"get some nibbles in... for an Italian night...for example"
It must run in the family; a total inability to prepare food for themselves.
Here's an idea... go to the supermarket and buy some Italian cheese, meats, olives, bread (no cooking required!) Chuck a couple of pizzas in the oven. Make an Aperol spritz (this is very easy even without a freebie idiot proof kit)
You don't need to
pay beg someone else to do this for you!!!
Then Em 'Saint' Sheldon, while you're at the supermarket you can do lots of sanctimonious tweets judging people for not wearing masks, of which there are
many valid reasons.
Strange though that you tell us repeatedly never to judge people without knowing the whole story, using your own brother as an example of someone with a hidden condition...