Thank you. I love learning to tell different cultures apart!I just HAVE to correct everyone. The kid was from Bosnia. I know it doesn't make much of a difference to you all, but as a Serbian person it really grates me when everyone speaking a Slavic language is labelled as Russian despite living half a continent away and speaking an entirely different language. It's as if I met someone from Canada and said they are Swedish. I also understand not being able to distinguish them, and I know most of you don't mean anything bad.
Elle must have been the “friend” that referred Rick to GG. It’s a classic narcissist move to declare the gossip upfront and claim it be about jealousy before he inevitably discovers it later on his own.Guess what ladies, I found out that one of my friends ALSO MATCHED with our Smelleanore on a dating appHe didn't mention anything about sex (I don't think they even advanced to this stage ). Elle apparently told him about the gossip sites on internet and how her haters are so jealous of her achievements, success and wealth etc He did mention that she was looking for "SERIOUS" relationship and was ready to "settle." Our delusional 32 y.o. is desperately looking for her new Mr. Next for sure!
LOL jealousy. Way to try and manage the narrative, Elle.Elle apparently told him about the gossip sites on internet and how her haters are so jealous of her achievements, success and wealth etc
Speaking truthfully here (and to Elle, if you're reading this): if you come on this strong with guys they WILL run. When you first meet a guy, don't get into your YouTube career, your haters, the gossip sites, your success, your wealth, etc.Guess what ladies, I found out that one of my friends ALSO MATCHED with our Smelleanore on a dating appHe didn't mention anything about sex (I don't think they even advanced to this stage ). Elle apparently told him about the gossip sites on internet and how her haters are so jealous of her achievements, success and wealth etc He did mention that she was looking for "SERIOUS" relationship and was ready to "settle." Our delusional 32 y.o. is desperately looking for her new Mr. Next for sure!
She's been ready to settle since she graduated universityGuess what ladies, I found out that one of my friends ALSO MATCHED with our Smelleanore on a dating appHe didn't mention anything about sex (I don't think they even advanced to this stage ). Elle apparently told him about the gossip sites on internet and how her haters are so jealous of her achievements, success and wealth etc He did mention that she was looking for "SERIOUS" relationship and was ready to "settle." Our delusional 32 y.o. is desperately looking for her new Mr. Next for sure!
Eleanor, much like the orange dumpster fire slinking out of the WH, screams "FAKE NEWS" whenever anything not-so-flattering comes out about her.She's been ready to settle since she graduated university
I am starting to accept that Smelle is one of those people who live in some alternative reality created in their heads and you can tell them that white is white but they will insist it's black. My grandmother was like that so I have first hand experience of dealing with a person who may not be clinically insane but it's impossible to be around them because of how they perceive the world. And it's nothing to do with political views, more how they see themselves and others. People like that don't have many friends, they are manipulative hypocrites and will always twist the story to put themselves in a favourable light.
At this point, I am convinced Smelle must genuinely believe she is a victim of harassing, jealous stalkers (in reality people who are simply critical of her and see through her lies), she doesn't have luck in love (in reality she was never a respectful partner, she always took guys for granted, put herself first), she is a perfect jewelery designer (in reality she strings cheap pearls together and leaves blobs of glue on them) etc. Overall, you can't reason with someone like that. Anything you say, they process as an attack on them. Absolutely unable to take a step back and evaluate their own actions. Everything is always somebody else's fault, everyone is always wishing them ill etc. We can write all constructive criticism we want but Smelle can't even process it in her smelly head. To her it's all just various forms of attack which she needs to fiercely defend herself from. By telling her dates that gossip threads about her exist, she is trying to come across as 'honest' and 'open', and place a message in their heads to approach all gossip about her with caution because it's going to be untrue.
Please don’t give her reasonable advice! While I don’t think she is self-aware enough to take your good intentions in the way they were meant and will probably lash out / dig her heels in, I need to observe this slow-motion train wreck for a lot longer. It is too entertaining to give up.Speaking truthfully here (and to Elle, if you're reading this): if you come on this strong with guys they WILL run. When you first meet a guy, don't get into your YouTube career, your haters, the gossip sites, your success, your wealth, etc.
When you bring those things up, PSYCHO alarm bells sound. Seriously. It's fine to say you want a long term relationship but for god's sake, TONE IT DOWN.
Now, my feeling is Elle's narcissism cannot be divorced from her personality so she will never listen.
I’m convinced she really is very busy all day. Busy trying to start serious relationships with random internet men all day. But actually, she must be sending paragraphs of messages back and forth between dozens of men. It’s a full time job to keep a handful of close relationships intact, so this is how she must be spending her entire days. VERY #girlboss.Guess what ladies, I found out that one of my friends ALSO MATCHED with our Smelleanore on a dating appHe didn't mention anything about sex (I don't think they even advanced to this stage ). Elle apparently told him about the gossip sites on internet and how her haters are so jealous of her achievements, success and wealth etc He did mention that she was looking for "SERIOUS" relationship and was ready to "settle." Our delusional 32 y.o. is desperately looking for her new Mr. Next for sure!
