Exactly, no one knows what goes on behind closed doors
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Yeah like there are so many nuances to attraction and relationships are so complex. Physical beauty and attraction are important but actually it's just one small factor. And actually his cheating probably isn't about Dominique at all - it's related to his personality and his actions and his motives and maybe a million other things.
Also, yes! Why is "the other woman" never as good looking physically? It's like a law of physics
I contacted the one who mine had the affair with. Told her she should have more respect for herself. Even if she didn't care about me she knew he was married with two kids. Did she really think it was all gonna work out. She ran So fast there were streaks of fire. bleeping cowardYeah like there are so many nuances to attraction and relationships are so complex. Physical beauty and attraction are important but actually it's just one small factor. And actually his cheating probably isn't about Dominique at all - it's related to his personality and his actions and his motives and maybe a million other things.
Also, yes! Why is "the other woman" never as good looking physically? It's like a law of physics
Its like the old adage goes "if he'll do it with you, he'll do it to you" what makes these women think they'll have a better outcome? If they're not doing to potentially bag the man then why hurt the woman hes with.. so many questions? If they were so drawn to each other he should have come clean with Dominique beforehand and she should have told him she wouldnt settle for less. Such senseless hurt. Ill bet he'll be the bitter one in the end
My one would like all his insta posts but I thought nothing of it as she was a 'friend' from work and she was happily married with a child. How wrong I was when three weeks later after a split that came out of nowhere he was posting pics with her on work nights out and eventually came clean about cheating with her and how her marriage had broken down but it was confirmed later that she left him for my ex
she blocked me on all social media platforms in case I reached out to her 
The one mine cheated with actually contacted me and had an attitude like I was in the wrong (she knew he was with me). So brazen.
Poor poor dominique I don't even know her and I'm so upset for her it's just utterly heartbreaking! What happened?
This is a horrendous thing to happen to anyone. Dominique appears to be a lovely girl very happy go lucky and a very nice person. I really enjoy her stories and her content I’m so sad this happened to her. Her love for her family very apparent, the love she shows her sisters and her niece and nephew so strong. It’s so heartbreaking, I don’t know her but feel for her. Why are people like this? He had it all why did he throw it all away for a quick knee jerk? We are all human and make mistakes but that goes beyond that. I can’t ever understand why people (usually men) do that. She is a lovely person and it won’t seem like it now but it’s a blessing. That fucker would of went through with the wedding and dragged his lies through her life, lies always catch up with you. One day she’ll realise it was a blessing as difficult as it is for her now. I wish her only the best. Tattle can be dark at times but I think all you girls and you’re good wishes for her shows it’s not like that. There’s no words that unbreak a heart she’s a lovely person inside and out and her days will get better. Also graces by two faces is the worst friend in world. If I had a friend like that I wouldn’t need enemies. In the worst moments of heartbreak to see a ‘friend’ gloating wedding is the lowest of the low. You’ll never look half the babe Dominique is. If that 2faced grace had half a soul she’d hold off for a few months no need for it. Zenny should be informing her of bad karma
Yeah like there are so many nuances to attraction and relationships are so complex. Physical beauty and attraction are important but actually it's just one small factor. And actually his cheating probably isn't about Dominique at all - it's related to his personality and his actions and his motives and maybe a million other things.
Also, yes! Why is "the other woman" never as good looking physically? It's like a law of physics
Something to do with the cheater realising they’re not good enough for the person they’re with. Inferiority complex. If they’re with someone with a better paid job they cheat with someone with a less paid job also. Not an exact science but it happens a lot apparently.Who is Zenny? I’ve seen it typed a few times now? xThis is a horrendous thing to happen to anyone. Dominique appears to be a lovely girl very happy go lucky and a very nice person. I really enjoy her stories and her content I’m so sad this happened to her. Her love for her family very apparent, the love she shows her sisters and her niece and nephew so strong. It’s so heartbreaking, I don’t know her but feel for her. Why are people like this? He had it all why did he throw it all away for a quick knee jerk? We are all human and make mistakes but that goes beyond that. I can’t ever understand why people (usually men) do that. She is a lovely person and it won’t seem like it now but it’s a blessing. That fucker would of went through with the wedding and dragged his lies through her life, lies always catch up with you. One day she’ll realise it was a blessing as difficult as it is for her now. I wish her only the best. Tattle can be dark at times but I think all you girls and you’re good wishes for her shows it’s not like that. There’s no words that unbreak a heart she’s a lovely person inside and out and her days will get better. Also graces by two faces is the worst friend in world. If I had a friend like that I wouldn’t need enemies. In the worst moments of heartbreak to see a ‘friend’ gloating wedding is the lowest of the low. You’ll never look half the babe Dominique is. If that 2faced grace had half a soul she’d hold off for a few months no need for it. Zenny should be informing her of bad karma
Ah zen is graces new BFF she doesn’t blink and talks so slow you have to speed it up to listen. She can cure you of anxiety by sticking a candle in your ear but be aware that she can see dead people so it’s half seance. 2faces and Krispy went and upstyled her shed in the forest, it’s so relaxing now and if you want to gallivant around like the goddess you are you only have to invest 95 of your hard earned euros. Oh and her husband in is prison for a hit and run but she’s all about karma??? Not sure how that train of thought is working out for her
Although Damien is a complete head for doing this to Dom, I don't think it's fair to tar all men with one brush (if you can even call him a man). I was in a very abusive relationship for years, with constant cheating and drug use, he was an alcoholic and stole from me often even though he was earning 3x my wage and that's not even the tip of the iceberg. I finally got the strength and courage to leave him and started working on building myself back up to the old me and after only 3 months of being single my current partner came along out of no where, the LAST thing I was looking for was another relationship but he is amazing, we're together years now and I've never been happier. I just can't fathom comparing him to my ex and saying "they're all the same" because they're really not, there are a few gems out there. Dominique deserves so much more than him, he is a literal piece of tit.Men! That’s all I can sayThe bleeps always think the grass is greener!
