Aw damn. Things were going very well for her finally, I don't know about a second run of Anorexia that's extremely hard to overcome again for most patients. If anything it can stick around for life and things turn dark, but I don't think she's anywhere near there as she's a healthy weight currently. She needs to find a career or go to school to distract herself imo, but knowing Elzani's personality she'll def take a breakup to heart, I know because I'm the same way, so who knows how she'll end up dealing with that. I pray she finds solace.
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Aw damn. Things were going very well for her finally, I don't know about a second run of Anorexia that's extremely hard to overcome again for most patients. If anything it can stick around for life and things turn dark, but I don't think she's anywhere near there as she's a healthy weight currently. She needs to find a career or go to school to distract herself imo, but knowing Elzani's personality she'll def take a breakup to heart, I know because I'm the same way, so who knows how she'll end up dealing with that. I pray she finds solace.
I do worry. I had anorexia for 4 years but now recovered and in a good career. There are times when I feel if I let my emotions and let the things life throws at you get to me it could lead to ED thoughts and behaviours. Especially because it’s her first break up. My heart breaks for her.
I agree she needs to look at studying or getting a job. Something to keep her directed and keeps her feeling like she has a purpose. When I was sick, I felt like I had no purpose. When I got a job and socialising it eventually became less and less.
Hoping her fam support her as much as they can
I agree she needs to look at studying or getting a job. Something to keep her directed and keeps her feeling like she has a purpose. When I was sick, I felt like I had no purpose. When I got a job and socialising it eventually became less and less.
Hoping her fam support her as much as they can
I don't follow her anymore as I don't use tiktok but what has she been doing? Just tiktok full time? I totally agree she needs to get a job or go to uni, being a full time tiktoker is not positive for anyone imo
I watched her IG story of where she got her hair done and even tho she wasn't facing the camera her face looks filed with sadness from her side profile omg ..
She doesn’t post a lot now in general? Sometimes I forget about her because I never see her post. How old is she? Surely she’s mid 20s?
I think most of her content is Anorexia-related so she probably wants to keep away from that now, understandably. To me Elzani comes across as the type of chick who would possibly want to take after her mother and become stay-at-home looking after kids or something. No offense but her sister Satara is a bit unhinged to me, and their sister Alisha seems to have it quite together. (Boyfriend, fit body, good job now, I believe, and has moved already?) Idk must be hard as the oldest to see your middle sibling make it before you do. I'm sure it contributes to some of Elzani's issues. Alisha should give her some advice maybe, I think if Elzani focused on counselling for other Anorexic patients or did nutrition courses treating ED she could make a world of difference in her community. (Online, and in person)
I wonder why they broke up? Judging by the sound she used on her tiktok, it was him that broke up with her, or he's found somebody else. It seems very sudden though.
Without being harsh, they are young, it is her first relationship. They end. I hope she is okay
watching her latest videos make me sad knowing what's happened 
It's kind of strange that she's still uploading videos with her boyfriend in when they've since broken upwatching her latest videos make me sad knowing what's happened
She seems to have posted and then deleted a vlog..
Maybe hes asked her to?
I can't help but notice she seems to have lost a bit of weight recently.. hopefully it's just balancing out from her initial recovery weight gain and not due to any restriction.
I hope she
I hope she is okay. I remember a uni friend I had who had suffer3d with anorexia at school and then had a big relapse after a break up during uni
I hope not. She has been/is honestly so inspiring. It's such a knock while things were going well then they were not.
Post break-up pain can last for years.
Post break-up pain can last for years.
Totally agree, she's absolutely amazing in her commitment to recovery but a break up can really bring back old coping strategies 
Her recent TikTok’s are like she’s body checking? Not sure. I’m hoping it’s not that and she’s not going back to ED behaviours.. especially cause as satara is away to uni now as well as her break up. She must feel a little lonely
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It seems as tho some comments show concern for her - she has lost some weight. She did reply to a comment and say she wasn’t eating as much in august because she was broken hearted and lost muscle as she wasn’t training. I do think she’s masking her struggles on TikTok to seem fine And ‘happy’ to everyone
I think she is slipping into some old habits/coping mechanisms.
The ‘dancing’ she’s doing on tik tok isn’t dancing.
I hope she can scoop herself up from this before it gets too far. She’s come such a long way.
The ‘dancing’ she’s doing on tik tok isn’t dancing.
I hope she can scoop herself up from this before it gets too far. She’s come such a long way.