I was given a token ring when I got engaged, got the proper one a few months later after spending time with a jeweller making what I wanted … The token ring was only a couple of hundred euro and tarnished after a while but I still adore it! It’s not uncommon for people to do that (if they have a slightly lazy husband like me!) so I really don’t get where the hate over her getting her actual ring is coming from!
Foolish of her to keep wearing it when it’s too big tho, she was bound to lose it!..