort altho for a few seconds it did then all the heart break returned my thoughts back to Arthur there is no punishment lol hat could ever come close to what they did, to day I feel angry and sad and to think they going to give her parenting lessons omg .
I’m also puzzled why her own mother did not do something regarding Arthur all guilty of playing apart in Arthur’s death shocking beyond belief.
Typo error on lol
This is true. However it wouldnt explain a lack of telehphone contact which there doesnt appear to have been either
wakametango 2.0
VIP Member
Great news
Michelle1980
New member
I think so smudgethecat. It's torture of the mind, to see how the little pet suffered. We have to think that he had happy days before all that shit. That is my only small comfort and I'm hanging to that to try and get me through.
Mrs_honestyx4
Member
But they are exposing her?
I also find it odd that she didn't alert the SS about her daughter's own situation? The drinking, drug taking and violence around Arthur? If she was THAT close, she'd have had some input and concerns
Lucyxxxx
VIP Member
I am sure I read one day that around June 12th the camera's showed Arthur and that man on the sofa together watching TV together or something along them lines.
Lucyxxxx
VIP Member
Yes she makes out she can't inbox people who aren't patreons either. The onslaught I received suggests otherwise.
Urbanbunny
VIP Member
Sadly I think it’s fake news
heatmagazine
Chatty Member
No doubt somebody will sell their experience with her when they leave prison.