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Ahhere

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In my opinion, and unfortunately experience, Damien and this girl are both nasty tramps, him more so than her but she followed Dom and saw their life unfold, that's just mind boggling.
Before it happened to me I would have been the one standing up for the other woman, completely, but not now I've seen what these types of women can be like.
I accept some women are duped by men into believing they're single etc
If I spoke for hours about what it was like I'll never even get close. When you find out, that moment, your body tingles and shakes, your legs go from under you, at least mine did. Everything around me was gone, I couldn't hear anything. The shock was life changing.
I couldn't eat, some days I literally had to drag myself off the floor.
I told people I wouldn't normally have told anything to, you're in shock, you're vulnerable. Your whole life as you knew it is over. Forever. You will never be the same person you once were.
As the weeks go by you start to think back and you see now when they were together. While you were at home, innocently watching tv, or putting the kids to bed, he was with her.
You think of times he stood beside you when you were with your family and friends and all the time he was seeing her.
You go through the day, work, life like a zombie. When the tears come it's almost suffocating.
I was contacted by her after he had ended it, she sent me screenshots and photos. Sometimes I'll just be driving along and I'll think about it and I'll feel sick. This is five years later.
I have a great job, family, lovely friends, I travel a lot, keep fit and this brought me to my knees.
Damien is a tramp. She will flourish, believe me it's possible. The other woman is also a tramp, anyone who sticks up for her are not my people. Low self-esteem etc are not excuses to ruin lives and it does ruin lives. A family friend died by suicide after the discovery of an affair. I never contemplated it but there were days I wished I didn't exist. Today I can talk about it without feeling that pain so I've healed but it was a battle.
To all the ladies who've been through the same, I see you and you are amazing x
 
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Cat23

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He is some fool to loose a woman like Dominique she is beautiful inside and out. My heart breaks for her 💔 Also fbg is nobody's friend to be constantly posting about her wedding she could of down played it a bit for the sake of her best friend. What a bitch 😒
 
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I do honestly feel really bad for her, I wouldn’t wish that on anyone but she put herself in the spotlight and spoke about the wedding all the time so what did she expect? Her relationship was not private. Yeah she didn’t post pics of him but their relationship, engagement and wedding was pretty public. I’m engaged 2 years and I haven’t even posted on my social media that I’m engaged

I don't really agree. Her relationship was private. She shared her engagement pictures, why shouldn't she? And she shared a bit about her wedding, as it was something she was excited about, but she didn't share much at all. In fact she was keeping a lot of it a secret until after the wedding. She didn't ever say much about her relationship, that was very separate as Damien didn't like to be online. She puts herself out there yes but that doesn't mean she owes us anything. Her page is mainly fashion and I don't think her aim was ever to share the ins and outs of her life. I think she was very brave to come out and do what she did today. She could have easily let people speculate for longer and just eventually say that they broke up. She is not a full time blogger like others, she has a regular job. She doesn't put everything online like others do. I really admire her and I hope she sees how much support she has.
 
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Olive85

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96 thousand people need to know she’s getting and STI test done.
right so. 😐
Ah that's a bit of a ridiculous thing to say. If she can take the stigma away from getting an STI test then fair play to her. She didn't go in to detail. It is something that should be done after you've been cheated on but I'm sure some people still feel shame or embarrassed going
 
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BigQueenEnergy

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My friend had her wedding booked and her fiancé came home and told her he didn’t love her anymore just a coupla months out. Turned out he’d been cheating. He’s married now (not to the cheater!) and has a baby and my friend almost bankrupt herself trying to pay for their home herself, so much that she had to rent it out and now lives back in her mams box room at age 35.... it’s terribly sad but she feels like he stole her chance at a happy life and this happened over 5 years ago....
Same here :(

I’m 35 and living back home with my mother because I lost everything. Meanwhile, he’s living his best life. It’s like a nightmare.

But I refuse to let him ruin me. I’m not giving up. I don’t care if it takes me another 10 years to get back on my feet. I won’t let him destroy my chance at a happy life.

