Hello all, New member but medium term lurker here. Ok so, I will probably get shot down for this but....I actually feel sorry for Em right now. She has been going out with Mat for what 5 years now? Don’t get me wrong we are all different but considering he knows how ’excitable’ she is you would think he would have made an effort and actually done something for their anniversary. The last 4 years she blagged holidays and this is the first year that hasn’t happened and he appears to have done nothing. It appears to be a completely one sided relationship.