Do you think my boyfriends request is unreasonable (sexual)?

[Ohno]

Name change for this but been on tattle for months.

My boyfriend has requested something in the bedroom and it really turns my stomach.

He wants to put peanut butter on my bum hole, then me fart and him lick and eat it.

That's not a normal thing to do and i really don't like it.

Am I being unreasonable or is he? Would you do it? Sorry for sharing this !!

 

[Ellsbells123]

I’m sorry but noooooo!!!! It sounds totally disgusting, but it’s all about what you feel comfortable with. The fact you have asked means you don’t think it is right??

 

[Yoghurtpots]

I’m sorry but noooooo!!!! It sounds totally disgusting, but it’s all about what you feel comfortable with. The fact you have asked means you don’t think it is right??

I think we are being trolled.. probably by one of the floggers.

 

[Meg1912]

I'm sorry, but I actually had to stop for a second after reading your post as I really thought you were joking!
If you aren't comfortable with his request (rightly so!), then he really should understand it (unless he's an idiot) and you could suggest other ways of fulfilling his peanut butter fantasies, ways that don't involve putting it in places it might make you end up in the hospital! https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a19922566/food-for-foreplay/
At the end of the day, us ladies have a pretty good intuition, so I'd say definitely follow yours! [emoji6]
I shall never look at pb the same way. [emoji1785][emoji1785]

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[Apple In My Pie]

Don’t think it’s right to call it disgusting (even if I think it is ) because it’s fairly harmless really - he’s not trying to harm you or break boundaries. But. Sex and intimacy is only ever enjoyable if the two of you are comfortable and consenting to whatever acts that you want to do in the bedroom, so on that basis no, YANBU to not want to do it! Of course not. And he shouldn’t pressure you into trying it if you’ve said you don’t want to try it. Perhaps you could look at other, more palatable ways of incorporating his fantasy like a PP said/linked. I know food is linked to sex a fair bit!

 

[Sabbie]

Does he request a certain food to eat in advance to bring on those foofters? I am not one to trump on command.

Whatever you end up doing, make sure he has a separate special cupboard for those jams and spreads.

 

[DirtyLaundry]

If it makes you feel any better a ex collegue of mine said he wanted to take a tit on the toilet while I had sex with him.

I politely declined.

 

[Youtubegossip]

Haha this has got to be trolling. How do you time it for starters, you just lay there with peanut butter on your ass until you’ve brewed a good fart?

Sorry if this is real, but it’s just insane

 

[DirtyLaundry]

Haha this has got to be trolling. How do you time it for starters, you just lay there with peanut butter on your ass until you’ve brewed a good fart?

Sorry if this is real, but it’s just insane

I bet he's seen it on porn hub.

Said collegue also told me about his favourite type of porn and I found that worse than his request.

 

[Youtubegossip]

I bet he's seen it on porn hub.

Said collegue also told me about his favourite type of porn and I found that worse than his request.

Some people blow my mind ha. Each to their own I guess as long as it’s harmless and legal

 

[ChrissyPoo]

Sounds like something Chris Ingham would be into...

 

[Oohthedrama]

Jesus bleeping Christ why is this here.
Sorry I’m no prude but duck sake why is this a thread.

Ok but seriously
And he didn’t even ask for jam???? What a bleeping Animal.
Who eats peanut butter with no jam.
How do you know if you’re gonna fart, what if it’s a shart, that’s gonna kill the moment
Have you got IBS? Could be difficult.....
crunchy or smooth. Organic or own brand
SO MANY QUESTIONS.
I mean it’s a good source of protein so at least he’s being health conscious.

This is definitely trolling.

 

[Yel]

Lot's of reports on this, just adding it does appear to come from someone that's had an account for several months with a good post to like ratio. Although two accounts is against the rules, not sure what else to say here..

 

[Oohthedrama]

Lot's of reports on this, just adding it does appear to come from someone that's had an account for several months with a good post to like ratio. Although two accounts is against the rules, not sure what else to say here..

Honest opinion. It’s a bit too crude for me. I think it’s taking the site into the gutter. It’s not a serious question and if it is I never want to meet this couple in real life.
No judgment...I’m so judging!!
But there are sites specifically for this type of stuff.
I’m sure
Maybe a “what I eat in a day, vegan type site”

 

[Meg1912]

@Oohthedrama, OH MY GOD. You killed me! Actually crying from laughter! [emoji1787][emoji1787][emoji1787]
Tbh I'd say this is the same girl who a while back started a thread on here asking for advice after her boyfriend peed on her in the shower. If so, girl, ditch him! You really deserve better!
If you're not the same girl, maybe make a cake with pb frosting and he can play with it? [emoji2368][emoji23]

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[DirtyLaundry]

I don't think this is trolling. People are really into some strange tit.

Just tell your boyfriend that the peanut thing really isn't going to do it for you. I mean you could always leave the peanut/farting out of it and adapt the fantasy slightly if you like bum fun

How long have you been with him? Do you love him? It might have taken him a while to pluck up the confidence to ask you.

If it's a new relationship I would probably do a runner.

I'm really sorry if my advice is crap. I'm not a cosmopolitan reader.

Edit: If this is the girl that got pee'd on then you need to go into hiding. I don't want to see you on the true crime channel.

 

[DirtyLaundry]

Lot's of reports on this, just adding it does appear to come from someone that's had an account for several months with a good post to like ratio. Although two accounts is against the rules, not sure what else to say here..

I'm sorry. Please delete my post if its against the rules I only shared because I felt guilty for laughing.

Edit: misread your post about 2 accounts.

 

[Oohthedrama]

Ok so I’m a dog with glasses and I’m ALL about the judgment.
If this Is Pissing Pete from the last “advice” post @Meg1912 and he’s now pissing, Randy peanut butter Pete you both need help.
Or a channel 5 series coming soon.
My issue (aside from the “whole earth” abuse) is the thread name.
(Sexual) ?
I’d be more turned on squeezing a dogs anal glands. Don’t give this option to Pete.

Bin him. He can be that good looking, nobody can be that good looking, and if he is really bleeping hot, to the point you might be willing to spread and, spread add ten years (and a few jars of crunchy) to that face.
Because looks fade. You can remove yourself now,
I’ve heard Peanut butter splattered on the walls is harder to remove.
This will not be a funny tale to tell the grandkids.

No offence.

 

[DirtyLaundry]

I do think Oh has a point. The thread name made me sad.

'Do you think my boyfriends request is unreasonable?'

You need to know what's unreasonable for you a bunch of strangers can't say yes or no. Learn to stand up for yourself. If it feels wrong for you then it probably is wrong.

What works for one person won't necessarily work for another person.

Don't let people treat you badly.

 

[GossWhore]

That's some freaky deaky tit.

Its Sunday yall. The Lord is watching. Jesus please take the wheel. I'm walking. [emoji23]

Maybe there's an app for people that like peanut butter on their butthole?

Like Grindr

Buttr? [emoji23][emoji23]