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Disappointed i missed her live. How will I cope without a daily dose of her stating she "doesn't care" what people think of her yet reading this thread daily. Oh along with the baby screaming in the background while she states "He's fine, I don't know why he's crying, he's just had some milk", her constantly telling Autumn off and her cackling at the screen while discussing her latest yeast infection ๐Ÿ˜‚ I'm sure there'll be at least another 2 lives today for me to catch up on.

In all seriousness I can't watch her lives anymore. Seeing how she parents Autumn is heartbreaking, forcing her to stay in a chair all the time, eating the same meals constantly, shouting at her for touching things/playing.......let alone how she ignores the baby. My youngest is now just over a year old but I remember all I wanted to do when he was little is cuddle him, hold him, play with him. She just doesn't seem interested in the kids like she was in the early days with Autumn. I know she struggles with BPD but maybe she is suffering with a touch of PND? I do think she'd benefit from some social services involvement, not to take the kids, god no, but to teach her how to cope with the children better. Social services are not always the bad guys they are portrayed as, they could definitely teach Elly a thing or 2 about parenting.
 
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Shes acting like shes the only person who had a thread. I for one was shocked when she didnt and loads of people said the same!
 
Says she dont neglect her kids. you sit on live several times daily for ages. that is neglecting your kids. negelct isnt always abuse. see it way to often on tiktok pisses me off
 
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Her threads pretty dead compared to a lot of other tiktokers. There's definitely something about her like she doesn't seem very affectionate towards her children and gives the impression raising them is more of a chore to do like she has a check list to complete every day along with the housework etc. Maybe she should try making more videos of her just being daft and playing with the children, she could be making play doh, finger painting, gloop....loads of things with Autumn I bet she would get more positive views and comments from doing that. I feel bad commenting too negatively as I think she perhaps does have some pnd. You would think Scott would notice and would be supporting her as well but I get the impression they have quite separate lives and are more flat mates than partners
 
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Her threads pretty dead compared to a lot of other tiktokers. There's definitely something about her like she doesn't seem very affectionate towards her children and gives the impression raising them is more of a chore to do like she has a check list to complete every day along with the housework etc. Maybe she should try making more videos of her just being daft and playing with the children, she could be making play doh, finger painting, gloop....loads of things with Autumn I bet she would get more positive views and comments from doing that. I feel bad commenting too negatively as I think she perhaps does have some pnd. You would think Scott would notice and would be supporting her as well but I get the impression they have quite separate lives and are more flat mates than partners
Totally agree. I would have thought Scott would have noticed if Elly was struggling but unfortunately he's quite self absorbed himself so doesn't surprise me he's blind to what we can all see. I definitely think you're right about her treating their day to day care as more of a chore than the blessing that it actually is.
I'm personally surprised that Scott doesn't have a thread if his own. I personally find him to be a vile, poor excuse of a man.
 
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You would think with her fella being off work all weekend they would go out and take the kids somewhere. No wonder her daughter is naughty sheโ€™s probably bored of doing the same tit day in day out
 
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Poor Autumn sitting wimpering and hes ignoring her

can she not getting clothes that fir her daughter ๐Ÿ˜‚ about 3 sizes too big
 
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Just watching his live and all I can think is why do they both go straight to chastising Autumn rather than speaking to her properly and explaining what she's doing is not safe, 'naughty' etc rather than instantly telling her off. He just keeps shouting at her to 'sit' like she's some kind of dog. All she's learning is that it's okay to shout at someone. They both need a lesson in parenting. That little girl isn't naughty, just poorly parented.

Poor Autumn sitting wimpering and hes ignoring her

can she not getting clothes that fir her daughter ๐Ÿ˜‚ about 3 sizes too big
Just buys what she can afford with her dole money. Not that there's anything wrong with being on benefits, but she had a perfectly good full time job that she now can't go back to as she can't afford childcare. Yet she complains constantly about being skint. Why have a second child if you can't afford it. Poor kids.
 
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LOL we getting called out now. If a few comments on a forum she supposebly doesn't care about make her cry then perhaps she needs a quick meds review
 
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LOL we getting called out now. If a few comments on a forum she supposebly doesn't care about make her cry then perhaps she needs a quick meds review
She literally said the other day were lucky shes thick skined or something. obviously not

he looks off his nut. he has other kids too

theres people full on flirting with him in the comments?
 
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