Yeah I'm surprised everyone just banging on about her beauty. Yes she is beautiful but there is more to her than her beauty.
him cheating on her is not related to that anyway. people deserve to not be cheated on whether they are beautiful or not. He probably would have cheated on her even if she was a supermodel. It is to do with him not her.
also the other girl knowing or not doesn't really matter at all. It was him who is in a relationship and did that to Dom not the other girl. Why use the other girl to deflect from his crappy behaviour. it's all on him.
either way Dom dodged a bullet and she is a lovely person. seems to have a good support network and I wish her well.
him cheating on her is not related to that anyway. people deserve to not be cheated on whether they are beautiful or not. He probably would have cheated on her even if she was a supermodel. It is to do with him not her.
also the other girl knowing or not doesn't really matter at all. It was him who is in a relationship and did that to Dom not the other girl. Why use the other girl to deflect from his crappy behaviour. it's all on him.
either way Dom dodged a bullet and she is a lovely person. seems to have a good support network and I wish her well.
Oh yeah I 100% agree. Not putting all men in the same category, I’m engaged to a fantastic guy and we’ve a great relationship. But let’s face it, the majority of us gals mature a lot more than men, there are so many Peter Pans out there that don’t think about the repercussions when they lie and cheat. I know girls chest aswell but you get where I’m coming from!!
Not all men
3 months... Wow, how did you do that?
I agree not all men are bad, but no one can ever say they 100% trust their partner (both men and women), it would be naive to think that.
My heart is completely broken for Dominique, I actually cried reading her post because it literally brought me back to my situation. I totally understand how she feels about being betrayed but not only her, her family too. My ex cheated on me and absolutely broke my heart, as she said your best friend becomes a stranger, I lost my house and my huge group of "friends". Had to get an STD test and all! I literally could not eat or sleep, I lost 2 stone in weight and unfortunately got PTSD from it all. You feel like you can never trust anyone again. I went to counselling and still go the odd time because it does always linger. My ex was with the girl he cheated with a week after we broke up and they became a couple. She blocked me on his Facebook page and all, was sending me messages to "stay away from her man". I'm telling ya she was crazy! As many people have said on here- if they do it with you they will do it to you and sure as God that happened! They ended about 4 months later because he off course couldn't keep his pants on! Cheating has nothing to do with you as a person it's the cheaters issues and insecurities! Fast forward 2 years on I am with an absolute dream of a partner a year and a half, he came out of no where! I trust him 100 percent and am feeling good! I wish I could just give Dominique and any girl out there going through this a big hug and tell them it will be OK! Its a long road but with good support and determination you do arrive at a more beautiful place in your life. I hope she stays well away from him, I would block him on everything and if she knows the girl, I'd block her too! He sounds like an extremely tit person. I just can't condone cheating it actually nearly destroys the person you cheated on.
I agree that he was in the relationship. But the girl who went with him is nasty too. No one should get involved with someone in a relationship. I just couldn’t do that on another woman- knowing the pain it would cause. It by no means excuses what he did. He is rum for causing that pain. But the girl who he was with needs to take responsibility for the role she played too
I’m getting strength from reading all you ladies experience. Things like this should be spoken about more. We hear about people having affairs or breaking up but don’t hear the pain behind things or the struggles that are faced.
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Two sides to every story!
They were broken up with a few weeks before he met this guard. Had moved out. He called off wedding, refused to set a new date without ironing out problems and she refused to compromise.
Doesn’t mean he’s not a wick for going off with someone so quickly but the narrative is very one sided.
Neither of them are right and All round a sad situation.
They were broken up with a few weeks before he met this guard. Had moved out. He called off wedding, refused to set a new date without ironing out problems and she refused to compromise.
Doesn’t mean he’s not a wick for going off with someone so quickly but the narrative is very one sided.
Neither of them are right and All round a sad situation.
I’ve heard the guard he cheated with is early twenties and he’s not the first work colleague she’s got up on....more like the 5th / 6th....
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