Let your freak flag fly, Eleanor Lecocq. I’m loving how delusional this girl is with her grandiose self image. Keep telling all the men about your “haters” and how “accomplished, successful, and wealthy” you are and let’s see how many of them are dumb enough to believe you. How narcissistic and deluded do you have to be to say stuff like this?Guess what ladies, I found out that one of my friends ALSO MATCHED with our Smelleanore on a dating appHe didn't mention anything about sex (I don't think they even advanced to this stage ). Elle apparently told him about the gossip sites on internet and how her haters are so jealous of her achievements, success and wealth etc He did mention that she was looking for "SERIOUS" relationship and was ready to "settle." Our delusional 32 y.o. is desperately looking for her new Mr. Next for sure!
Had he looked her up when they matched or were the gossip sites news to him?Guess what ladies, I found out that one of my friends ALSO MATCHED with our Smelleanore on a dating appHe didn't mention anything about sex (I don't think they even advanced to this stage ). Elle apparently told him about the gossip sites on internet and how her haters are so jealous of her achievements, success and wealth etc He did mention that she was looking for "SERIOUS" relationship and was ready to "settle." Our delusional 32 y.o. is desperately looking for her new Mr. Next for sure!
Interesting. Did he tell you what he thought of her?Guess what ladies, I found out that one of my friends ALSO MATCHED with our Smelleanore on a dating appHe didn't mention anything about sex (I don't think they even advanced to this stage ). Elle apparently told him about the gossip sites on internet and how her haters are so jealous of her achievements, success and wealth etc He did mention that she was looking for "SERIOUS" relationship and was ready to "settle." Our delusional 32 y.o. is desperately looking for her new Mr. Next for sure!
I agree with you, one of my former bffs who I had to dump was exactly like that. She lived in her own dreamworld and didn't view stuff the same as the rest of us. I put up with it for 17 years because she was my friend (we also lived in different state for the last 12 years of our friendship) but there is clearly a point where you just can't ignore it anymore.She's been ready to settle since she graduated university
I am starting to accept that Smelle is one of those people who live in some alternative reality created in their heads and you can tell them that white is white but they will insist it's black. My grandmother was like that so I have first hand experience of dealing with a person who may not be clinically insane but it's impossible to be around them because of how they perceive the world. And it's nothing to do with political views, more how they see themselves and others. People like that don't have many friends, they are manipulative hypocrites and will always twist the story to put themselves in a favourable light.
At this point, I am convinced Smelle must genuinely believe she is a victim of harassing, jealous stalkers (in reality people who are simply critical of her and see through her lies), she doesn't have luck in love (in reality she was never a respectful partner, she always took guys for granted, put herself first), she is a perfect jewelery designer (in reality she strings cheap pearls together and leaves blobs of glue on them) etc. Overall, you can't reason with someone like that. Anything you say, they process as an attack on them. Absolutely unable to take a step back and evaluate their own actions. Everything is always somebody else's fault, everyone is always wishing them ill etc. We can write all constructive criticism we want but Smelle can't even process it in her smelly head. To her it's all just various forms of attack which she needs to fiercely defend herself from. By telling her dates that gossip threads about her exist, she is trying to come across as 'honest' and 'open', and place a message in their heads to approach all gossip about her with caution because it's going to be untrue.
I’m no therapist, but this honestly sounds like some sort of mental illness. Kind of like Blanche DuBois from a Streetcar Named Desire lol.I agree with you, one of my former bffs who I had to dump was exactly like that. She lived in her own dreamworld and didn't view stuff the same as the rest of us. I put up with it for 17 years because she was my friend (we also lived in different state for the last 12 years of our friendship) but there is clearly a point where you just can't ignore it anymore.
No matter how many people thought her claims were ridiculous (from basic stuff like "you just aren't happy for me to finally achieve my dreams" to insane stuff like "I'm convinced x friend is carrying on a lesbian relationship with Y friend, we need to tell her husband and warn him" ) she just doubled down and dug herself in deeper.
Elle is very much this kind of person, she's got a narrative in her head and she needs to talk it up to match what she imagines.
Agreed! Her personality disorder is such that she’ll always be what she is, a stage 5 clinger and all.Speaking truthfully here (and to Elle, if you're reading this): if you come on this strong with guys they WILL run. When you first meet a guy, don't get into your YouTube career, your haters, the gossip sites, your success, your wealth, etc.
When you bring those things up, PSYCHO alarm bells sound. Seriously. It's fine to say you want a long term relationship but for god's sake, TONE IT DOWN.
Now, my feeling is Elle's narcissism cannot be divorced from her personality so she will never listen.
I vote for the latter. Pathological liars know what the reality is and when they are lying. They just can’t help it.I’m no therapist, but this honestly sounds like some sort of mental illness. Kind of like Blanche DuBois from a Streetcar Named Desire lol.
I can’t tell if Eleonore Lecocq is truly suffering from delusions of grandeur in a way that no non professional can figure out, or she’s actually aware of reality but thinks the lying and gaslighting will somehow cover that up, and make people think she’s better than she actually is.
Someone on here suggested she may have BPD aka Borderline Personality Disorder. I’m not saying that’s what she has but it lines up.I’m no therapist, but this honestly sounds like some sort of mental illness. Kind of like Blanche DuBois from a Streetcar Named Desire lol.
I can’t tell if Eleonore Lecocq is truly suffering from delusions of grandeur in a way that no non professional can figure out, or she’s actually aware of reality but thinks the lying and gaslighting will somehow cover that up, and make people think she’s better than she actually is.
I think it is pathological lying and the need to have attention on them at all times. I wonder if people who lie like that just like the reactions people give them and can't realize it isn't good attention?I vote for the latter. Pathological liars know what the reality is and when they are lying. They just can’t help it.
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