My main issue with Elaine is her sharing Neil’s personal life online. She has the right to post whatever she wants/thinks/feels on her account, but sharing information that concerns someone else and disclosing hugely personal information about someone into the public domain isn’t right. Does Neil know hundreds of strangers know his most personal details? About his past relationship? And now the ins and outs of his marriage breakdown? I would be devastated if my partner shared our private life with the whole internet. Discuss what you like about yourself Elaine, but please respect that other people don’t want the whole world knowing their business.