He also gave me STD’s from his cheating -
one which I have for life, and the other scarred my tubes so I can’t have kids naturally. Life is so unfair, but I can’t give up.
 
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Ah lads give her a break. Her whole world has just been turned upside down. It might not be what everyone would do but it's her way of coping. Maybe it's a cry for help, maybe she wants people to reach out and offer to come over, maybe she wants Damien to see how upset she is - who knows. And I think it's unfair to say she should deactivate her account. I think it would do her the world of good yes, but she might be getting a lot of comfort from it. I know she was saying she wasn't looking at her messages but maybe seeing a few pop up every now and then is giving her comfort and making her feel less lonely. She might regret posting some things but who doesn't regret a few things they did after a break up - it's an extremely traumatic time being so blindsided, from experience.
 
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Daisy03

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In my experience the people that call the guards names are the ones that have a lot of dealings with them and for all the wrong reasons.

Most people dont have to deal the guards too often and would have no reason to call them names.
 
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Haven’t-a-breeze

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Everyone knew but nobody bothered to tell Dominique 🤔 I’m sure people knew her from Instagram. That’s so bad I’d never be able to sit back and let that happen to someone even if I barley knew them.
I witnessed a guy (brother of my boyfriend at the time) cheating on his girlfriend. My bf subsequently told me he did it all the time. I thought it was awful and I felt so guilty for knowing so I told his girlfriend, who I got on with really well (we’d go to the gym together, for drinks etc.) and she did not take me telling her well. She called me a jealous liar, told him what I’d said, he called to my house shouting at me. His family (my bf’s family too) all turned against me and my relationship ended not long after that. They’re married to other people now (as are my ex and me) but my point is, some people don’t want to know. I really think that’s what happened in my case. You can end up being the bad guy for saying anything.
 
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7UP

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Had similar happen me... He fucked off with some bird he met on his stag weekend only few weeks before the wedding. Packed his bags and shacked up with her. Wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. Horrendous at the time but I'm laughing now about it because what a bullet I dodged.

Why do men have to be such clichés.
 
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Mona86

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Ladies every single one of you sharing your story I take my hat off to your honesty and strength
 
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EggChair

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I feel like the worst person starting this thread on her. I never wanted it to be about gossip, I just really liked her and honestly missed her stories from instagram.
My heart is breaking for her right now. She is lovely and genuine and did not deserve to he treated like this by that sad excuse of a man.
 
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Me1234

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Meanwhile .....in a desperate bid to divert attention from her bestie.....

Grace has thrown Loki out the car door in the middle of the night. He is now " missing" presumed much happier.
 
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ahtisyourself

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No shame in getting an STI test. She’s taking responsibility for her sexual health. Fair play to her. A lot of girls/lads followers in similar boats might not have had the thought to. I really don’t see what the big deal is talking about getting checked. We’re in 2020. Sexual health talk is no longer swept under the rug or icky 💁🏼‍♀️
 
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This is what really bothers me about the internet. Everyone speaks about mental health and not being afraid to speak out/show emotions and then you have Dominique sharing moments during an extremely hard time for her and you get people calling her cringe. She posted a song, big deal. Some of you seem lucky enough to have never had your heart broken and it shows.

Dominique has previously spoken so openly about her mental health. It seemed like Damien was a big part in helping her with that and making her feel safe which has now been taken away. She'll be fine, she'll be happy again and become more independent and find a new safety blanket in her friends and family but for now the poor girl is heartbroken. Let her post whatever she wants
 
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Jumperoo4

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Dom isn't as innocent as she would try to make people believe and the other person's don't have a platform. She's gained twenty thousand followers from this all. She's manipulative.
Yeah I am sure this was all a big plan to gain 20k followers her life has been turned upside down! Get a life - setting up a profile to back up your cheating pals
 
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Nike270

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Wow I'm genuinely shocked! Fair play to her, I admire her strength to come out on her wedding day and tell her truth and rightly so she has nothing to be ashamed of, time is certainly a healer and she will come out of this stronger than she ever imagined. Always trust your gut ladies! Dominique I applaud your courage 👏👏👏
 
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