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It's honestly a problem! A few girls I know were riddled with depression when their wedding day was over because they were no longer "relevant" and the spotlight wasn't on them anymore... that's when you know it's time to post a pregnancy announcement. 
Don't get me wrong, I love to see people happy and doing well in life. I just think the pressure people put themselves under to have this perfect "instagrammable" life is insane.
Don't get me wrong, I love to see people happy and doing well in life. I just think the pressure people put themselves under to have this perfect "instagrammable" life is insane.
I’m engaged 6 years and married 5. Agree with everything said here- I posted very little about mine. One think not mentioned are the saps who change to their married name as soon as the ceremony is over
This is so good… When I see all this shite I do wonder how anyone got married at allProbably gonna get some stick for this from the married girlies but I'm of the age now where most people I know are getting married and the women are making it their whole personality. Have some girlies got no other aspirations in life other than to be married? It seems to equate to success? I see this in Dominique too. It's like in some women's minds they've made it in life if a man marries them?
We all know the type. They get engaged... there's numerous posts on IG about that. Then they pick "their venue" (as if hundreds before them haven't gotten married there) and we have numerous posts about that. Then it's "I said yes to the dress!!!!" then we're onto sending out boxes to their best mates "I can't say I do without you..." then we have the Hen parties. Numerous posts about that. Then finally we reach the wedding day. Numerous posts about that for weeks. Then for the rest of our lives we've to watch throwbacks of their magical day "wish we could do this day again!"
I'm not a bit romantic so I don't understand this behaviour. I don't begrudge anyone their happiness. I just think some things are sacred and don't need to be shoved down your IG followings throat at every opportunity.
I'm not saying every married woman is like this... Just some of the ones I know...
I have 2 close friends who married straight out of college and are now divorced/separated. They both admit they wanted the wedding but couldn’t see it at the timeThis is so good… When I see all this shite I do wonder how anyone got married at all
Oh God, you've just brought back a memory of someone I know who literally posted a video of herself changing her surname in her Facebook settings the morning after the wedding. Mortifying behaviour.
In fairness I waited two days, and wanted a new name
2 days is fine, it’s the people who are sat on their phones DURING their wedding day that makes me cringe. Have one day of enjoyment without your head down on social media. But that’s just me I have a real bugbear about people sitting on their phones during certain things 
This2 days is fine, it’s the people who are sat on their phones DURING their wedding day that makes me cringe. Have one day of enjoyment without your head down on social media. But that’s just me I have a real bugbear about people sitting on their phones during certain things
I know someone who had a new email address with their "new" last name within 24 hoursThat's just a load of hassle though isn't it? Nah, can't be bothered doing thatThis
I know someone like this . For 2 years before the wedding she had a chalk board with XXX days til I become a Mrs. They missed the first course of their meal at the wedding because they were still out trying to get all of the photos!!!! Then it was 1 week since my wedding. 1 month since the wedding. 1 year etc. Then when the kids came along it was even worse!!!! Some people are just addicted to the attention.
I personally think women like that feel they lack something in themselves and thats why they carry on like that. Its so sad, women have come a long way since we were defined by relationships and men, I find it so depressing that some women still see weddings and being married as the be all and end all.
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I know someone who did that too, the marriage barely lasted 6mths and she changed back, oh the effort lol
Lol!! Apart from feminism the admin of it all would put me off the mostI know someone who did that too, the marriage barely lasted 6mths and she changed back, oh the effort lol
Has there been any word on what date in June Dom is getting married and where
No not yetHas there been any word on what date in June Dom is getting married and where
she's managed to keep those details to herself so far. Which is mad considering how much talking/posting she does about being engagedDoes anyone actually care?Has there been any word on what date in June Dom is getting married and where
Personally, nope not a bit.Does anyone actually care?
Sure, when the time comes, I'm sure I'll take a look at her dress out of curiosity but between now and then (whenever then is), I couldn't be arsed giving it a moments thought. Other peoples weddings, much like other peoples children, are pretty boring at this point. Unless we're close family of friends, I couldn't give a hoot.
What I am interested to see however, is whether HIM gets a hair transplant for the big day
Cough cough This is why you ain’t coming to my wedding Felicia! The neeakkkProbably gonna get some stick for this from the married girlies but I'm of the age now where most people I know are getting married and the women are making it their whole personality. Have some girlies got no other aspirations in life other than to be married? It seems to equate to success? I see this in Dominique too. It's like in some women's minds they've made it in life if a man marries them?
We all know the type. They get engaged... there's numerous posts on IG about that. Then they pick "their venue" (as if hundreds before them haven't gotten married there) and we have numerous posts about that. Then it's "I said yes to the dress!!!!" then we're onto sending out boxes to their best mates "I can't say I do without you..." then we have the Hen parties. Numerous posts about that. Then finally we reach the wedding day. Numerous posts about that for weeks. Then for the rest of our lives we've to watch throwbacks of their magical day "wish we could do this day again!"
I'm not a bit romantic so I don't understand this behaviour. I don't begrudge anyone their happiness. I just think some things are sacred and don't need to be shoved down your IG followings throat at every opportunity.
I'm not saying every married woman is like this... Just some of the ones I know...
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